lil buddy
@sunflowerpanda.bsky.social
bodily late 20s // nearly-permaregressed headmate // living in the nursery of a strange city street in a faceted mind
non-community age regressor, I kinda gave up labelling myself
NO MINORS NOR PEDOS/ZOOS
non-community age regressor, I kinda gave up labelling myself
NO MINORS NOR PEDOS/ZOOS
Also unfortunately The argument "well the freaks hate all of us so we need to mingle with people we don't like" is a bit of a slippery slope. I have unfortunately seen that as a means to protect actual predators
September 7, 2026 at 3:34 PM
Also unfortunately The argument "well the freaks hate all of us so we need to mingle with people we don't like" is a bit of a slippery slope. I have unfortunately seen that as a means to protect actual predators
I understand you don't want to be around people whose personality is "If I don't like it, you are bad"
I just don't think people who want to curate their experiences in a respectful way shouldn't be caught in the crossfire.
I just don't think people who want to curate their experiences in a respectful way shouldn't be caught in the crossfire.
September 7, 2026 at 3:34 PM
I understand you don't want to be around people whose personality is "If I don't like it, you are bad"
I just don't think people who want to curate their experiences in a respectful way shouldn't be caught in the crossfire.
I just don't think people who want to curate their experiences in a respectful way shouldn't be caught in the crossfire.
Everyone knows the real Diddyplex was FreeFurAll
August 25, 2026 at 3:30 AM
Everyone knows the real Diddyplex was FreeFurAll
I've heard that apparently the safest thing to do is to leave a discord server that's at risk
August 21, 2026 at 3:48 PM
I've heard that apparently the safest thing to do is to leave a discord server that's at risk
Look I don't like how some of you want kodo/cub to be the norm nor the aggression towards people who want a more nonsexual sub-community nor how some of you treat sincere boundaries like a personal attack
But when people are using unironic Nazi imagery to hate you, that's shitty
But when people are using unironic Nazi imagery to hate you, that's shitty
August 21, 2026 at 3:13 PM
Look I don't like how some of you want kodo/cub to be the norm nor the aggression towards people who want a more nonsexual sub-community nor how some of you treat sincere boundaries like a personal attack
But when people are using unironic Nazi imagery to hate you, that's shitty
But when people are using unironic Nazi imagery to hate you, that's shitty
I went on one of my tirades about how both sides make me feel isolated again. I nuked it all after seeing a photo of an anti-ABDL sticker with the motherfucking black sun.
August 21, 2026 at 3:03 PM
I went on one of my tirades about how both sides make me feel isolated again. I nuked it all after seeing a photo of an anti-ABDL sticker with the motherfucking black sun.
Oh my fucking god 💀
August 21, 2026 at 2:38 PM
Oh my fucking god 💀
I'm sure not everyone who words things like this are trying to be disingenuous. I'm sure some of them are just trying to cutely "hey, ABDLs and Ageres can coexist, not argue across high chairs"
But I take shit way too literally, please be more specific than that 💀
But I take shit way too literally, please be more specific than that 💀
August 21, 2026 at 2:30 PM
I'm sure not everyone who words things like this are trying to be disingenuous. I'm sure some of them are just trying to cutely "hey, ABDLs and Ageres can coexist, not argue across high chairs"
But I take shit way too literally, please be more specific than that 💀
But I take shit way too literally, please be more specific than that 💀
Maybe a con in one of the shittiest red states isn't a good idea lmao
August 20, 2026 at 1:17 PM
Maybe a con in one of the shittiest red states isn't a good idea lmao
beyond "non-community age regressor" because people seem to be either "if you make me uncomfortable you're evil" or "if you're not accepting of every kink and every aspect of it ever under the sun, you're a bigot burned furs fascist puritan" and I think both sides can suck ass
August 20, 2026 at 1:09 AM
beyond "non-community age regressor" because people seem to be either "if you make me uncomfortable you're evil" or "if you're not accepting of every kink and every aspect of it ever under the sun, you're a bigot burned furs fascist puritan" and I think both sides can suck ass
if you're uncomfortable with certain aspects. I get why the AgeRe community gets the reputation of has - hell, I have my own personal trauma of some predatory shitster claiming to be AgeRe leaking stuff to their following of minors because I wasn't TikTok AgeRe. Kinda gave up labelling myself
August 20, 2026 at 1:09 AM
if you're uncomfortable with certain aspects. I get why the AgeRe community gets the reputation of has - hell, I have my own personal trauma of some predatory shitster claiming to be AgeRe leaking stuff to their following of minors because I wasn't TikTok AgeRe. Kinda gave up labelling myself
Sorry, I tend to get defensive because some people do just really treat a boundary like "hey I like the dino nuggets and milk, just keep it clean around me" like Burned Furs ideology. I'm uncomfortable with the mindset that we must be in one box and accept everything ever since it causes isolation
August 20, 2026 at 1:09 AM
Sorry, I tend to get defensive because some people do just really treat a boundary like "hey I like the dino nuggets and milk, just keep it clean around me" like Burned Furs ideology. I'm uncomfortable with the mindset that we must be in one box and accept everything ever since it causes isolation
I'm perfectly fine with kinksters and I'm even friends with some - hell, they were there for me when I thought my life was over when someone tried to pedojacket me over nonsexual agere art
August 20, 2026 at 12:57 AM
I'm perfectly fine with kinksters and I'm even friends with some - hell, they were there for me when I thought my life was over when someone tried to pedojacket me over nonsexual agere art
Tbh as someone who is dualcom, I understand wanting to establish a separate side for people who are just Not Into The Sexual Side. Just don't be a douche.
