Victor
@formicarius.bsky.social
NYC 🏠 The Sky✈️ CIS Male ♂️ Pansexual 🏳️🌈Sapiosexual
Occasionally Helpless Romantic Flirty SIMP IYKYK
Spending more time in the air and hotel beds than my own bed these days
Occasionally Helpless Romantic Flirty SIMP IYKYK
Spending more time in the air and hotel beds than my own bed these days
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I cancelled a session where the client asked to film and have turned others away from the get go that ask for it initially. This instantly makes me feel objectified and now I know this is a possible goal of that client, whether I consent or not. Some SWers allow this, I do not.
September 16, 2026 at 12:34 AM
I cancelled a session where the client asked to film and have turned others away from the get go that ask for it initially. This instantly makes me feel objectified and now I know this is a possible goal of that client, whether I consent or not. Some SWers allow this, I do not.
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How to be someone she brags about and not someone she vents about!! 💝 (Sex Ed for straight men who live in reality)
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
September 15, 2026 at 7:30 PM
How to be someone she brags about and not someone she vents about!! 💝 (Sex Ed for straight men who live in reality)
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
Hot:
*expressing interest/curiosity in your partner's interests
*asking follow-up questions
*"lemme go wash my hands first"
*"spending time with you makes me feel so fucking good"
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a truly incredible, highly educational video for men who have sex with women <3
highly recommend men watch this to be better, to be so much more attractive, and to engage in sex in a way that leaves both you and your partner feeling so nourished and connected and excited and alive <3
highly recommend men watch this to be better, to be so much more attractive, and to engage in sex in a way that leaves both you and your partner feeling so nourished and connected and excited and alive <3
How to pleasure a woman | a spiritual & physical sex guide
YouTube video by Hitomi Mochizuki
www.youtube.com
September 13, 2026 at 5:54 PM
a truly incredible, highly educational video for men who have sex with women <3
highly recommend men watch this to be better, to be so much more attractive, and to engage in sex in a way that leaves both you and your partner feeling so nourished and connected and excited and alive <3
highly recommend men watch this to be better, to be so much more attractive, and to engage in sex in a way that leaves both you and your partner feeling so nourished and connected and excited and alive <3
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foundations of being skilled at courtship as a man 👄:
★consistent and reliable in planning
★thoughtful and considerate in communication
★enthusiastic & warm, fun, curious, present, respectful and playful in person. so hot
★consistent and reliable in planning
★thoughtful and considerate in communication
★enthusiastic & warm, fun, curious, present, respectful and playful in person. so hot
September 12, 2026 at 6:15 PM
foundations of being skilled at courtship as a man 👄:
★consistent and reliable in planning
★thoughtful and considerate in communication
★enthusiastic & warm, fun, curious, present, respectful and playful in person. so hot
★consistent and reliable in planning
★thoughtful and considerate in communication
★enthusiastic & warm, fun, curious, present, respectful and playful in person. so hot
The best part of traveling is the view when I finally fly back to NYC for a few days to rest and recover
August 31, 2026 at 3:07 AM
The best part of traveling is the view when I finally fly back to NYC for a few days to rest and recover
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Some people might not be aware, but it is entirely possible that without Dolly Parton we wouldn’t have had a COVID vaccine. She partly funded Moderna’s research and gave the largest individual contribution to make it all happen.
Just gives you an idea of the kind of person she was.
Just gives you an idea of the kind of person she was.
August 25, 2026 at 6:44 PM
Some people might not be aware, but it is entirely possible that without Dolly Parton we wouldn’t have had a COVID vaccine. She partly funded Moderna’s research and gave the largest individual contribution to make it all happen.
Just gives you an idea of the kind of person she was.
Just gives you an idea of the kind of person she was.
