Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
📚 Author/Journalist KateWritesAboutSex.com
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
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Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
· Nov 19
li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!):
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
"You don't need unbelievable gear to tell great stories. Whatever [tools] you have, start telling stories with those – and don't give yourself the excuse of 'Oh, I don't have the right stuff yet'" www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mbeg...
Rules for Indie Filmmakers, according to NIRVANNA THE BAND THE SHOW | TIFF
YouTube video by TIFF
www.youtube.com
September 16, 2026 at 10:12 PM
"You don't need unbelievable gear to tell great stories. Whatever [tools] you have, start telling stories with those – and don't give yourself the excuse of 'Oh, I don't have the right stuff yet'" www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mbeg...
lyrics of my song in defense of men (rare for me...)
aimed for economy of language in this one (also rare for me...)
aimed for economy of language in this one (also rare for me...)
September 16, 2026 at 8:16 PM
lyrics of my song in defense of men (rare for me...)
aimed for economy of language in this one (also rare for me...)
aimed for economy of language in this one (also rare for me...)
eeee this is so exciting – the Magic Wand company commissioned me to write a song about the Wand, & to write an article about that songwriting process! truemagicwand.substack.com/p/i-wrote-a-...
love the art in this piece 💖🪄 & feel blessed as ever to get to make stuff about such a legendary vibe
love the art in this piece 💖🪄 & feel blessed as ever to get to make stuff about such a legendary vibe
I wrote a song about the Magic Wand
Kate Sloan, professional sex toy reviewer and podcaster, shares her history with Magic Wand and her creative process.
truemagicwand.substack.com
September 16, 2026 at 7:50 PM
eeee this is so exciting – the Magic Wand company commissioned me to write a song about the Wand, & to write an article about that songwriting process! truemagicwand.substack.com/p/i-wrote-a-...
love the art in this piece 💖🪄 & feel blessed as ever to get to make stuff about such a legendary vibe
love the art in this piece 💖🪄 & feel blessed as ever to get to make stuff about such a legendary vibe
sex toy industry inside-baseball stuff but: god it is such a bummer that W*ldflower is putting out a new version of their Enby vibe after seemingly putting ShopEnby out of business due to legal fees spent defending their right to use the word “enby”… still horrendous & indefensible tbh
September 16, 2026 at 7:44 PM
sex toy industry inside-baseball stuff but: god it is such a bummer that W*ldflower is putting out a new version of their Enby vibe after seemingly putting ShopEnby out of business due to legal fees spent defending their right to use the word “enby”… still horrendous & indefensible tbh
recently re-watched What If (aka The F Word) for the zillionth time; I still think it's a really interesting & unusual rom-com letterboxd.com/katesloan/fi...
goofy manic pixie dialogue aside, it skewers rom-com tropes, foregrounds authentic connection, & has my fav Adam Driver line-read of all time
goofy manic pixie dialogue aside, it skewers rom-com tropes, foregrounds authentic connection, & has my fav Adam Driver line-read of all time
A ★★★★½ review of What If (2013)
“I like you a little bit more romantically than I let on. It’s not a crime. And if it is, you’re not exactly innocent.”
letterboxd.com
September 16, 2026 at 4:58 PM
recently re-watched What If (aka The F Word) for the zillionth time; I still think it's a really interesting & unusual rom-com letterboxd.com/katesloan/fi...
goofy manic pixie dialogue aside, it skewers rom-com tropes, foregrounds authentic connection, & has my fav Adam Driver line-read of all time
goofy manic pixie dialogue aside, it skewers rom-com tropes, foregrounds authentic connection, & has my fav Adam Driver line-read of all time
a massive benefit of polyamory, in my experience, is that when there is already abundant love in your life, you become much more aware of when a new connection isn't quite right/isn't meeting your needs, and are less likely to settle for something unsatisfying/incompatible
September 16, 2026 at 4:12 PM
a massive benefit of polyamory, in my experience, is that when there is already abundant love in your life, you become much more aware of when a new connection isn't quite right/isn't meeting your needs, and are less likely to settle for something unsatisfying/incompatible
lesbians & bisexuals love lowercase thetastefultwink.substack.com/p/the-queer-...
why do gay people love typing in lowercase?
an earnest exploration of the queer lowercase.
thetastefultwink.substack.com
September 16, 2026 at 3:13 PM
lesbians & bisexuals love lowercase thetastefultwink.substack.com/p/the-queer-...
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September 15, 2026 at 11:12 PM
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
HOT: "it doesn't matter to me whether we have sex in this way or that way - what matters to me is just being here with you and getting to connect with you in this way. just your energy and company drives me insane" [in a positive way haha]
NOT hot: "aren't you going to make me cum? did u cum yet?"
NOT hot: "aren't you going to make me cum? did u cum yet?"
September 15, 2026 at 7:30 PM
HOT: "it doesn't matter to me whether we have sex in this way or that way - what matters to me is just being here with you and getting to connect with you in this way. just your energy and company drives me insane" [in a positive way haha]
NOT hot: "aren't you going to make me cum? did u cum yet?"
NOT hot: "aren't you going to make me cum? did u cum yet?"
