Since my #AutisticSWers tag hasn't been used other than in my little thread, I'd like to invite fellow #autistic #sexWorkers to chat about life having #autism in the field of #sexWork!
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
November 27, 2024 at 7:37 AM
Since my #AutisticSWers tag hasn't been used other than in my little thread, I'd like to invite fellow #autistic #sexWorkers to chat about life having #autism in the field of #sexWork!
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
🧵: predatory middlemen inserting themselves into digital sex work as "studios" or "agencies" to exploit sex workers
and why this concerns me.
are digital pimps the new 'job interview that turns out to be for cutco knives' for online #SexWork?
#AutisticSWers #SWerAdvice
bsky.app/profile/suga...
and why this concerns me.
are digital pimps the new 'job interview that turns out to be for cutco knives' for online #SexWork?
#AutisticSWers #SWerAdvice
bsky.app/profile/suga...
There's a practice I wish more of the sex work community discussed
wherein other people, who sometimes haven't even done SW themselves
position themselves as "studios" or "agencies" for independent performers on websites where there is 0 reason for that to be necessary... such as #NiteFlirt.
wherein other people, who sometimes haven't even done SW themselves
position themselves as "studios" or "agencies" for independent performers on websites where there is 0 reason for that to be necessary... such as #NiteFlirt.
December 8, 2024 at 9:16 AM
🧵: predatory middlemen inserting themselves into digital sex work as "studios" or "agencies" to exploit sex workers
and why this concerns me.
are digital pimps the new 'job interview that turns out to be for cutco knives' for online #SexWork?
#AutisticSWers #SWerAdvice
bsky.app/profile/suga...
and why this concerns me.
are digital pimps the new 'job interview that turns out to be for cutco knives' for online #SexWork?
#AutisticSWers #SWerAdvice
bsky.app/profile/suga...
Check out or use the #AutisticSWers tag I started for community + education/advice for my fellow Autistic sex workers to share.
This is not a space for promo for our work. You deserve promo! But this isn't for that.
I even made a feed for it if you check my feeds.
bsky.app/profile/suga...
This is not a space for promo for our work. You deserve promo! But this isn't for that.
I even made a feed for it if you check my feeds.
bsky.app/profile/suga...
Since my #AutisticSWers tag hasn't been used other than in my little thread, I'd like to invite fellow #autistic #sexWorkers to chat about life having #autism in the field of #sexWork!
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
Use the #AutisticSWers tag to contribute. This is a space for discussion/advice rather than promo. 💖
November 27, 2024 at 9:56 AM
Check out or use the #AutisticSWers tag I started for community + education/advice for my fellow Autistic sex workers to share.
This is not a space for promo for our work. You deserve promo! But this isn't for that.
I even made a feed for it if you check my feeds.
bsky.app/profile/suga...
This is not a space for promo for our work. You deserve promo! But this isn't for that.
I even made a feed for it if you check my feeds.
bsky.app/profile/suga...
So yet again, more #SWerAdvice #SexWorkerAdvice for all, esp #AutisticSWers :
Please trust your gut. Please please please trust your gut more than the need for money.
This guy is apparently whale money to other operators. But most didn't like his kinks. IDC about the kinks, his vibe was off.
Please trust your gut. Please please please trust your gut more than the need for money.
This guy is apparently whale money to other operators. But most didn't like his kinks. IDC about the kinks, his vibe was off.
November 25, 2024 at 11:46 PM
So yet again, more #SWerAdvice #SexWorkerAdvice for all, esp #AutisticSWers :
Please trust your gut. Please please please trust your gut more than the need for money.
This guy is apparently whale money to other operators. But most didn't like his kinks. IDC about the kinks, his vibe was off.
Please trust your gut. Please please please trust your gut more than the need for money.
This guy is apparently whale money to other operators. But most didn't like his kinks. IDC about the kinks, his vibe was off.
If part of your new sex work platform or business seems daunting or like more trouble than it's worth:
There are resources, communities, coaches who can help you learn how things work. NF ad bids aren't that hard
You can pay someone to make you good graphics once you start working.
#AutisticSWers
There are resources, communities, coaches who can help you learn how things work. NF ad bids aren't that hard
You can pay someone to make you good graphics once you start working.
#AutisticSWers
December 8, 2024 at 8:45 AM
If part of your new sex work platform or business seems daunting or like more trouble than it's worth:
There are resources, communities, coaches who can help you learn how things work. NF ad bids aren't that hard
You can pay someone to make you good graphics once you start working.
#AutisticSWers
There are resources, communities, coaches who can help you learn how things work. NF ad bids aren't that hard
You can pay someone to make you good graphics once you start working.
