Kiss & Tell Magazine
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A sexual, mental, and physical health online magazine where the unsaid is said.
Attraction is information, not instruction. Joan Nwosu on the gap between sensing a relationship is wrong and choosing to leave it:
Intense Chemistry, Wrong Relationship: Why Attraction Is Information, Not Instruction - Kiss & Tell Magazine | Sexual Health, Sex Education & Relationships
The chemistry was undeniable. The relationship was wrong. A relationship expert on why intense attraction feels like proof, and the framework that separates chemistry from compatibility.
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September 25, 2026 at 4:04 PM
Attraction is information, not instruction. Joan Nwosu on the gap between sensing a relationship is wrong and choosing to leave it:
Our whole thing is "f*ck shame." Then shame researcher Lisa Etherson told me I've got it wrong: shame is your conscience. What's broken is the triggers. You don't delete shame; you retire the triggers that stopped making sense. Full conversation:
A Shame Researcher Told Me I'm Wrong About Shame
Our whole thing is "fuck shame." So I invited someone who spent eig...
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September 24, 2026 at 4:05 PM
Our whole thing is "f*ck shame." Then shame researcher Lisa Etherson told me I've got it wrong: shame is your conscience. What's broken is the triggers. You don't delete shame; you retire the triggers that stopped making sense. Full conversation:
Mismatched desire in a long marriage usually isn't a love problem. It's a silence problem. Dr. Christopher Cortman, 40 years in practice, on what actually helps ageing couples:
When Desire Diverges: A Therapist's Guide To Intimacy For Aging Couples - Kiss & Tell Magazine | Sexual Health, Sex Education & Relationships
After 40 years and 85,000 clinical hours, a therapist explains why desire diverges in long marriages and how aging couples can reclaim intimacy.
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September 21, 2026 at 4:31 PM
Mismatched desire in a long marriage usually isn't a love problem. It's a silence problem. Dr. Christopher Cortman, 40 years in practice, on what actually helps ageing couples:
clit went missing in her 49th year. google offered porn and her doctor offered more estrogen cream.
so she researched it herself: clitoral atrophy is real, almost nobody writes about it, and the stories culture tells about aging women show up in the body.
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so she researched it herself: clitoral atrophy is real, almost nobody writes about it, and the stories culture tells about aging women show up in the body.
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Where Did My Clit Go? A Somatic Healer's Journey Through Clitoral Atrophy And Menopause - Kiss & Tell Magazine | Sexual Health, Sex Education & Relationships
Her clitoris vanished in her 49th year. A somatic healer's unfiltered account of clitoral atrophy, hysterectomy, menopause, and how the stories we absorb shape our bodies.
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September 10, 2026 at 8:08 PM
clit went missing in her 49th year. google offered porn and her doctor offered more estrogen cream.
so she researched it herself: clitoral atrophy is real, almost nobody writes about it, and the stories culture tells about aging women show up in the body.
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so she researched it herself: clitoral atrophy is real, almost nobody writes about it, and the stories culture tells about aging women show up in the body.
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Leaking, pressure, pain. Most of it is fixable.
Dr. Rachel Gelman on pelvic floor health in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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Dr. Rachel Gelman on pelvic floor health in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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August 25, 2026 at 3:55 PM
Leaking, pressure, pain. Most of it is fixable.
Dr. Rachel Gelman on pelvic floor health in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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Dr. Rachel Gelman on pelvic floor health in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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Just posting this because, as of yesterday, the US national debt surpassed $40 trillion for the first time. The GOP: the party of fiscal responsibility. 🥴
August 20, 2026 at 2:15 AM
Just posting this because, as of yesterday, the US national debt surpassed $40 trillion for the first time. The GOP: the party of fiscal responsibility. 🥴
When she snaps, when she pulls away, when sex changes — partners take it personally. Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer explains why they shouldn't, and what actually rebuilds intimacy on the other side. www.kissandtellmagazine.com/menopause-qu...
