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nadia
@nadia9.bsky.social
T4Tea 🏳️‍⚧️🫖; bookworm; femme; ex-Brit; likes the taste of butter, surrealism, weird distributed systems bugs, Weimar Germany, dodecahedrons, and baking. Seattle.
went to Vienna for a weekend so I could wear a beret and eat Sachertorte. there were no trans girls on grindr within 100 miles but the grand cafes were open until midnight, so.
January 26, 2024 at 11:54 PM
New: Harris tweed suit. Old: cravat I wore obsessively as a twinky boy in London 15 years ago, and a favorite waistcoat from grad school. As my old pal Goethe says: Auch der Gedanke willig, sinnig, schnelle / Sich ums Vergangne wie ums Künftige schlang.
December 2, 2023 at 9:07 PM
doppelgängeresque
December 2, 2023 at 6:29 AM
On the train from Scotland to London, periodically refreshing grindr (t4t filter) every 50 miles down the east coast mainline. (Conclusion: t’all need more t4t in the UK, poor dears.)
November 17, 2023 at 4:21 PM
found the perfect disguise as a trans woman visiting the UK: dress like a Tory councilor.
November 15, 2023 at 10:31 AM
It is properly rainy, windy October fall. Long have I plotted my outfits for this season, laid down my plans in the despised baleful days of summer, biding my time — now at least I can unleash my trench coats and turtlenecks and tweed on an unsuspecting world.
October 3, 2023 at 2:30 PM
Reposted by nadia
NYC save the dates!

BOOK LAUNCHES for GIRLFRIENDS 🥰

OCTOBER 19, McNally Jackson Seaport w/@emotrophywife.bsky.social (7 pm)

OCTOBER 25, Brooklyn Public Library, Brooklyn Heights branch
w/@leahtigers.bsky.social (7 PM)

MARK YOUR CALENDARS

cc: @emializh.bsky.social (prolly esp. yer calendar)
September 14, 2023 at 9:10 PM
Got a friend to tell me all the criticisms that a Nemesis would level at me. She began with how I’m vain, snobbish, and self-centered. Criticisms got sharper as she went on. Recommended.

It hasn’t inspired me to be a good person. No. Instead I shall be vain and snobbish in ever more refined ways.
September 8, 2023 at 4:08 PM
at Broadway and Pine and I see this boy with long hair and he's walking a small dog, and I just *know* they're trans femme, like either boymoding or an egg, the way she was walking, awkwardly, hunching up her shoulders, clenching everything in her body tight, tight, to avoid being a girl.
August 11, 2023 at 4:28 AM
nose still taped from FFS and generally not feeling one’s best, but at least the trans girl behind the bar said she liked my leather jacket, so.
August 10, 2023 at 7:32 PM
the kind of girl who sends unsolicited baking pics on grindr
July 9, 2023 at 1:34 AM
I finally got ahold of the data from the CT scan of my skull that I got last year in preparation for my FFS. now I need to 3D print it for a life-size memento mori to sit on my desk. and also for silver earrings.
July 8, 2023 at 9:02 PM