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T. J. Raphael
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Award-winning investigative journalist | Alum: Audible, Sony, Slate, WNYC, New York Daily News, The Village Voice and beyond | Latina 🇵🇷 | WGAE Member 📝 | NYC 📍
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With the teen pregnancy rate down so low, most birth mothers today are adult women. Those who surrender their infants often do so due to desperation and hardship. Last fall, I attended the Concerned United Birth Parents conference and talked to many women, including those who recently relinquished.
July 16, 2026 at 4:54 PM
Some great resources on this issue include the group Reproductive Justice in Adoption; Saving Our Sisters; The Family Preservation Project; and the sociologist Gretchen Sisson’s work, which was cited by Sonia Sotomayor in her dissent in Dobbs. a.co/d/05rjRqU4
Relinquished
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July 16, 2026 at 4:49 PM
The No. 1 reason women place children for adoption is due to a lack of financial resources, according to peer reviewed research (below). Meanwhile, adoptive parents pay tens of thousands of dollars in fees to adopt a child. The power imblance is tangible cwlibrary.childwelfare.gov/discovery/de...
July 16, 2026 at 4:49 PM
Adoptive parents can close them for any reason at any time. It creates an inherent power imbalance in the relationship, and many birth parents say they feel like they are walking on eggshells until the child turns 18 because of this dynamic.
July 16, 2026 at 4:49 PM
Hi Alan! Thank you for recommending Liberty Lost. One thing to note though - closed adoptions are no longer the norm. Most adoptions these days begin as open adoptions. But still, several issues arise.

For starters, in most of the country, open adoption agreements are not legally enforceable.
July 16, 2026 at 4:49 PM
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His daughter, producer @tjraphael.bsky.social, tells his story and what it reveals about the care Puerto Rican veterans are owed for serving in American wars, and still can't get at home.
Episode 2: No Way Home
Podcast Episode · American Colony | The Latino Newsletter Podcast · July 8 · 48m
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July 8, 2026 at 12:15 PM
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October 16, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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As part of my journey to become increasingly angry at how women are treated in this country, I binge-listened to Liberty Lost last week. It is heart-wrenching, but SO GOOD.
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Liberty Lost
Society & Culture Podcast · Weekly Series · In Evangelical homes across the United States, sex outside of marriage is a sin against God. So, when Abbi becomes pregnant at 16, her devout parents hide h...
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August 5, 2025 at 1:40 AM
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August 5, 2025 at 5:30 PM