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Crazy to start off an apology that way and then say I'm being selfish
July 23, 2026 at 2:54 PM
"i don't measure what we do for each other" and so I do??? If I was truly measuring, I wouldn't lift a finger around that house
July 23, 2026 at 2:24 PM
I mentally can't continue to carry everyone in the house. I'm so tired of being called unhelpful, ungrateful, difficult just because I don't want to do everything for anyone anymore. I do everything but you can't fathom doing a 30 minute process because it won't be fast enough
July 23, 2026 at 2:21 PM
Just because you do something slowly or it doesn't look as "neat" doesn't mean you can't do it at all. Stop asking me to do everything just because I can do a task well. Anyone can put away groceries, anyone can organize a pantry, anyone can write down the internet password, why is it just me
July 23, 2026 at 2:18 PM
You take it upon yourself to do things and then expect me to just want to go the extra step for something else when it was never asked for you to do so in thr first place. I live with family so I'm supposed to be the keeper of every process and information for the house, how does that make sense
July 23, 2026 at 2:17 PM