I once read a post where someone was calling their ex evil because they had #borderlinepersonalitydisorder was demonizing their ex because they refused to understand what the disorder entails and I feel like that is a very dangerous thing to do.

A psychologist has always said if a person always speaks negativity about former partners that they were the problem in the relationship because they didn't take accountability and externalizing blame.

A person that is constantly negativity about every experience they've had and never take accountability for their part in the situation will always be a #RedFlag to me. On top of if you constantly make post after post shit talking your exes. #TellingHalfTruths #AvoidingAccountability

I don't know if this is truly how this person takes people giving a different perspective than their own point of view, but his ex probably did nothing wrong—he just didn't tell them something because he assumed something.

Well that just goes to show that people refuse to learn or grow from things. I was being nothing but kind and understanding. If you don't want to hear other people’s points of view, you are going to be stuck.