There's people who like the hypermess buzzies, there's people who just wanna watch Bluey. Sometimes those two people don't wanna mingle.
There's people who like the hypermess buzzies, there's people who just wanna watch Bluey. Sometimes those two people don't wanna mingle.
August 20, 2026 at 12:53 AM
Tbh as someone who is dualcom, I understand wanting to establish a separate side for people who are just Not Into The Sexual Side. Just don't be a douche.
There's people who like the hypermess buzzies, there's people who just wanna watch Bluey. Sometimes those two people don't wanna mingle.
There's people who like the hypermess buzzies, there's people who just wanna watch Bluey. Sometimes those two people don't wanna mingle.
Like I'm sorry, I can never tell if posts like this mean "please let the kinky people exist" or "if you establish boundaries ever you're a bigot"
August 20, 2026 at 12:51 AM
Like I'm sorry, I can never tell if posts like this mean "please let the kinky people exist" or "if you establish boundaries ever you're a bigot"
Is there an issue with people who honest-to-god want a separate community that focuses on nonsexual comfort or is it just the super loud people who pedo jacket ABDLs? I just don't really feel comfortable with the sexual side of things and would rather just curate a nonsexual space.
August 20, 2026 at 12:49 AM
Is there an issue with people who honest-to-god want a separate community that focuses on nonsexual comfort or is it just the super loud people who pedo jacket ABDLs? I just don't really feel comfortable with the sexual side of things and would rather just curate a nonsexual space.
I'm not someone who actively harasses people for things I don't like. That's stupid. It's people who treat like boundaries are a personal attack I take issue with. I think people have their rights to their own corners with their own boundaries. Don't breach, just do your own thing
August 19, 2026 at 9:18 PM
I'm not someone who actively harasses people for things I don't like. That's stupid. It's people who treat like boundaries are a personal attack I take issue with. I think people have their rights to their own corners with their own boundaries. Don't breach, just do your own thing
I mean meer discomfort and dislike. Actual CSA hotlines have had to say "don't report drawings kthx" - perfectly reasonable take.
My issue is people conflating every one of these takes as the same. I've seen people throw massive shitfits over a simple dni
My issue is people conflating every one of these takes as the same. I've seen people throw massive shitfits over a simple dni
August 19, 2026 at 9:07 PM
I mean meer discomfort and dislike. Actual CSA hotlines have had to say "don't report drawings kthx" - perfectly reasonable take.
My issue is people conflating every one of these takes as the same. I've seen people throw massive shitfits over a simple dni
My issue is people conflating every one of these takes as the same. I've seen people throw massive shitfits over a simple dni
"but Nazis see both the sfw stuff and porn as the same so no point in trying to appease them 🥺"
Buddy they think Sesame Street saying "gay people cool" is porn. Their opinions are Dogshit. I'm appeasing my own comfort, not Nazis.
Buddy they think Sesame Street saying "gay people cool" is porn. Their opinions are Dogshit. I'm appeasing my own comfort, not Nazis.
August 19, 2026 at 9:04 PM
"but Nazis see both the sfw stuff and porn as the same so no point in trying to appease them 🥺"
Buddy they think Sesame Street saying "gay people cool" is porn. Their opinions are Dogshit. I'm appeasing my own comfort, not Nazis.
Buddy they think Sesame Street saying "gay people cool" is porn. Their opinions are Dogshit. I'm appeasing my own comfort, not Nazis.