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men who enthusiastically worship me > men who resentfully consume me. the difference is subtle to the untrained eye yet obvious to my core. i adore the first group <3
August 18, 2026 at 9:44 PM
men who enthusiastically worship me > men who resentfully consume me. the difference is subtle to the untrained eye yet obvious to my core. i adore the first group <3
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Hygiene Tips for Men who want to be hotter 😚~
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1. Embrace learning from women and from queer people - including queer men. If this is uncomfortable for you to do bc of your internalized homophobia - cool. Good to realize, great moment to address that!!
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1. Embrace learning from women and from queer people - including queer men. If this is uncomfortable for you to do bc of your internalized homophobia - cool. Good to realize, great moment to address that!!
June 1, 2026 at 12:36 AM
Hygiene Tips for Men who want to be hotter 😚~
🧵
1. Embrace learning from women and from queer people - including queer men. If this is uncomfortable for you to do bc of your internalized homophobia - cool. Good to realize, great moment to address that!!
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1. Embrace learning from women and from queer people - including queer men. If this is uncomfortable for you to do bc of your internalized homophobia - cool. Good to realize, great moment to address that!!
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I love getting tested… it gives me such an unbeatable high 😇💕😈 Responsible people are ridiculously attractive (not to toot my own horn). Go get tested! It’s not only hot, it’s one of the kindest things you can do for yourself, your anxieties, and others.
July 27, 2026 at 8:17 PM
I love getting tested… it gives me such an unbeatable high 😇💕😈 Responsible people are ridiculously attractive (not to toot my own horn). Go get tested! It’s not only hot, it’s one of the kindest things you can do for yourself, your anxieties, and others.
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Intimacy. Attentiveness. Slowness. Care. Tenderness. Giggling. Soft touch. Curiosity. Edging. Holding hands. Blushing. Kissing. Savoring. Not rushing to a “goal” but being fully present in the moment. Being fully listened to, held, cared for, nurtured, teased, nourished 💘🖤😮💨
June 21, 2025 at 6:34 PM
Intimacy. Attentiveness. Slowness. Care. Tenderness. Giggling. Soft touch. Curiosity. Edging. Holding hands. Blushing. Kissing. Savoring. Not rushing to a “goal” but being fully present in the moment. Being fully listened to, held, cared for, nurtured, teased, nourished 💘🖤😮💨
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We don't say sex work is work because it's a cute slogan.
We say sex work is work because sex workers are left out of conversations around labor rights.
Sex workers have the right to safe workplaces and legal protections.
Sex workers shouldn't fsce discrimination because of archaic morals.
We say sex work is work because sex workers are left out of conversations around labor rights.
Sex workers have the right to safe workplaces and legal protections.
Sex workers shouldn't fsce discrimination because of archaic morals.
September 17, 2025 at 11:43 PM
We don't say sex work is work because it's a cute slogan.
We say sex work is work because sex workers are left out of conversations around labor rights.
Sex workers have the right to safe workplaces and legal protections.
Sex workers shouldn't fsce discrimination because of archaic morals.
We say sex work is work because sex workers are left out of conversations around labor rights.
Sex workers have the right to safe workplaces and legal protections.
Sex workers shouldn't fsce discrimination because of archaic morals.
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Reposting one of my favourite tweets about my views on companionship here on Bsky because it’s always a great reminder for those who participate in this world
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February 23, 2025 at 5:55 PM
Reposting one of my favourite tweets about my views on companionship here on Bsky because it’s always a great reminder for those who participate in this world
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i love sex workers so much 💘
June 22, 2026 at 5:05 PM
i love sex workers so much 💘
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📚 Eventually my plan is to turn these threads into published articles people can reference and share. However this takes time and resources. If you are a man who is benefitting from this knowledge, and wants to support/sponsor this project, email me and we can collaborate ☺️
May 12, 2026 at 6:52 PM
📚 Eventually my plan is to turn these threads into published articles people can reference and share. However this takes time and resources. If you are a man who is benefitting from this knowledge, and wants to support/sponsor this project, email me and we can collaborate ☺️
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-Think about verbal conversations. I've had conversations for HOURS sometimes and completely lost track of time, because the conversation was so creative + stimulating. We each asked follow-up questions which led to greater intimacy and unlocked new insights. This is what good sex can feel like!!-
May 12, 2026 at 5:23 PM
-Think about verbal conversations. I've had conversations for HOURS sometimes and completely lost track of time, because the conversation was so creative + stimulating. We each asked follow-up questions which led to greater intimacy and unlocked new insights. This is what good sex can feel like!!-
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If you're an admirer/fan of SWs, and found yourself as an admirer resonating with and liking this thread, please consider putting that sentiment into action and contributing to this crowdfunding for a beloved member of our community. Thank you in advance! ♥️💕:
chuffed.org/project/1828...
