i dont wanna be in whats supposed to be inclusive and progressive communities seeing people make misogynistic jokes making light of sexual assault and abuse!! or the same but going for ableism or homophobia or transphobia!!

you might have a sensitivity to something in your toothpaste! menthol does that for me, so I have to use the kids' or unflavored.

You may also want to take some vitamin C if you don't eat a lot of fruit. Scurvy is rare but real >.>

*By "the culture" I mean respectful of kink and 'unpleasant' media creation.

also new policy for my ao3 interactions is i will not engage beyond a casual thanks with anyone with a guest account.

1. Idk if they're a bot or AI
2. I don't wanna deal with spam/predatory ghostwrite 'opportunities'
3. If you aren't on AO3 I do not trust you to be part of The Culture*

Someone commented on my ao3 (as a guest) if i was active on other sites & idk whether i should tell them that essentially i only interact, in a fandom capacity, with other creators active in the fandom because i am terrified of the internet in general, but if you're also a freak i can trust you.

Also with less compulsive relationship norms, there's a lot more single people at this age, and IMO single & nonpartnering people are hit the hardest without a group to distribute household labor.

Anyway my 2¢

not sure if you wanted replies to this, but i think we go thru an identity reformat at around this age. We're expected to have gotten it figured out by now. And as the world becomes more and more economically cutthroat, it becomes increasingly clear we don't.