We all want to be free, and most of us believe that we are. The question of whether we truly are free or entirely determined is one of the oldest debates in philosophy. And as we set out to examine the forces of biology, genetics and society, it becomes harder to deny that many aspects of our lives seem to be beyond our control. And yet, this feeling of freedom remains. We still feel as though we are free to make choices. It is within this tension, between the forces that undoubtedly shape us, and our perceived freedom, that the ides that “life is your fault” takes form.

Stoicism has long been celebrated as a philosophy which helps those who practice it overcome life’s hardships. And though I don’t suggest we reject stoicism entirely, I argue that hidden beneath the surface of its austerity is a logic that, if carried to its extreme, starts to resemble the phenomenon of “toxic positivity”—the denial of negativity and of the full range of human emotions. Even though the stoic approach indeed offers an appealing framework for achieving inner peace, if taken too literally, it can ultimately lead to a form of emotional suppression.

The text explores the transient nature of life, likening it to a moving train where moments and experiences slip away beyond our grasp. It reflects on the uncertainties of existence, the passing of passengers, and the fluidity of stories shared among individuals. Ultimately, it underscores the futility of seeking absolute truths in an unending journey.

Philosophy for Real Life - Episode 2 Hell is other people: how do we shape our identity?

Is the world meaningless--or do we just want it to be? How do our beliefs and confirmation biases shape the philosophical theories we choose to believe in?

Philosophy For Real Life - Episode 1 Nietzsche's Eternal Return: what if you had to relive your choices forever?

Sartre's famous quote "Hell is other people" reflects a complex idea that misanthropy does not capture. It emphasizes how our perception of ourselves is influenced by others' judgments, leading to anxiety and conflict. True freedom lies in understanding that others are equally preoccupied with their self-image, diminishing their scrutiny of us.

Social media has become a constant in our daily lives. But though it offers unparalleled ways to engage with the world, it also shapes the way we see ourselves and our identity. Who are you, really?

Sartre’s famous quote “Hell is other people” reflects a complex idea that misanthropy does not capture. It emphasizes how our perception of ourselves is influenced by others&#8217…

What should we do when we are faced with the meaninglessness of the universe?