Dr. NerdLove
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Free now of the chains of Twitter, traveling the world and doing good. Dispensing the best dating advice on the Internet. Send your dating questions to [email protected].
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Sometimes your biggest obstacles are the people in your head, not the people in your real life. Let me help you sort out what's real! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove(dot)com!
October 9, 2026 at 3:30 PM
Sometimes your biggest obstacles are the people in your head, not the people in your real life. Let me help you sort out what's real! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove(dot)com!
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NEW COLUMN: Dating is a constant struggle for him and nobody will tell him what he’s doing wrong. How is he supposed to get over the frustration and fix his game?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
Dating is a constant struggle for him and nobody will tell him what he's doing wrong. How is he supposed to get over the frustration and fix his game?
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October 9, 2026 at 3:30 PM
NEW COLUMN: Dating is a constant struggle for him and nobody will tell him what he’s doing wrong. How is he supposed to get over the frustration and fix his game?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
From The Archives: Ask Dr. NerdLove: An Old-Fashioned Kinda Guy
Ask Dr. NerdLove: An Old-Fashioned Kinda Guy
He's an old-school kind of guy, more Rat Pack than Frat Pack. He's got charm and class, so why is he still single? Also: Can you call dibs on a person?
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October 9, 2026 at 7:23 PM
From The Archives: Ask Dr. NerdLove: An Old-Fashioned Kinda Guy
From The Archives: Why Do I Fail at Making Friends As An Adult?
Why Do I Fail at Making Friends As An Adult?
He's trying to meet new people as an adult and everyone has time for everyone BUT him. Why is he having such a hard time making new friends?
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October 9, 2026 at 5:30 PM
From The Archives: Why Do I Fail at Making Friends As An Adult?
NEW COLUMN: Dating is a constant struggle for him and nobody will tell him what he’s doing wrong. How is he supposed to get over the frustration and fix his game?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
Dating is a constant struggle for him and nobody will tell him what he's doing wrong. How is he supposed to get over the frustration and fix his game?
www.doctornerdlove.com
October 9, 2026 at 3:30 PM
NEW COLUMN: Dating is a constant struggle for him and nobody will tell him what he’s doing wrong. How is he supposed to get over the frustration and fix his game?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Don’t Know What I’m Doing Wrong On Dates And Nobody Will Tell Me
An enthusiastic co-sign for how incredibly good Lake Mungo is. It's decidedly NOT the movie you're expecting when you go in or even when you hit the midway point and that is one of it's greatest strengths.
20. Lake Mungo (2008) Low-budget Australian faux documentary that manages to be extremely spooky, I even jumped a time or two. Perfect watch for those who love ghost stories and hate gore.
October 9, 2026 at 2:36 PM
An enthusiastic co-sign for how incredibly good Lake Mungo is. It's decidedly NOT the movie you're expecting when you go in or even when you hit the midway point and that is one of it's greatest strengths.
NOW ON PATREON: it seems like everyone else got a copy of the dating rulebook but him. He feels like he's always doing SOMETHING wrong, but why can't anyone ever tell him what it is, so he can finally fix it?
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www.patreon.com/DrNe...
October 9, 2026 at 5:30 AM
NOW ON PATREON: it seems like everyone else got a copy of the dating rulebook but him. He feels like he's always doing SOMETHING wrong, but why can't anyone ever tell him what it is, so he can finally fix it?
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
NOW ON PATREON: it seems like everyone else got a copy of the dating rulebook but him. He feels like he's always doing SOMETHING wrong, but why can't anyone ever tell him what it is, so he can finally fix it?
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
October 8, 2026 at 10:19 PM
NOW ON PATREON: it seems like everyone else got a copy of the dating rulebook but him. He feels like he's always doing SOMETHING wrong, but why can't anyone ever tell him what it is, so he can finally fix it?
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
From The Archives: Why Do All Of My Friends Eventually Ghost Me?
Why Do All Of My Friends Eventually Ghost Me?
It seems like every friendship he has goes the same way: excitement, plans, activities and then… radio silence. Why does this keep happening to him?
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October 8, 2026 at 9:30 PM
From The Archives: Why Do All Of My Friends Eventually Ghost Me?
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she's proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up without hurting their friendship?
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October 8, 2026 at 7:31 PM
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
From The Archives: Shacking up: How to Move In Together (Without Killing Each Other).
Shacking up: How to Move In Together (Without Killing Each Other).
Moving in together is a momentous part of any relationship. It's also one of the most challenging. This guide will help you move in together with minimal drama
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October 8, 2026 at 5:30 PM
From The Archives: Shacking up: How to Move In Together (Without Killing Each Other).
Don’t forget: Do As We Say is on YouTube (if you’re into that kinda thing) , Apple Podcasts, Spotify and everywhere else you get your pods cast from.
Shove us into your ear holes like the parasocial friends we are!
Shove us into your ear holes like the parasocial friends we are!
According to the internet, women are “dating down.” But we aren’t so sure.
This week, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com explore the bananas idea that relationships might be built on more than looks.
🎧 Listen to the episode: youtu.be/mK0q5CPHS6k
This week, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com explore the bananas idea that relationships might be built on more than looks.