chuffed.org/project/1828...
Solidarity with Miss Dahlia
I am writing in advocacy for a woman who has profoundly impacted me when I recently moved to NYC and met through community events. In fact, it was her events that she organized on behalf of our commun...
chuffed.org
May 24, 2026 at 12:00 AM
If you're an admirer/fan of SWs, and found yourself as an admirer resonating with and liking this thread, please consider putting that sentiment into action and contributing to this crowdfunding for a beloved member of our community. Thank you in advance! ♥️💕:
chuffed.org/project/1828...
chuffed.org/project/1828...
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being "good at sex" has less to do with developing specific mechanical skills + more to do with learning how to be present with another person (which is actually more vulnerable and scary yet exciting imo!!) 💘 (contd)
December 18, 2025 at 4:31 PM
being "good at sex" has less to do with developing specific mechanical skills + more to do with learning how to be present with another person (which is actually more vulnerable and scary yet exciting imo!!) 💘 (contd)
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ugh i fucking love meeting men who are like oh btw i love to take things slow and i love kissing :)
January 4, 2026 at 12:34 AM
ugh i fucking love meeting men who are like oh btw i love to take things slow and i love kissing :)
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one is this very mechanical robotic thing based exclusively around 1 part of the body, and one is highly sensual and full body/mind in a euphoric way but i just dont even think they are the same activity and im completely disinterested in the first but obsessed with the second lolll =)
June 15, 2026 at 4:26 PM
one is this very mechanical robotic thing based exclusively around 1 part of the body, and one is highly sensual and full body/mind in a euphoric way but i just dont even think they are the same activity and im completely disinterested in the first but obsessed with the second lolll =)
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i love making successful men flustered and nervous 🥲
June 15, 2026 at 11:13 PM
i love making successful men flustered and nervous 🥲
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can we please stop promoting the myth that women are less horny than men. i for example am feral thank u!! 🥰😽
July 5, 2026 at 7:17 PM
can we please stop promoting the myth that women are less horny than men. i for example am feral thank u!! 🥰😽
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i truly believe the more you live (like actually live, not just exist), the hotter you become because it shapes your energy in a way that can't be explained but is deeply felt
this has been my personal and professional experience 💝
this has been my personal and professional experience 💝
July 12, 2026 at 6:17 PM
i truly believe the more you live (like actually live, not just exist), the hotter you become because it shapes your energy in a way that can't be explained but is deeply felt
this has been my personal and professional experience 💝
this has been my personal and professional experience 💝
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just a random reminder to moisturize your lips and stay hydrated with water all day long 👄
August 3, 2026 at 1:34 PM
just a random reminder to moisturize your lips and stay hydrated with water all day long 👄
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enthusiasm and follow thru are so hot. being nonchalant as a straight man in dating is actually not attractive at all. express your desires, state your intentions, follow thru on them, express your admiration openly, FLIRT in the form of making women's lives more fun, hot and full of ease 🥰 <3
Derpy Wisdom
ALT: Derpy Wisdom
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July 24, 2026 at 4:11 AM
enthusiasm and follow thru are so hot. being nonchalant as a straight man in dating is actually not attractive at all. express your desires, state your intentions, follow thru on them, express your admiration openly, FLIRT in the form of making women's lives more fun, hot and full of ease 🥰 <3