#MenopauseAndMarriage #MenopauseRedefined
#MenopauseAndMarriage #MenopauseRedefined
August 20, 2026 at 4:10 PM
When she snaps, when she pulls away, when sex changes — partners take it personally. Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer explains why they shouldn't, and what actually rebuilds intimacy on the other side. www.kissandtellmagazine.com/menopause-qu...
#MenopauseAndMarriage #MenopauseRedefined
#MenopauseAndMarriage #MenopauseRedefined
Desire didn't disappear. It changed shape.
Claire Rumore on slow, attuned intimacy in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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#menopause
Claire Rumore on slow, attuned intimacy in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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#menopause
August 17, 2026 at 4:05 PM
Desire didn't disappear. It changed shape.
Claire Rumore on slow, attuned intimacy in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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#menopause
Claire Rumore on slow, attuned intimacy in peri- and menopause. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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#menopause
Your patience is gone by 3pm, and everyone at home can tell.
Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer on hormonal change at work, at home, and in partnership. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer on hormonal change at work, at home, and in partnership. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/menopause-li... #menopause
August 10, 2026 at 4:32 PM
Your patience is gone by 3pm, and everyone at home can tell.
Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer on hormonal change at work, at home, and in partnership. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
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Dr. Stephanie Zwonitzer on hormonal change at work, at home, and in partnership. Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/menopause-li... #menopause
Most of us were never taught what perimenopause does to focus, patience or sleep. A lot of clinicians weren't either.
Two days, seven experts, Oct 1–2. Early bird ends Sept 17. #menopause #perimenopause
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Two days, seven experts, Oct 1–2. Early bird ends Sept 17. #menopause #perimenopause
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Menopause Redefined 2026 | Virtual Conference | Kiss & Tell Magazine
Join Kiss & Tell Magazine's fourth annual online conference October 1–2, 2026. Expert speakers on menopause, perimenopause, intimacy & pelvic health. From $50.
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August 6, 2026 at 4:49 PM
Most of us were never taught what perimenopause does to focus, patience or sleep. A lot of clinicians weren't either.
Two days, seven experts, Oct 1–2. Early bird ends Sept 17. #menopause #perimenopause
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Two days, seven experts, Oct 1–2. Early bird ends Sept 17. #menopause #perimenopause
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You're not bad at your job. Your hormones changed.
Dr. Angela Wright on burnout, overwhelm and hormone sensitivity at Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone, 8 AASECT CEs available.
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Dr. Angela Wright on burnout, overwhelm and hormone sensitivity at Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone, 8 AASECT CEs available.
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August 3, 2026 at 2:53 PM
You're not bad at your job. Your hormones changed.
Dr. Angela Wright on burnout, overwhelm and hormone sensitivity at Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone, 8 AASECT CEs available.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/menopause-li...
Dr. Angela Wright on burnout, overwhelm and hormone sensitivity at Menopause Redefined, Oct 1–2. Virtual, open to everyone, 8 AASECT CEs available.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/menopause-li...
Adults in their 30s, 40s, and 50s navigate sexual health changes with just as little support as teenagers.
Menopause. Erectile dysfunction. Intimacy after illness.
And almost no one to talk to.
That is why pornography stays the default.
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Menopause. Erectile dysfunction. Intimacy after illness.
And almost no one to talk to.
That is why pornography stays the default.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/why-porn-is-...
Porn Is Not The Problem. Silence Is. - Kiss & Tell Magazine | Sexual Health, Sex Education & Relationships
A Clinical Sexologist explains why pornography is a symptom, not the cause, of our sexual health crisis. The real problem is the silence we built around sexuality.
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June 28, 2026 at 9:20 PM
Adults in their 30s, 40s, and 50s navigate sexual health changes with just as little support as teenagers.
Menopause. Erectile dysfunction. Intimacy after illness.
And almost no one to talk to.
That is why pornography stays the default.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/why-porn-is-...
Menopause. Erectile dysfunction. Intimacy after illness.
And almost no one to talk to.
That is why pornography stays the default.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/why-porn-is-...
A nurse once labeled me "anxious" through a hospital door. I never got that diagnosis. I just asked questions.
Wrote about labels people never agreed to — race, disability, Pride Month, and the right to name yourself.
