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becky^ (beckycaret)
@yellowandblackmail.com
Knitter, ex-cab driver (check out the stories at www.yellowandblackmail.com), current data integrator, eternal bleeding-heart liberal.
🧀Madison, WI
Brought the boys home some blooming catnip. It was a feasting frenzy for the first several minutes and now it’s a relaxed curiosity.
July 8, 2026 at 12:55 AM
Enduring a long day of meetings with homemade strawberry rhubarb pie and double-knitting.
#knitting #Homade #strawberryseason
June 24, 2026 at 4:05 PM
I checked my own settings and they had reverted to “no one can send you a message unless the chat is already there”. I updated my settings and wonder maybe if yours were also reset.

As a second option I sent you a message in Insta!
June 12, 2026 at 1:38 PM
Herbert the Herb garden is doing very well this year with a bunch of volunteers seeded from last year. Mixed in is some raw, dirty wool to keep the rodents away (it’s working). Rosemary, 3 types of basil, chives, dill, oregano, cilantro, and parsley. 💚
June 12, 2026 at 2:10 AM
Poop I don’t think I can 😖
June 12, 2026 at 2:03 AM
Finished my sweet stocking cap except I can’t get up to sew on the fuzzy ball (it’s in my office) because my cat has trapped me.

#FuckIce #PlsCanIGetUpAndPeeNowCat
February 9, 2026 at 3:35 AM
While I do not partake in the superbowl, I do enjoy snacks.
February 8, 2026 at 11:12 PM
I had the privilege to visit Schindler’s Enamel Factory (turned museum) when I was in Poland a few years ago. It was horrifying. I’ll have the opp to visit Anne Frank’s house this year and even though it’ll be a downer, I’m grabbing it with both hands and will be telling everyone I can about it.
January 28, 2026 at 3:53 PM
Finished up “Colorshift” by Melanie Berg, and finally got around to washing and blocking it. Been leaning into wearing more wraps and shawls this winter- they’re nice for keeping a chill off my neck and shoulders while working on more bog witch stuff.

#knitting

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December 26, 2025 at 5:57 PM
Christmas Quiche success! Used some leftover ham from yesterday’s feast and plan on making split pea soup with more of that ham tomorrow.

While I *AM* atheist, I love an extra day off here and there to lean into slow living and cooking.
December 25, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Took a little break between book 7 and 8 of The Sandman Slim series for one of my great loves: Autobiographies read by the author. This was a GREAT, but difficult and triggering read. It felt like my emotions and memories were articulated perfectly in this book. 10/10 @kathleenhanna.bsky.social
December 11, 2025 at 4:51 PM
Ted has me trained. He will stare under furniture/appliances until I get onto the floor and fish out a toy, whether there’s a toy actually under there or not. He also likes to get between me and the void, very helpful.
#TedTheCat
December 3, 2025 at 7:35 PM
Bill and Ted keeping me company at the end of the workday. Despite my brain absolutely resenting being forced to operate, I got a lot of hard data logic hammered out. The short winter day is mocking all of us with a 4:30 sundown. #BillAndTedTheCats
November 20, 2025 at 10:37 PM
I’ve had this Nothing Bundt Cakes bag for over two weeks and I dare not dispose of it.
#TedTheCat
November 15, 2025 at 6:00 PM
I opened this tub of greenies today. Bill decided the two I gave him two minutes ago wasn’t enough. 🤬 obviously all the rest of the cats capitalized on this industriousness.
#BillTheCat #OrangeBoi
November 11, 2025 at 10:15 PM
In this book, some main characters are Jewish, but it’s a high fantasy book with elves. There’s a lot of unwritten historical context in it with antisemitism themes and it’s a good read.

However, being atheist, the real theistic struggles have less hold on me than the fake elves.
October 4, 2025 at 2:16 PM
Good morning from vacationtimes! Still dreaming about work, but relaxing as hard as I can.
September 22, 2025 at 2:45 PM
A GIGANTIC horsefly, a ripening squash, and a cool split colored daisy. Wisconsin nature is poppin’ this time of year.
August 13, 2025 at 12:35 AM
The garden is picking up steam! I thought some of the tomato plants were green zebras, but they’re turning yellow and orange, so who knows!

At this rate, I’ll be bringing overflow to the bar on Sundays for Brunch/“Church”.

I have also let several dog walkers know that they should pick freely.
August 6, 2025 at 5:38 PM
Finished a nice wrap today and am starting another shawl. This one I did purely for the joy of knitting and learning and have no idea what I’ll do with the results.
#Knitting #LaceWeightYarn #CableKnit
August 3, 2025 at 8:26 PM
My team won Cryptid trivia this past week! All hail the Moth Man!
July 6, 2025 at 4:17 PM
This is what’s been keeping me sane lately. This and Stardew Valley. And the NYC Mayoral results.
#Knitting #ShowMeYourKnits #OrangeCat
June 30, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Tom eats Churu cat treats and I eat Otter pops when it’s hot out. Tom thinks I also eat Churus and wants me to share 😂
#OtterPop #Churu #TomTheCat
June 23, 2025 at 6:38 PM
I lament this thin sauce, I forgot we had run out of corn starch, but the flavor and crisp farmers market vegetables were perfect. We are spoiled here in Madison 💙💙

Also: it’s been great to see all the #NoKings posts, it’s really been feeding my hope 💙
June 16, 2025 at 12:00 AM
#TheAICon is super relevant to my world, and there’s even a section in here about the taxi industry! As a former driver, I felt the tech boom push me out of a living wage and now I see AI starting to invade my data integration work. This will make my job shittier while techbros keep hyping it.
June 8, 2025 at 8:40 PM