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Carmelia
@coldesttruth.bsky.social
R&B lover, writer, secretly unserious person
Libras celebrate all month
October 4, 2026 at 1:02 PM
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It's all kind of little shit we can do as men to fight rape culture. Watch the way we talk, joke and discuss sex. All of it can make women uncomfortable and we owe it to do better
September 27, 2026 at 4:00 PM
Someone told me they had the best rate. I said great, send me an independent source that verifies that information and shows a comparison to your competitors. Now we’re not in a rush.
September 23, 2026 at 7:15 PM
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Janet Jackson released ‘Rhythm Nation 1814’ 37 years ago on September 19, 1989

album.ink/JJacksonRN1814
Rediscover Janet Jackson’s ‘Rhythm Nation 1814’ (1989) | Tribute
As Jackson had previously done with ‘Control’ (1986), she decided to make the album she wanted rather than a carbon copy of what had worked before.
album.ink
September 20, 2026 at 3:24 AM
It took me a long time to figure out why so many biographies about Black musicians felt off…it is exactly this.
My number one rule about culture writing is that craft cannot compensate for contempt. If you hate the people, you cannot write about their culture.

Apropos of nothing.
September 13, 2026 at 4:01 PM
How do people hire painters? And people to do window treatments?
September 12, 2026 at 9:25 AM
This is an insane thing for a magazine that focuses on long form articles to promote let alone publish.
The advent of reading “altered people’s consciousness and politics, along with the intellectual feats they were capable of,” @rosehorowitch.bsky.social argues—and the decline of reading will bring about changes of the same magnitude:
The Age of Reading Is Over
Can civilization survive the postliterate era?
bit.ly
September 12, 2026 at 9:18 AM
The thing of it is, it’s been a slow progress type of journey. Learning and working to do pull-ups when you’ve never done upper body work is a different game but we’re getting there.
September 7, 2026 at 9:15 PM
My trainer asked if there were any exercises that I wanted to do, my instant answer was hip mobility. I want to be able to move around when I’m old.
September 7, 2026 at 9:14 PM
The thing about goat meat is if you don’t properly clean it before you cook it then it smells terrible. Someone cooked this mean without a decent wash and now I have to smell it. I have no interest in eating it, I just want to air out the house.
September 7, 2026 at 7:02 PM
So many things are happening
August 30, 2026 at 10:31 AM
I can report that there is a particular scent amongst certain readers. The National Book Festival was fun, but the smell…whew. We can bathe and read.
August 23, 2026 at 10:03 PM
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We Never Knew Why Mr.T 💪🏽
Wore All Those Gold Chains ⛓️‍💥.
Now We Do 🔥🤸🏽‍♂️🙌🏽 #TheMoreYouKnow
August 17, 2026 at 8:18 PM
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The legendary Bernie Mac 🕊️
August 9, 2026 at 8:40 PM
Made a lasagna because it’s easier.
August 9, 2026 at 6:30 PM
Anyway, go run this man your coins and support the Snack Society. It’s worth it.
Is time to send the babies back to school #SnackSociety

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July 31, 2026 at 6:48 PM
You do not have to have kids to be a good community member. Children are apart of the community.
July 31, 2026 at 6:47 PM
Yuzu citrus salt for seafood is an unexpected answer that wins.
July 30, 2026 at 9:30 PM
Low key my favorite time of year. If you can support please do.
Is time to send the babies back to school #SnackSociety

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July 26, 2026 at 5:30 PM
Sometimes I wonder how people can be surprised by Fetterman in PA when they literally burned the governor’s house in a hate crime. This state is not progressive, Philadelphia is.
July 25, 2026 at 8:33 PM
Fig trees are coming along. Blueberries not so much
July 25, 2026 at 12:33 PM
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July 19, 2026 at 12:29 PM
Trying to figure out how to shoot video with a matte box…and the shotgun mic failed.
July 18, 2026 at 7:38 PM
There are two kinds of people that use the early entry on Saturdays at Costco: 1. The people who are out in 20min or less bc they don’t, won’t, and can’t; and 2. The people who are going to be a good while and want time to amble.
July 18, 2026 at 2:05 PM
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Miles Davis released 'Sketches of Spain' 66 years ago on July 18, 1960 | Discover where it ranks in our readers' poll here: album.ink/MilesDavisPoll
July 18, 2026 at 11:00 AM