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Wrote about labels people never agreed to — race, disability, Pride Month, and the right to name yourself.
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Your Label Is Not My Identity - Kiss & Tell Magazine
Being called African-American when you prefer Black. Being marked disabled for a speech impediment. This Pride Month, find out what unsolicited labeling really costs.
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June 16, 2026 at 4:41 PM
A nurse once labeled me "anxious" through a hospital door. I never got that diagnosis. I just asked questions.
Wrote about labels people never agreed to — race, disability, Pride Month, and the right to name yourself.
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Wrote about labels people never agreed to — race, disability, Pride Month, and the right to name yourself.
www.kissandtellmagazine.com/your-label-i...
Read Dr. Jenny's personal article...All Voices are Valid: Personal Reflections of Living with a Speech Impediment
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All Voices Are Valid: Personal Reflections Of Living With A Speech Impediment - Kiss & Tell Magazine
Dr. Jenny shares about her voices journey living with a speech impediment,
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May 15, 2026 at 5:32 PM
Read Dr. Jenny's personal article...All Voices are Valid: Personal Reflections of Living with a Speech Impediment
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Third Annual Virtual Conference about Kink & Non-Monogamy!
Prices will go up after September 30th. If you’re planning to attend, now’s a great time to lock in the affordable price.
We look forward to seeing you there! #kink #sextalk #nonmonogamy
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Prices will go up after September 30th. If you’re planning to attend, now’s a great time to lock in the affordable price.
We look forward to seeing you there! #kink #sextalk #nonmonogamy
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Kiss & Tell Magazine - Kink And Non-Monogamy Conference
We’re proud to present our third annual conference about Kink and Non-Monogamy – a two-day virtual event focused on exploring desire, relationship structures, and sexual health with honesty and depth.
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September 5, 2025 at 3:49 PM
Third Annual Virtual Conference about Kink & Non-Monogamy!
Prices will go up after September 30th. If you’re planning to attend, now’s a great time to lock in the affordable price.
We look forward to seeing you there! #kink #sextalk #nonmonogamy
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Prices will go up after September 30th. If you’re planning to attend, now’s a great time to lock in the affordable price.
We look forward to seeing you there! #kink #sextalk #nonmonogamy
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Monogamy and your brain...K&T most recent article is quite interesting...
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#monogamy #nonmonogamy
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#monogamy #nonmonogamy
Monogamy Is Cute, But What Does Your Brain Have To Say About It? - Kiss & Tell Magazine
Nature didn’t build us to only monogamy. It built us to attach, detach, reattach, explore, bond again, or just vibe.
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July 23, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Monogamy and your brain...K&T most recent article is quite interesting...
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#monogamy #nonmonogamy
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#monogamy #nonmonogamy
📘 Drinking Water and Mind Your Business: A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Self-Esteem by Dr. Donna Oriowo
This isn’t just for Black women—it’s a mirror for anyone ready to drop the BS and live on their own terms.
🔗https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e2uarEDua4&t
This isn’t just for Black women—it’s a mirror for anyone ready to drop the BS and live on their own terms.
🔗https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e2uarEDua4&t
July 2, 2025 at 7:11 PM
📘 Drinking Water and Mind Your Business: A Black Woman’s Guide to Unlearning the BS and Healing Self-Esteem by Dr. Donna Oriowo
This isn’t just for Black women—it’s a mirror for anyone ready to drop the BS and live on their own terms.
🔗https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e2uarEDua4&t
This isn’t just for Black women—it’s a mirror for anyone ready to drop the BS and live on their own terms.
🔗https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6e2uarEDua4&t
K&T started this month a Professional Listing option for the sexual health and wellness field...if you are a professional in any aspect with this field...please join us...
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Kiss & Tell Magazine - Why Join Us
Kiss & Tell Magazine - At Kiss & Tell Magazine (aka K&T), we advocate for, celebrate, and promote sexual health and wellness. Our online magazine
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June 20, 2025 at 6:08 PM
K&T started this month a Professional Listing option for the sexual health and wellness field...if you are a professional in any aspect with this field...please join us...