🎧 Listen to the episode: youtu.be/mK0q5CPHS6k
October 8, 2026 at 2:43 PM
Don’t forget: Do As We Say is on YouTube (if you’re into that kinda thing) , Apple Podcasts, Spotify and everywhere else you get your pods cast from.
Shove us into your ear holes like the parasocial friends we are!
Shove us into your ear holes like the parasocial friends we are!
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It seems like we’re so much more worried about looks instead of asking ourselves what we can meaningfully bring to a relationship.
You know what’s more important than being a 10/10 (whatever that means)?
🎧 youtube.com/shorts/4yMHG...
You know what’s more important than being a 10/10 (whatever that means)?
🎧 youtube.com/shorts/4yMHG...
Attraction Doesn't Create Relationship Longevity
YouTube video by Do As We Say, Not As They Did
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October 8, 2026 at 2:32 PM
It seems like we’re so much more worried about looks instead of asking ourselves what we can meaningfully bring to a relationship.
You know what’s more important than being a 10/10 (whatever that means)?
🎧 youtube.com/shorts/4yMHG...
You know what’s more important than being a 10/10 (whatever that means)?
🎧 youtube.com/shorts/4yMHG...
Some people truly don’t seem to actually understand the point of family…
October 8, 2026 at 1:24 PM
Some people truly don’t seem to actually understand the point of family…
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she's proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up without hurting their friendship?
www.doctornerdlove.com
October 7, 2026 at 10:52 PM
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
Reposted by Dr. NerdLove
According to the internet, women are “dating down.” But we aren’t so sure.
This week, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com explore the bananas idea that relationships might be built on more than looks.
🎧 Listen to the episode: youtu.be/mK0q5CPHS6k
This week, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com explore the bananas idea that relationships might be built on more than looks.
🎧 Listen to the episode: youtu.be/mK0q5CPHS6k
October 7, 2026 at 9:44 PM
According to the internet, women are “dating down.” But we aren’t so sure.
This week, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com explore the bananas idea that relationships might be built on more than looks.
🎧 Listen to the episode: youtu.be/mK0q5CPHS6k
This week, @drlizpowell.bsky.social and @doctornerdlove.com explore the bananas idea that relationships might be built on more than looks.
🎧 Listen to the episode: youtu.be/mK0q5CPHS6k
From The Archives: Why Women Flake (And How To Stop It)
Why Women Flake (And How To Stop It)
Getting stood up? Getting tired of women flaking out after you get their number? This guide ensures you never deal with last minute flakes again!
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October 7, 2026 at 9:29 PM
From The Archives: Why Women Flake (And How To Stop It)
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The important word in "friend with benefits" is "friend". Let me help you keep things working in your FWB the way they should. Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove(date)com!
October 7, 2026 at 3:45 PM
The important word in "friend with benefits" is "friend". Let me help you keep things working in your FWB the way they should. Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove(date)com!
Reposted by Dr. NerdLove
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she's proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up without hurting their friendship?
www.doctornerdlove.com
October 7, 2026 at 3:45 PM
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
From The Archives: We’ve Just Had Our First Fight. Is Our Relationship Doomed?
We've Just Had Our First Fight. Is Our Relationship Doomed?
He's only three months into his first serious relationship and they're already arguing about the future. Is this relationship already over?
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October 7, 2026 at 6:31 PM
From The Archives: We’ve Just Had Our First Fight. Is Our Relationship Doomed?
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she's proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up without hurting their friendship?
www.doctornerdlove.com
October 7, 2026 at 3:45 PM
NEW COLUMN: He and his best friend have been single and lonely for years. Now she’s proposing an easy solution. Can they hook up and still stay friends?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
ASK DR. NERDLOVE: How Do I Hook Up With A Friend Without Ruining The Friendship?
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: It sounds like an obvious solution to their loneliness problem – just hook up with each other. But how can two friends have sexy times together without ruining their friendship in the process?
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www.patreon.com/DrNe...
October 6, 2026 at 10:59 PM
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: It sounds like an obvious solution to their loneliness problem – just hook up with each other. But how can two friends have sexy times together without ruining their friendship in the process?
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
www.patreon.com/DrNe...
From The Archives: I’m Non-Binary But My Fantasies AREN’T. What’s Wrong With Me?
I'm Non-Binary But My Fantasies AREN'T. What's Wrong With Me?
They're non-binary, but all of their fantasies are about manly men and incredibly feminine women. How do they reconcile what they want with who they are?
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October 6, 2026 at 9:30 PM
From The Archives: I’m Non-Binary But My Fantasies AREN’T. What’s Wrong With Me?
This page from Young Avengers cropped up randomly in my feed and I *love* that I knew *exactly* where this was taking place – like, literally what coffeeshop they're sitting in. (art credit: @mckelvie.bsky.social)
October 6, 2026 at 9:07 PM
This page from Young Avengers cropped up randomly in my feed and I *love* that I knew *exactly* where this was taking place – like, literally what coffeeshop they're sitting in. (art credit: @mckelvie.bsky.social)
This – and I promise I'm not doing a bit – is genuinely one of the most romantic scenes in the 21st century.
October 6, 2026 at 8:57 PM
This – and I promise I'm not doing a bit – is genuinely one of the most romantic scenes in the 21st century.