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Evie + Axel
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Bi-curiosity is far more common than most people realise. Creating space where someone can explore attraction without labelling themselves or committing to an identity is one of the things we value most in our work.
Attachment isn't neediness. Human beings are wired for co-regulation and connection , which means our nervous systems literally settle in the presence of someone safe. Needing closeness is biology! xx
September 16, 2026 at 11:27 AM
Vulnerability is not weakness, it takes strength to allow yourself be seen without controlling how you are perceived. In int1macy that might look like saying "I don't know what I'm doing" or "I want this and I'm nervous about it."
September 12, 2026 at 11:34 PM
Vulnerability is key to a deep emotional connection! Dropping your guard and sharing your real feelings, fears and experiences creates real closeness, invites empathy and builds trust.
September 12, 2026 at 7:14 AM
Protectiveness and control from a male perspective get confused all the time, but they're absolutely opposites.

Protection is rooted in care and it wants you safe and free to be you. Control is rooted in fear.
September 9, 2026 at 11:27 AM
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September 3, 2026 at 3:24 AM
Still feeling butterflies months into knowing someone? It can be normal, but check in with what those flutters mean. Sometimes they're a genuine spark, which is an extension of the early days of getting to know someone, fueled by excitement and strong chemistry.
September 5, 2026 at 11:34 PM
Some people listen to respond and some listen to understand you. The second kind are rare and my favourite!
September 5, 2026 at 7:14 AM
Being truly seen is so rare that when it finally happens most people are unsure what to do with themselves. I think that the deep want to be witnessed fully is a base need for most people, and it's something I adore being able to offer. 🤍
September 2, 2026 at 11:27 AM
The dog at the cafe looked at my muffin and I almost handed it over. I've got a soft spot for Golden Retrievers. 😂🤍
August 29, 2026 at 11:34 PM
Most of us were taught that good intimacy should be effortless and natural, which is a bit like expecting to be fluent in a language you never studied.😉
Be curious, ask questions and explore. 🤍
August 29, 2026 at 7:45 AM
Take a moment to play! Laugh, dance, be silly! Tap back into your curiosity, creativity and play in every facet of your life and I promise you that you will see the ripple on effects. 🤍✨
August 26, 2026 at 11:27 AM
What we do is also largely about giving people permission to be fully themselves, and most adults have not had that permission since they were younger, if ever.
August 22, 2026 at 11:34 PM
Securely attached people report more trust and more closeness, and one thing they do differently is set boundaries clearly and kindly. A clear limit helps create safety in a relationship, as you can trust someone can be honest with you about their needs.
August 22, 2026 at 7:14 AM
"The bed's already made, the blue's below
The water runs and the sun's aglow
And shimmering in the river cold
I jump in fast, from a height I fall
And come on out to heated stone
With you right there and we're all alone.."
August 19, 2026 at 11:27 AM
The couples who tend to thrive are having the uncomfortable conversations most people are avoiding. There is no version of deep intimacy that skips the uncomfortable talks about money, d-sire, life and expectations. It's essential for a loving and healthy partnership. 🤍
August 15, 2026 at 11:34 PM
Watching someone step into their full self is the best part of this work. x
August 15, 2026 at 7:14 AM
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It's official... the countdown to SWCRA 2026 is on!
Nominations are open and tickets to both the main event and the nominations party are up now! 🎉
We can't wait to see you all soon.
August 12, 2026 at 9:01 AM
We are made of stardust, the actual remnants of ancient suns, and we use this cosmic inheritance to remember the entirety of the lyrics of most alternative rock songs made in the 90s. 😂
August 12, 2026 at 11:27 AM
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There is no deadline on first time experiences. 🤍
August 10, 2026 at 8:05 AM
Compliment your partner on things they choose, not just things they were born with. Being told you're gorgeous is very nice, but being told you were impressed by the way they handled that hard conversation, lands on a deeper level. 🤍
August 8, 2026 at 11:34 PM
Every couple has a bag of bags. Ours reached critical mass some time ago and we believe it now generates its own bags 😂
August 8, 2026 at 7:14 AM
From abandonment trauma to genuine excitement for your partner | E+A RawDog Podcast
August 6, 2026 at 2:01 AM
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Intimacy is not the same as closeness. You can share a bed, a mortgage and a calendar with someone and still not fully know them. Intimacy is letting yourself be understood and seen fully. 🤍 xx
August 5, 2026 at 11:29 AM
Ask your partner what makes them feel loved! We tend to give in the way we enjoy receiving it most ourselves, which may not always match with your partner.

Learning to love someone in the way that feels best to them is a skill anyone can learn. 🤍
August 5, 2026 at 11:27 AM
Double standards and Inadequacy Wounding | E+A RawDog Podcast
August 5, 2026 at 2:01 AM