If you’ve read this far here’s a bit of spice. I used the wand on my cage yesterday. Technically with permission from my wife. But she did jokingly say that doing so sorta defeats the purpose. So I’m offering pleasure for her today while saying I’m not expecting to cum again for a few days at least.

There’s been a couple days where I started to hit the “unfun” or mundane parts of being caged. I know this is part of this experience but I’m still working on how to get through it without getting too down. I just remind myself that this is what I want and I can stop at any time.

The biggest challenge by far is to stop trying to top from the bottom. I’ve gotten much better about that in the last week or so. I just have to let go of trying to get my wife to be a certain type of key holder. And it’s fun seeing how she approaches this in her own way.

Also looking forward to mixing the cage with diapers. The precum leakage calmed down after the first bit. But, still a good combo to keep things from getting messy. (And the cage naturally points you do so diaper wearing is natural.)

Oddly enough giving the cage a cute nickname playing off her name for my cock already seems to be resonating with her.

I’m very excited to explore new types of play with this with my wife. I don’t want to overwhelm her with my fantasies on it because she already seems to be taking her own interest in this in hopefully her own way.

Took it off for a minute to readjust things. Gotta find the right arrangement of pieces for the best fit probably still.

My underwear is a mess. So much dripping precum.

Decided to “secure” it with a baby pin. Easily removed and very cute while me not worrying about it coming apart.