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Survivors of sexual abuse and those who monitor the Roman Catholic Church’s handling of abuse cases are hoping to persuade cardinals to make the issue a priority when considering who should next be pope.
Survivors Urge Cardinals to Discuss Sex Abuse Crisis in Choosing Next Pope
Pope Francis is credited with addressing the issue more strongly than his predecessors did, but clerical abuse remains a ruinous issue for the Roman Catholic Church.
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May 5, 2025 at 12:22 PM
Survivors of sexual abuse and those who monitor the Roman Catholic Church’s handling of abuse cases are hoping to persuade cardinals to make the issue a priority when considering who should next be pope.
We are curious at K&T how many of you are wondering about sperm speed?
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Sperm racing: Inside the first-of-its-kind race that's taking the internet by storm
Is sperm racing the next big thing? Well, it might not become an Olympic sport, but it's certainly creating quite the buzz.
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May 5, 2025 at 2:42 PM
We are curious at K&T how many of you are wondering about sperm speed?
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Kiss & Tell Magazine is hosting the Kink & Non-Monogamy Conference Oct 16–17!
Learn from Kink and CNM experts
Real tools 4 communication + consent
CEs available for professionals!
More info + registration ➡️ kinkandnon-monogamyconference.com
#KinkTok #CNM #SexPositive #ConsentCulture #SexualHealth
Learn from Kink and CNM experts
Real tools 4 communication + consent
CEs available for professionals!
More info + registration ➡️ kinkandnon-monogamyconference.com
#KinkTok #CNM #SexPositive #ConsentCulture #SexualHealth
Kiss & Tell Magazine - Kink And Non-Monogamy Conference
We’re proud to present our third annual conference about Kink and Non-Monogamy – a two-day virtual event focused on exploring desire, relationship structures, and sexual health with honesty and depth.
kinkandnon-monogamyconference.com
April 28, 2025 at 3:47 PM
Kiss & Tell Magazine is hosting the Kink & Non-Monogamy Conference Oct 16–17!
Learn from Kink and CNM experts
Real tools 4 communication + consent
CEs available for professionals!
More info + registration ➡️ kinkandnon-monogamyconference.com
#KinkTok #CNM #SexPositive #ConsentCulture #SexualHealth
Learn from Kink and CNM experts
Real tools 4 communication + consent
CEs available for professionals!
More info + registration ➡️ kinkandnon-monogamyconference.com
#KinkTok #CNM #SexPositive #ConsentCulture #SexualHealth
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I stand with Ukraine. I stand with Zelenskyy
March 3, 2025 at 4:38 PM
I stand with Ukraine. I stand with Zelenskyy
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Trolls are out: 11 followers, slamming NIH.
Blocked this one.
Blocked this one.
March 3, 2025 at 5:33 PM
Trolls are out: 11 followers, slamming NIH.
Blocked this one.
Blocked this one.
Happy Friday...watch our latest podcast
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#ErectileDysfunction #SexualHealth #LetsTalkAboutSex #MensHealth #WomensHealth #SexTherapy #IntimacyMatters #Kink #Polyamory #nonmonogamy
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EDs, UTIs, SEX, INTIMACY & YOUR SEXUAL HEALTH
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February 28, 2025 at 3:03 PM
Happy Friday...watch our latest podcast
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#ErectileDysfunction #SexualHealth #LetsTalkAboutSex #MensHealth #WomensHealth #SexTherapy #IntimacyMatters #Kink #Polyamory #nonmonogamy
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People’s reactions to these stories tend to be of the leopards-eating-faces variety but this is a great piece of reporting in part about how voters very disconnected from politics make their choices.
www.washingtonpost.com/politics/202...
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She hoped Trump’s victory would change her life, but not like this
Ryleigh Cooper is normally more focused on motherhood than politics. Then came DOGE.
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February 27, 2025 at 1:48 PM
People’s reactions to these stories tend to be of the leopards-eating-faces variety but this is a great piece of reporting in part about how voters very disconnected from politics make their choices.
www.washingtonpost.com/politics/202...
www.washingtonpost.com/politics/202...