Chindilani Filifilidh Andekalithan
@chindilani.substack.com
PhD student (philosophy): Hauntology, uncanny ontology, phenomenology of pregnancy
Daseinsanalyst
Final girl at That Final Girl Life podcast
Death café host
Daseinsanalyst
Final girl at That Final Girl Life podcast
Death café host
Interesting article from the International Cultic Studies Association about the similarities between survivors of cults and survivors of narcissistic abuse.
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Can post-cult recovery help survivors of narcissistic abuse?
Researchers examine parallels between narcissistic abuse and cult indoctrination and consider how post-cult recovery approaches could inform treatment for survivors.
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September 29, 2026 at 9:32 AM
Interesting article from the International Cultic Studies Association about the similarities between survivors of cults and survivors of narcissistic abuse.
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This week's episode of That Final Girl Life is now live! We're discussing Joy from Raging Grace (2023), and as a result we're learning about chronic stress and its links to autoimmune disease.
Look, I never said life as a final girl was easy...
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Look, I never said life as a final girl was easy...
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E12 Joy from Raging Grace (2023) | That Final Girl Life
Resources used: Books Peacebuilding and Memory in the Philippines: Transgenerational Resilience by Primitivo III Cabanes Ragandang Social me
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September 27, 2026 at 11:57 AM
This week's episode of That Final Girl Life is now live! We're discussing Joy from Raging Grace (2023), and as a result we're learning about chronic stress and its links to autoimmune disease.
Look, I never said life as a final girl was easy...
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Look, I never said life as a final girl was easy...
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If you're on the Haunted Dolls or Avenging Angels tier of That Final Girl Life, then there's a new post for you in the Final Girl Diary.
61 things 2016 me wanted to do one day, and a ten-year update on their status:
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61 things 2016 me wanted to do one day, and a ten-year update on their status:
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One Hundred Things | That Final Girl Life
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September 23, 2026 at 11:55 PM
If you're on the Haunted Dolls or Avenging Angels tier of That Final Girl Life, then there's a new post for you in the Final Girl Diary.
61 things 2016 me wanted to do one day, and a ten-year update on their status:
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61 things 2016 me wanted to do one day, and a ten-year update on their status:
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To be fair, I sometimes do feel like I'm more of a conceptual theatre piece than a human being.
September 21, 2026 at 10:08 PM
To be fair, I sometimes do feel like I'm more of a conceptual theatre piece than a human being.
Do you enjoy discussing morbid things with a group of surprisingly friendly people? Come along to our hangout on Tuesday, where Fahime Hajiabadi will share her research into griefbots and we'll chat about how @blackmirror.bsky.social episodes are becoming reality:
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Black Mirror's "Be Right Back": A Psychoanalytic Perspective on Griefbots
Fahime Hajiabadi presents her research on griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective, using the example of Black Mirror's "Be Right Back."
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September 20, 2026 at 12:40 PM
Do you enjoy discussing morbid things with a group of surprisingly friendly people? Come along to our hangout on Tuesday, where Fahime Hajiabadi will share her research into griefbots and we'll chat about how @blackmirror.bsky.social episodes are becoming reality:
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The full BTS from this week's episode is available now for Patreon subscribers! Here are some highlights:
Like movies, psychology and sociology? Find us on patreon.com/thatfinalgirllife -- all episodes are free; paid tiers get BTS content.
Like movies, psychology and sociology? Find us on patreon.com/thatfinalgirllife -- all episodes are free; paid tiers get BTS content.
September 20, 2026 at 12:34 PM
The full BTS from this week's episode is available now for Patreon subscribers! Here are some highlights:
Like movies, psychology and sociology? Find us on patreon.com/thatfinalgirllife -- all episodes are free; paid tiers get BTS content.
Like movies, psychology and sociology? Find us on patreon.com/thatfinalgirllife -- all episodes are free; paid tiers get BTS content.
This episode was a really interesting one to write. I learned a lot about the history of the Philippines.
If you enjoy learning about decolonisation, intergenerational trauma or anti-racism, you might find this interesting.
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If you enjoy learning about decolonisation, intergenerational trauma or anti-racism, you might find this interesting.
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E11 Grace from Raging Grace (2023) | That Final Girl Life
Resources used: Articles '"I know what you've been through. You're in good hands." Life as an immigration lawyer' The Law Society blog, 16th
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September 14, 2026 at 11:50 AM
This episode was a really interesting one to write. I learned a lot about the history of the Philippines.
If you enjoy learning about decolonisation, intergenerational trauma or anti-racism, you might find this interesting.
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If you enjoy learning about decolonisation, intergenerational trauma or anti-racism, you might find this interesting.
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Having now uploaded my book collection to Hardcover I am struck by how many of the books I want to read are books that live in my house with me.
The thought crossed my mind that perhaps I shouldn't allow myself to acquire any more books for a while but don't worry, I squashed that thought quickly.
The thought crossed my mind that perhaps I shouldn't allow myself to acquire any more books for a while but don't worry, I squashed that thought quickly.
September 13, 2026 at 6:30 PM
Having now uploaded my book collection to Hardcover I am struck by how many of the books I want to read are books that live in my house with me.
