Because we're "relationship first, let any dynamics emerge naturally" it's dishonorable to get into new partners' heads: we pursue no "M/s seduction" and keep any training about, for, and owned by them, to protect their free & clear exit
Because we're "relationship first, let any dynamics emerge naturally" it's dishonorable to get into new partners' heads: we pursue no "M/s seduction" and keep any training about, for, and owned by them, to protect their free & clear exit
Worked first time! Kinks and roles leveraged, barriers & harm reduced
Worked first time! Kinks and roles leveraged, barriers & harm reduced
If master is cut off from their own desires, while also driven to avoid certain outcomes at all costs.. who's in charge?
Seek Worthiness Work before TPE or moving anyone in
If master is cut off from their own desires, while also driven to avoid certain outcomes at all costs.. who's in charge?
Seek Worthiness Work before TPE or moving anyone in
Before the support, the reinforcement, the conditioning, draw this line
Before the support, the reinforcement, the conditioning, draw this line
▪️the range of situations that make one feel slavey
▪️codes of honor for masters
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▪️the range of situations that make one feel slavey
▪️codes of honor for masters
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This question joins MAsT ATX's list of "standing topics", because it's M/s fundamentals: bring your thoughts next meeting!
This question joins MAsT ATX's list of "standing topics", because it's M/s fundamentals: bring your thoughts next meeting!
^ don't play to the mainstream. Share what makes you different so your people can find you
^ don't play to the mainstream. Share what makes you different so your people can find you
I've tasked slave iii with baking a cake that's strictly for me: it requires a flour she can't eat. This departs from "common weal" decision-making, so the whole time she's making it, her brain can say "good slave! good slave!"
I've tasked slave iii with baking a cake that's strictly for me: it requires a flour she can't eat. This departs from "common weal" decision-making, so the whole time she's making it, her brain can say "good slave! good slave!"
It's because eating disorders respond to leadership, not to power. Since my slave is suddenly into Russian Duolingo, and weekly cooks a dish I choose, I market her hyperfixation back to her with my choices, growing her repertoire of safe foods
It's because eating disorders respond to leadership, not to power. Since my slave is suddenly into Russian Duolingo, and weekly cooks a dish I choose, I market her hyperfixation back to her with my choices, growing her repertoire of safe foods
To plan the date, work backwards from their realization: what series of events builds to that honest observation?
To plan the date, work backwards from their realization: what series of events builds to that honest observation?
- Setting Vision & Direction
- Motivating & Inspiring
- Developing People
- Managing Change
- Setting Vision & Direction
- Motivating & Inspiring
- Developing People
- Managing Change
One signals "heard", the other signals "I hear and obey", which also tells M immediately when words came across wrong
M: I forgot to plug in the car
s: wilco (stands up)
M: sit down and finish eating
s: wilco (sits down)
One signals "heard", the other signals "I hear and obey", which also tells M immediately when words came across wrong
M: I forgot to plug in the car
s: wilco (stands up)
M: sit down and finish eating
s: wilco (sits down)
"There's no way to get this wrong"
"There's no way to get this wrong"
- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections
- collars & collaring practices
- marriage after M/s
- how to get started with M/s
- M/s & recovery (ED, trauma)
- poly + M/s intersections