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Dr. Goblin
@goblinmodetherapy.com
I am a clinical psychologist based in Minneapolis, as well as someone who provides psychoeducation around Mental Health

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Yes, stress is stress even if it comes from an overall "positive" or healthy life change
October 15, 2026 at 4:09 PM
This handout doesn't have it, but it's important to think about when you move away from it, how do you manage your stress (this is where more coping skills type stuff comes into play)
October 15, 2026 at 3:59 PM
October 15, 2026 at 3:49 PM
Making the Commitment can help alleviate some distress and help you navigate the life choice
October 15, 2026 at 3:48 PM
And there are many reasons why you ultimately may move away from a value, but then you need to be able to make peace with that. A lot of this is based in Acceptance and Commitment which is the idea that if you are going to take action you Commit to it
October 15, 2026 at 3:48 PM
Honestly my favorite place to start is with an exercise called "Choice Point". Identifying what your primary value is can often times make it easier to then make the decision on whether you want to heads towards it or away from it

Problem Solving/Pros and Cons can help decide
October 15, 2026 at 3:48 PM
I am glad you recognized that you needed to step away
October 15, 2026 at 3:09 PM
Reposted by Dr. Goblin
I dunno. I know I'm not alone in this. And I hope that if you've experienced anything even close to this that you know you're not alone either. And that even if things feel inescapable, you can and WILL survived it

My dad is not survived by me after he died in 2022
I survived him
October 15, 2026 at 2:48 PM