The thought crossed my mind that perhaps I shouldn't allow myself to acquire any more books for a while but don't worry, I squashed that thought quickly.
The thought crossed my mind that perhaps I shouldn't allow myself to acquire any more books for a while but don't worry, I squashed that thought quickly.
If you're on any of the paid tiers (starting at just £3.33!), the latest BTS episode is now up. This time we have a final girl who is a child: the adorable, mischievous Grace from Raging Grace (2023):
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BTS E9: Grace from Raging Grace | That Final Girl Life
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September 12, 2026 at 8:53 PM
If you're on any of the paid tiers (starting at just £3.33!), the latest BTS episode is now up. This time we have a final girl who is a child: the adorable, mischievous Grace from Raging Grace (2023):
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September 12, 2026 at 1:45 AM
Therapy friends: our next discussion group is about griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective, presented by Fahime Haijabadi who has recently written a paper on the topic.
Come along! Tickets are pay what you want.
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Come along! Tickets are pay what you want.
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September 9, 2026 at 8:24 AM
Therapy friends: our next discussion group is about griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective, presented by Fahime Haijabadi who has recently written a paper on the topic.
Come along! Tickets are pay what you want.
www.eventbrite.com/e/black-mirr...
Come along! Tickets are pay what you want.
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Reposted by Chindilani Filifilidh Andekalithan
'The Horizons of Experience: A Husserlian Exploration' - BSP Online Course
With Jonathan Mitchell (Cardiff University)
Registration open
4 sessions/weeks + Catch-up – October 2026
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#Philosophy #Phenomenology #Husserl
With Jonathan Mitchell (Cardiff University)
Registration open
4 sessions/weeks + Catch-up – October 2026
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#Philosophy #Phenomenology #Husserl
September 9, 2026 at 8:12 AM
'The Horizons of Experience: A Husserlian Exploration' - BSP Online Course
With Jonathan Mitchell (Cardiff University)
Registration open
4 sessions/weeks + Catch-up – October 2026
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#Philosophy #Phenomenology #Husserl
With Jonathan Mitchell (Cardiff University)
Registration open
4 sessions/weeks + Catch-up – October 2026
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#Philosophy #Phenomenology #Husserl
New episode! This time we're looking at the fantastic Irish folk horror film Fréwaka and its final girl Shoo.
Themes include witchcraft, intergenerational trauma, and madness.
Now I'm off to shuffle my secret Letterboxd TGFL list and see what it brings up next!
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Themes include witchcraft, intergenerational trauma, and madness.
Now I'm off to shuffle my secret Letterboxd TGFL list and see what it brings up next!
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E10 Shoo from Fréwaka (2024) | That Final Girl Life
Resources used: Reddit discussions u/KetchupGeorg on r/CPTSDMemes: 'Shoutout to my mother for whatever the hell this was' Studies Jesuthasan
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September 8, 2026 at 9:38 PM
New episode! This time we're looking at the fantastic Irish folk horror film Fréwaka and its final girl Shoo.
Themes include witchcraft, intergenerational trauma, and madness.
Now I'm off to shuffle my secret Letterboxd TGFL list and see what it brings up next!
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Themes include witchcraft, intergenerational trauma, and madness.
Now I'm off to shuffle my secret Letterboxd TGFL list and see what it brings up next!
www.patreon.com/thatfinalgir...
Can someone who knows some Youths please give me an example of a sentence young people might conceivably say that an ancient decrepit elder millennial such as myself might not understand?
I'm looking for an example to use in a podcast episode about generational language.
I'm looking for an example to use in a podcast episode about generational language.
September 7, 2026 at 1:43 PM
Can someone who knows some Youths please give me an example of a sentence young people might conceivably say that an ancient decrepit elder millennial such as myself might not understand?
I'm looking for an example to use in a podcast episode about generational language.
I'm looking for an example to use in a podcast episode about generational language.
If you're having a bad day or need something calming to distract you from The Horrors, you might enjoy The Great Moose Migration, in which you can watch a bunch of moose moving very slowly across pretty landscapes.
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Den stora älgvandringen
I flera tusen år har älgarna vandrat samma leder för att komma till sommarens rika betesmarker.
For several thousand years the moose have walked the same path to get to the rich pastures of summer. F...
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September 5, 2026 at 8:03 PM
If you're having a bad day or need something calming to distract you from The Horrors, you might enjoy The Great Moose Migration, in which you can watch a bunch of moose moving very slowly across pretty landscapes.
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www.svtplay.se/den-stora-al...
September 4, 2026 at 2:23 PM
Carpeted home, extreme 70s edition, with a special surprise in pic 14…
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Check out this 3 bedroom semi-detached house for sale on Rightmove
3 bedroom semi-detached house for sale in Eastfield Road, Wellingborough, NN8 for £240,000. Marketed by Hawksbys, Wellingborough
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September 3, 2026 at 8:59 PM
Carpeted home, extreme 70s edition, with a special surprise in pic 14…
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Have you listened to the latest episode of That Final Girl Life yet?
This week we’re discussing Anaia from Is God Is, which came out this year and is currently free on Prime. Five stars from me. 2026 is shaping up to be a great year for horror!