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How to be someone she brags about and not someone she vents about!! 💝 (Sex Ed for straight men who live in reality)
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
September 15, 2026 at 7:30 PM
How to be someone she brags about and not someone she vents about!! 💝 (Sex Ed for straight men who live in reality)
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
NEW Dildorks episode:
#497 Crush & Burn
thedildorks.com/episodes/cru...
Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
#497 Crush & Burn
thedildorks.com/episodes/cru...
Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
Crush & Burn | The Dildorks
Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
thedildorks.com
September 15, 2026 at 5:56 PM
NEW Dildorks episode:
#497 Crush & Burn
thedildorks.com/episodes/cru...
Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
#497 Crush & Burn
thedildorks.com/episodes/cru...
Why is it so hot sometimes to take things slow? This week, we discuss the joys of sexual and romantic “slow burns”!
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
September 13, 2026 at 2:16 PM
assigned SongAWeek theme this week is “hot take” so I just wrote a song called “Men Just Want One Thing” which aims to debunk the notion in its title
September 15, 2026 at 2:40 AM
assigned SongAWeek theme this week is “hot take” so I just wrote a song called “Men Just Want One Thing” which aims to debunk the notion in its title
reminder to my fellow introverted polyamorists to make sure you’re spending enough nights of the week totally alone ✌️
September 15, 2026 at 12:26 AM
reminder to my fellow introverted polyamorists to make sure you’re spending enough nights of the week totally alone ✌️
me constantly lately: why are all these hot funny people treating me as if I am also hot and funny
my wife: I’ve got news for you, babe
my wife: I’ve got news for you, babe
September 15, 2026 at 12:19 AM
me constantly lately: why are all these hot funny people treating me as if I am also hot and funny
my wife: I’ve got news for you, babe
my wife: I’ve got news for you, babe
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please know that my posts do not reflect my actual writing/editing/copyediting abilities since I am not getting paid for Posting.
September 14, 2026 at 6:24 PM
please know that my posts do not reflect my actual writing/editing/copyediting abilities since I am not getting paid for Posting.
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
[me flirting] I just booked a routine STI panel
October 26, 2025 at 2:45 PM
[me flirting] I just booked a routine STI panel
sorry if i owe you an email/message, my chronically ill-ass body is still recovering from travel but I hope to catch up on stuff in the next few days! ✌️
September 14, 2026 at 4:38 PM
sorry if i owe you an email/message, my chronically ill-ass body is still recovering from travel but I hope to catch up on stuff in the next few days! ✌️
"time becomes a character" www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLrB...
Why Do People Make Something Every Single Day?
YouTube video by Jonathan Mann
www.youtube.com
September 14, 2026 at 3:45 PM
"time becomes a character" www.youtube.com/watch?v=OLrB...
I love switchy tops!!! & no I don’t mean shirts that go with everything
September 13, 2026 at 5:46 PM
I love switchy tops!!! & no I don’t mean shirts that go with everything
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if we ever fuck, i can basically guarantee you that i’ll send you some kind of feedback after. napkin is an inspiration of course, but it’s also just a great way to wrap up an experience.
NEW for premium subscribers:
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
katesloan.email/archive/the-...
on why (& how) to ask for the mid-sex technique adjustments that would help you enjoy yourself better, even though it's difficult sometimes
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
katesloan.email/archive/the-...
on why (& how) to ask for the mid-sex technique adjustments that would help you enjoy yourself better, even though it's difficult sometimes
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
“Got any constructive criticism for me?” asked a cute person while fingering me on a rooftop this week. “Any notes for next time?” asked a different cute...
katesloan.email
September 13, 2026 at 2:45 AM
if we ever fuck, i can basically guarantee you that i’ll send you some kind of feedback after. napkin is an inspiration of course, but it’s also just a great way to wrap up an experience.
NEW for premium subscribers:
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
katesloan.email/archive/the-...
on why (& how) to ask for the mid-sex technique adjustments that would help you enjoy yourself better, even though it's difficult sometimes
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
katesloan.email/archive/the-...
on why (& how) to ask for the mid-sex technique adjustments that would help you enjoy yourself better, even though it's difficult sometimes
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
“Got any constructive criticism for me?” asked a cute person while fingering me on a rooftop this week. “Any notes for next time?” asked a different cute...
katesloan.email
September 13, 2026 at 2:35 AM
NEW for premium subscribers:
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
katesloan.email/archive/the-...
on why (& how) to ask for the mid-sex technique adjustments that would help you enjoy yourself better, even though it's difficult sometimes
The delicate art of giving sexual feedback
katesloan.email/archive/the-...
on why (& how) to ask for the mid-sex technique adjustments that would help you enjoy yourself better, even though it's difficult sometimes
boy foibles
boibles
boibles
my wife is constantly crushing on and being crushed on by boys and their foibles never fail to make me laugh
September 13, 2026 at 2:18 AM
boy foibles
boibles
boibles
saw an improv show last night where the suggestion was Baltimore so they did a bunch of Hairspray stuff and Zac Efron ended up featuring prominently as a character; I felt very pandered to/targeted [positive]
September 12, 2026 at 4:10 PM
saw an improv show last night where the suggestion was Baltimore so they did a bunch of Hairspray stuff and Zac Efron ended up featuring prominently as a character; I felt very pandered to/targeted [positive]