Big Dumb Bear
@bigdumbbear.bsky.social
6'3"/190 cm, 240 lbs/110 kg bear in Palm Springs, California. Married, demi, submissive. Partial to cigar men and leather bears. Dad to a couple of amazing boys.
BigDumbBear on Hank Social, Recon, and Scruff; cpuready on Instagram. BLUF #5146.
BigDumbBear on Hank Social, Recon, and Scruff; cpuready on Instagram. BLUF #5146.
At the Eagle Cathedral City with a handsome fella from DC yesterday
November 2, 2026 at 12:54 PM
At the Eagle Cathedral City with a handsome fella from DC yesterday
Gay bars would be a whole lot more awesome if there was a single, dedicated bar station that sold absolutely nothing but one single cup of ordinary draft beer with a tap-to-pay panel that charged $5 including tip: tap your card, grab your beer, and go
November 2, 2026 at 2:31 AM
Gay bars would be a whole lot more awesome if there was a single, dedicated bar station that sold absolutely nothing but one single cup of ordinary draft beer with a tap-to-pay panel that charged $5 including tip: tap your card, grab your beer, and go
Stood next to a fella wearing an American fireman’s uniform at a costume party tonight; I was wearing a French one. The contrast was insane - he looked ready to put out a fire; I looked like I miiight be able to deal with a crème brûlée incident if wasn’t on a smoke break or at the beach in August
November 1, 2026 at 4:39 AM
Stood next to a fella wearing an American fireman’s uniform at a costume party tonight; I was wearing a French one. The contrast was insane - he looked ready to put out a fire; I looked like I miiight be able to deal with a crème brûlée incident if wasn’t on a smoke break or at the beach in August
Absolutely no idea what’s happening here or what I’m looking at… a total mystery
October 30, 2026 at 3:24 PM
Absolutely no idea what’s happening here or what I’m looking at… a total mystery
Pro tip: if you’re headed to the Cathedral City Eagle, they don’t take cash! Didn’t have a card on me last night; thankfully, Apple Pay worked just fine. Pretty sure that’s the first time I didn’t pay cash at a bar in California.
October 30, 2026 at 2:08 PM
Pro tip: if you’re headed to the Cathedral City Eagle, they don’t take cash! Didn’t have a card on me last night; thankfully, Apple Pay worked just fine. Pretty sure that’s the first time I didn’t pay cash at a bar in California.
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Geared up with @joearctos.bsky.social and @bigdumbbear.bsky.social.
October 26, 2026 at 10:34 PM
Geared up with @joearctos.bsky.social and @bigdumbbear.bsky.social.
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October 25, 2026 at 9:54 PM
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Male bonding w/ @bigdumbbear.bsky.social
October 15, 2026 at 2:15 PM
Male bonding w/ @bigdumbbear.bsky.social
Last weekend was good… had the privilege of sitting for a strikingly handsome bootblack at the Tool Shed Friday evening
October 12, 2026 at 1:11 PM
Last weekend was good… had the privilege of sitting for a strikingly handsome bootblack at the Tool Shed Friday evening
Last summer in France was hot; this summer was even hotter.
Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025
Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025
October 6, 2026 at 3:08 PM
Last summer in France was hot; this summer was even hotter.
Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025
Hat tip: @mascularstudio.bsky.social August 2025
Some notes on these pictures:
1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
September 30, 2026 at 1:19 PM
Some notes on these pictures:
1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
1. On the left: the first explicit picture was shared without my consent; I was on a work trip to Seattle in May, 2015 and found myself chatting with an Englishman on GROWLr (as one does). Some time later, a friend in San Diego sent me this and asked: is that you?
BigDumbBear (@BigDumbBear)
Cigars. Leather. Bears. Service.
hanksocial.com
September 29, 2026 at 3:15 PM
Probably not gonna wear this hat to BLUF night next weekend 😅
September 29, 2026 at 1:36 AM
Probably not gonna wear this hat to BLUF night next weekend 😅
Happy Dolly Parton Day, everyone.
September 25, 2026 at 9:42 PM
Happy Dolly Parton Day, everyone.
Objects in mirror are closer than they appear
September 25, 2026 at 4:10 PM
Objects in mirror are closer than they appear
Good morning from Palm Springs! The days are getting shorter... which means it's finally getting cool enough for morning walks.
September 24, 2026 at 1:17 PM
Good morning from Palm Springs! The days are getting shorter... which means it's finally getting cool enough for morning walks.
Cooler weather means morning hikes are on again for the season here in Palm Springs
September 21, 2026 at 3:12 PM
Cooler weather means morning hikes are on again for the season here in Palm Springs
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Hiking the Dolomites. 🌿
September 20, 2026 at 2:37 PM
Hiking the Dolomites. 🌿
Caught up with a high school classmate today...
"One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…."
I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
"One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…."
I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
September 19, 2026 at 7:16 PM
Caught up with a high school classmate today...
"One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…."
I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
"One memory stands out, sitting with you and others at a round table in the cafeteria by the windows facing the library and you were talking about forearm tattoos to signal how far up someone’s ass they have been…."
I'm impressed by 16-year-old me.
One year ago this week 🥵
September 18, 2026 at 11:42 AM
One year ago this week 🥵
I generally read as unapproachable, I know. I tend towards being quiet and respectful towards others, especially fellas I really want to get naked with. (I blame the Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy - I was a student there in 1990.)
I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
September 17, 2026 at 5:08 PM
I generally read as unapproachable, I know. I tend towards being quiet and respectful towards others, especially fellas I really want to get naked with. (I blame the Antioch College Sexual Offense Prevention Policy - I was a student there in 1990.)
I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
I wish I knew how to fix that, but there you go.
Went to the place and did the thing last night
September 17, 2026 at 1:02 PM
Went to the place and did the thing last night
Wishing the inimitable @bearspanks.bsky.social the happiest of birthdays today - it's my 57th and his 45th. Spankings gladly accepted, obvs.
September 16, 2026 at 12:18 PM
Wishing the inimitable @bearspanks.bsky.social the happiest of birthdays today - it's my 57th and his 45th. Spankings gladly accepted, obvs.
Having a Dad moment here…
September 15, 2026 at 10:02 PM
Having a Dad moment here…
Practicing Resting Bear Face for deployment in LA next month
September 14, 2026 at 11:29 PM
Practicing Resting Bear Face for deployment in LA next month