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This week we’re discussing Anaia from Is God Is, which came out this year and is currently free on Prime. Five stars from me. 2026 is shaping up to be a great year for horror!
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E9 Anaia from Is God Is (2026) | That Final Girl Life
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September 2, 2026 at 9:22 AM
Have you listened to the latest episode of That Final Girl Life yet?
This week we’re discussing Anaia from Is God Is, which came out this year and is currently free on Prime. Five stars from me. 2026 is shaping up to be a great year for horror!
www.patreon.com/thatfinalgir...
This week we’re discussing Anaia from Is God Is, which came out this year and is currently free on Prime. Five stars from me. 2026 is shaping up to be a great year for horror!
www.patreon.com/thatfinalgir...
There is now added support for West Asian women escaping domestic violence in London, as MEWSo are offering group counselling in Arabic and Farsi as well as English, in partnership with DASA.
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Domestic Abuse Safe Accommodation Now Available Through MEWSo — Chindilani Filifilidh Andekalithan
MEWSo, a non-profit organisation which helps women from West Asian backgrounds to escape violence in their homes and communities, has joined the Mayor of London’s DASA (Domestic Abuse Safe Accommodati...
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September 2, 2026 at 9:20 AM
There is now added support for West Asian women escaping domestic violence in London, as MEWSo are offering group counselling in Arabic and Farsi as well as English, in partnership with DASA.
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www.chindilani.com/news/domesti...
PhD students doing their daily affirmations like
🙏🏼I am ✨NORMAL✨ and ✨SANE✨ and my living room does not look like something out of A Beautiful Mind 🙏🏼
🙏🏼I am ✨NORMAL✨ and ✨SANE✨ and my living room does not look like something out of A Beautiful Mind 🙏🏼
September 1, 2026 at 12:47 PM
PhD students doing their daily affirmations like
🙏🏼I am ✨NORMAL✨ and ✨SANE✨ and my living room does not look like something out of A Beautiful Mind 🙏🏼
🙏🏼I am ✨NORMAL✨ and ✨SANE✨ and my living room does not look like something out of A Beautiful Mind 🙏🏼
The Centre for Expertise on CSA's report is out, and it's roughly as depressing as you'd expect.
Key takeaways:
- not enough funding
- or resources
- or awareness
www.chindilani.com/news/csa-cen...
Key takeaways:
- not enough funding
- or resources
- or awareness
www.chindilani.com/news/csa-cen...
CSA Centre Report 2026 — Chindilani Filifilidh Andekalithan
The Centre for Expertise on Child Sexual Abuse have released their 2026 report on the scale and nature of child sexual abuse in the UK. It's looking at data from the last two years, comparing official...
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August 28, 2026 at 12:34 PM
The Centre for Expertise on CSA's report is out, and it's roughly as depressing as you'd expect.
Key takeaways:
- not enough funding
- or resources
- or awareness
www.chindilani.com/news/csa-cen...
Key takeaways:
- not enough funding
- or resources
- or awareness
www.chindilani.com/news/csa-cen...
What do you meaaaannn Cherrykitten do a 'Serving Kant' phone case?! For my Western philosophy babes:
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August 27, 2026 at 1:18 PM
What do you meaaaannn Cherrykitten do a 'Serving Kant' phone case?! For my Western philosophy babes:
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Dear universe,
Respectfully, you keep taking the wrong 80-year-olds. Given the ‘deaths come in threes’ rule, many of us would like to put forward a suggestion.
Sincerely,
Everyone who’s not an asshole
Respectfully, you keep taking the wrong 80-year-olds. Given the ‘deaths come in threes’ rule, many of us would like to put forward a suggestion.
Sincerely,
Everyone who’s not an asshole
August 26, 2026 at 3:57 PM
Dear universe,
Respectfully, you keep taking the wrong 80-year-olds. Given the ‘deaths come in threes’ rule, many of us would like to put forward a suggestion.
Sincerely,
Everyone who’s not an asshole
Respectfully, you keep taking the wrong 80-year-olds. Given the ‘deaths come in threes’ rule, many of us would like to put forward a suggestion.
Sincerely,
Everyone who’s not an asshole
The death cluster is back! And we have an exciting schedule of online events, beginning with this one in September.
Fahime Haijabadi will be presenting her work on griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective.
Pay what you want!
www.eventbrite.com/e/black-mirr...
Fahime Haijabadi will be presenting her work on griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective.
Pay what you want!
www.eventbrite.com/e/black-mirr...
Black Mirror's "Be Right Back": A Psychoanalytic Perspective on Griefbots
Fahime Haijabadi presents her research on griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective, using the example of Black Mirror's "Be Right Back."
www.eventbrite.com
August 26, 2026 at 10:57 AM
The death cluster is back! And we have an exciting schedule of online events, beginning with this one in September.
Fahime Haijabadi will be presenting her work on griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective.
Pay what you want!
www.eventbrite.com/e/black-mirr...
Fahime Haijabadi will be presenting her work on griefbots from a psychoanalytic perspective.
Pay what you want!
www.eventbrite.com/e/black-mirr...