I've never gotten this. I prefer black people (since I'm black) but that does not mean I would NEVER date out of my race. Preferences aren't "Yeah I'm just never going to do X." That's a rule.

"Oh no. They set us 100 years back!" That's not a thing. One person of a marginalized community being a bad person does not justify anything they do and it will not stoke the flames. The flames are ALREADY BURNING HOT for many individuals.

I'm kinda cooking

No, right? So maybe I am just kinda wrong, but also maybe I would if Kris said they were a goat.
Kris "I'm not a goat but I fit the description" Dreemurr.

I'll always try to better approach this with nuance, however. I get nomenclature and words shifting meaning, however, I dislike ebonics being used so freely by people with no context of the original meaning. Obviously, that's personal, but still.