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StepmomCoach
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35 years living and learning about being in a relationship #lifecoach. Walk my talk, believe in facts. Sharing stuff about #relationships, everyday life, things I love (RVing, painting, reading,) and my 2 cents.
When you read the news or scroll through posts, ask yourself: Is this content meant to inform me or inflame me? Is it meant to inspire me or influence me?
September 8, 2026 at 11:58 AM
September 1, 2026 at 10:24 AM
If you're a stepmom and feel like an outsider, read this post.
Like in my bio.
August 14, 2026 at 12:05 PM
July 17, 2026 at 11:28 AM
There's a role a lot of us fall into without ever choosing it: the capable one.
The one who's always fine. Always handles it. Always has room for one more thing.
Where did you learn to be her?
July 15, 2026 at 11:32 AM
For the next 250 years.
July 4, 2026 at 2:16 PM
From my Substack account
July 3, 2026 at 2:23 PM
July 2, 2026 at 3:44 AM
Let's remember we have more in common than what's different.
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June 28, 2026 at 1:49 PM
Why stepmoms feel like outsiders in their own home.
Read my newest blog at Stepmomcoach.com
June 22, 2026 at 10:52 AM
June 18, 2026 at 12:10 PM
20 years ago this month, I became a stepmom coach.
I'd already been a stepmom for 15 years by then. I knew the loneliness. The confusion. The feeling that you're doing everything wrong even when you're giving everything you have.
June 10, 2026 at 11:57 AM
May 26, 2026 at 11:44 AM
Are you dreading Mother’s Day? Sharing one of my most vulnerable moments on Substack.
May 9, 2026 at 12:43 PM
From my Substack this week
May 8, 2026 at 10:52 AM
May 5, 2026 at 11:29 AM
On Substack
May 2, 2026 at 10:59 AM
May 1, 2026 at 10:28 AM
You don’t have a communication problem.

You have a pattern.

And that pattern is the reason you:

- hold back
- overthink
- feel drained after conversations

Until you see it, nothing changes.

Take the quiz and find out exactly what’s going on.
Stepmomcoach.com/quiz
Stepmom Boundary Quiz: Discover Your Boundary Confidence Type - The Stepmom Coach
Take this free Stepmom Boundary Quiz to discover your Boundary Confidence Type — and find your personalized next step toward peace without guilt.
Stepmomcoach.com
April 29, 2026 at 1:04 AM
Before you can set a boundary, it helps to know where you're starting from.

The Boundary Confidence Type quiz takes about 3 minutes and tells you which of five stepmom boundary types you're living in right now — and what that means for your next step.

stepmomcoach.com/quiz
April 25, 2026 at 10:50 AM
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