what's the fucking point if we aren't going into our relationships seeking to be more earnest, more vulnerable, & more supportive? i don't want to perform friendship, i want to be friends. i want to show up for people. i want to be close with them. we should strive to love one another more each day.
what's the fucking point if we aren't going into our relationships seeking to be more earnest, more vulnerable, & more supportive? i don't want to perform friendship, i want to be friends. i want to show up for people. i want to be close with them. we should strive to love one another more each day.
shackling a leaky girl to the wall of your apartment so you can treat her like one of those water bottles for hamsters and pop by for a little sip whenever you want
October 30, 2026 at 9:08 PM
shackling a leaky girl to the wall of your apartment so you can treat her like one of those water bottles for hamsters and pop by for a little sip whenever you want
extremely bold choice by key vs locket to make lp2 sound like if you recorded lp1 through a wall. im not even mad about it, it is clearly A Choice and im intrigued.
October 29, 2026 at 3:28 PM
extremely bold choice by key vs locket to make lp2 sound like if you recorded lp1 through a wall. im not even mad about it, it is clearly A Choice and im intrigued.
can you believe fern is my fucking girlfriend. like seriously. fern. miss fern. you know her. you love her. shes my fucking girlfriend. shes my future wife. i can barely believe it sometimes. i get to love her and care for her and make her laugh and im gonna get to grow old with her.
October 29, 2026 at 4:45 AM
can you believe fern is my fucking girlfriend. like seriously. fern. miss fern. you know her. you love her. shes my fucking girlfriend. shes my future wife. i can barely believe it sometimes. i get to love her and care for her and make her laugh and im gonna get to grow old with her.
btw i wore a dress with straps when i went shopping bc. y'know. easy to remove in the changeroom. which means ive been running around town with my fucking claw marks from last friday out there for the world to see.
October 29, 2026 at 3:37 AM
btw i wore a dress with straps when i went shopping bc. y'know. easy to remove in the changeroom. which means ive been running around town with my fucking claw marks from last friday out there for the world to see.
as a fat woman (feminist) im mad that the plus-sized french maid costume at spirit halloween shows way less skin but as a fat woman (me, selfish) im glad because i think it's a lot cuter
October 29, 2026 at 2:58 AM
as a fat woman (feminist) im mad that the plus-sized french maid costume at spirit halloween shows way less skin but as a fat woman (me, selfish) im glad because i think it's a lot cuter
they got rid of the reference help and library help desks so they wouldnt have to staff them. the functions of those desks got offloaded onto the loan desk as well as a live chat and appointment system.
but then they got tired of paying people to monitor the chat so now they make you do it on desk.
library administration runs this place like a neoliberal democracy (steadily draining funding and support for services until resources are spread so thin that the services can't operate effectively, causing usage and satisfaction to drop, then using that as a justification to cut them entirely)
October 28, 2026 at 9:06 PM
they got rid of the reference help and library help desks so they wouldnt have to staff them. the functions of those desks got offloaded onto the loan desk as well as a live chat and appointment system.
but then they got tired of paying people to monitor the chat so now they make you do it on desk.
this is actually a broader trend ive noticed a lot. not only do many students not carry their student card (which doubles as a library card) anymore, many of them do not carry any ID on them whatsoever and then are baffled and frustrated when i can't loan them a $2000 laptop.
patron being baffled and confused that yes, i do in fact need a physical piece of photo ID for you to view and handle the 328 year old extremely rare, if not literally irreplaceable, book you're asking to see. no you can't just show me a photo. no i can't take your phone as collateral instead.
October 28, 2026 at 8:19 PM
this is actually a broader trend ive noticed a lot. not only do many students not carry their student card (which doubles as a library card) anymore, many of them do not carry any ID on them whatsoever and then are baffled and frustrated when i can't loan them a $2000 laptop.
library administration runs this place like a neoliberal democracy (steadily draining funding and support for services until resources are spread so thin that the services can't operate effectively, causing usage and satisfaction to drop, then using that as a justification to cut them entirely)
October 28, 2026 at 8:16 PM
library administration runs this place like a neoliberal democracy (steadily draining funding and support for services until resources are spread so thin that the services can't operate effectively, causing usage and satisfaction to drop, then using that as a justification to cut them entirely)
patron being baffled and confused that yes, i do in fact need a physical piece of photo ID for you to view and handle the 328 year old extremely rare, if not literally irreplaceable, book you're asking to see. no you can't just show me a photo. no i can't take your phone as collateral instead.
October 28, 2026 at 8:11 PM
patron being baffled and confused that yes, i do in fact need a physical piece of photo ID for you to view and handle the 328 year old extremely rare, if not literally irreplaceable, book you're asking to see. no you can't just show me a photo. no i can't take your phone as collateral instead.
someone please give me an interest-free loan for however much money it would cost for me to build a women-only bathhouse and sauna (not the cruising kind the regular kind) i will pay you back
October 28, 2026 at 6:52 PM
someone please give me an interest-free loan for however much money it would cost for me to build a women-only bathhouse and sauna (not the cruising kind the regular kind) i will pay you back
doing that thing guys did during the hippie movement where they adopt the aesthetics for grass and ass but instead it's putting on a fursuit for ketamine and also still ass because some things never change
October 28, 2026 at 6:43 PM
doing that thing guys did during the hippie movement where they adopt the aesthetics for grass and ass but instead it's putting on a fursuit for ketamine and also still ass because some things never change
she takes off the head of her fursuit and she has dog ears on underneath and someone in the group says "i fucking knew it, you're way too friendly to be a cat"
dog woman who happens to also be a furry and is really tired of people being confused that her fursona is a cat
October 28, 2026 at 6:39 PM
she takes off the head of her fursuit and she has dog ears on underneath and someone in the group says "i fucking knew it, you're way too friendly to be a cat"
really ambiguous therian who keeps clawing people and nobody can figure out if it's a cat thing or a werewolf thing and at this point it's been way too long to ask
October 28, 2026 at 6:34 PM
really ambiguous therian who keeps clawing people and nobody can figure out if it's a cat thing or a werewolf thing and at this point it's been way too long to ask