#AutisticSWers
My first time having an "addiction kink" client, he didn't say it was his kink. What he said was that he had a terrible addiction ruining his life and he wanted me to help him.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
November 24, 2024 at 12:36 PM
My first time having an "addiction kink" client, he didn't say it was his kink. What he said was that he had a terrible addiction ruining his life and he wanted me to help him.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
Sex work can be a minefield as an autistic person if you don't know and enforce your own boundaries and force them to communicate directly.
But you can actually make them communicate directly. Don't be afraid to ask clarifying questions or for repeats of what they said.
#SexWorld #AutisticSWers
But you can actually make them communicate directly. Don't be afraid to ask clarifying questions or for repeats of what they said.
#SexWorld #AutisticSWers
November 24, 2024 at 12:36 PM
Sex work can be a minefield as an autistic person if you don't know and enforce your own boundaries and force them to communicate directly.
But you can actually make them communicate directly. Don't be afraid to ask clarifying questions or for repeats of what they said.
#SexWorld #AutisticSWers
But you can actually make them communicate directly. Don't be afraid to ask clarifying questions or for repeats of what they said.
#SexWorld #AutisticSWers
#AutisticSWers
don't get too caught up in "service topping" and feel like you have to do it to the letter, just based on what they say.
you're the one in charge. make it fun for yourself.
#SWerAdvice
don't get too caught up in "service topping" and feel like you have to do it to the letter, just based on what they say.
you're the one in charge. make it fun for yourself.
#SWerAdvice
Side note for my fellow dominants and aspiring doms, especailly the professional sort:
That's a part of being the dominant one you can just DO to make a situation more appealing to you. Just take the essence of their kink and combine it with what entertains or arouses you.
#Domination #Dominatrix
That's a part of being the dominant one you can just DO to make a situation more appealing to you. Just take the essence of their kink and combine it with what entertains or arouses you.
#Domination #Dominatrix
December 7, 2024 at 6:54 AM
#AutisticSWers
don't get too caught up in "service topping" and feel like you have to do it to the letter, just based on what they say.
you're the one in charge. make it fun for yourself.
#SWerAdvice
don't get too caught up in "service topping" and feel like you have to do it to the letter, just based on what they say.
you're the one in charge. make it fun for yourself.
#SWerAdvice
P.S.
another fun part of not being constantly available creating a sense of exclusivity that increases demand
is that you can use it to force clients to pay to book appointments with you if they REALLY don't want to gamble on your schedule or wait.
#SWerAdvice #AutisticSWers
another fun part of not being constantly available creating a sense of exclusivity that increases demand
is that you can use it to force clients to pay to book appointments with you if they REALLY don't want to gamble on your schedule or wait.
#SWerAdvice #AutisticSWers
December 7, 2024 at 6:39 AM
P.S.
another fun part of not being constantly available creating a sense of exclusivity that increases demand
is that you can use it to force clients to pay to book appointments with you if they REALLY don't want to gamble on your schedule or wait.
#SWerAdvice #AutisticSWers
another fun part of not being constantly available creating a sense of exclusivity that increases demand
is that you can use it to force clients to pay to book appointments with you if they REALLY don't want to gamble on your schedule or wait.
#SWerAdvice #AutisticSWers
#AutisticSWers
if you're the sex worker being solicited, you have every right to ask the questions you need to know if you want to or can provide they experience they seek.
just ask them. they're the ones hoping to nut. they'll tell you.
if you're the sex worker being solicited, you have every right to ask the questions you need to know if you want to or can provide they experience they seek.
just ask them. they're the ones hoping to nut. they'll tell you.
Some clients mention they're cheating on their partner.
Fellow autists: that may mean the idea they could be discovered turns them on.
You can directly ask if they want you to mention it: "How do you feel about the idea of being discovered?"
If no, ask if it's a play, soft, or hard limit.
Fellow autists: that may mean the idea they could be discovered turns them on.
You can directly ask if they want you to mention it: "How do you feel about the idea of being discovered?"
If no, ask if it's a play, soft, or hard limit.
December 7, 2024 at 6:16 AM
#AutisticSWers
if you're the sex worker being solicited, you have every right to ask the questions you need to know if you want to or can provide they experience they seek.
just ask them. they're the ones hoping to nut. they'll tell you.
if you're the sex worker being solicited, you have every right to ask the questions you need to know if you want to or can provide they experience they seek.
just ask them. they're the ones hoping to nut. they'll tell you.
I don't think it shows in the feed BC I posted it before I made it, but #AutisticSWers I wanna hear your Autism Moment stories as sex workers.
Here's one of my most amusing and notable, IMO.
Here's one of my most amusing and notable, IMO.
My first time having an "addiction kink" client, he didn't say it was his kink. What he said was that he had a terrible addiction ruining his life and he wanted me to help him.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
My autistic ass literally told him to go to SAA. 😂
Fellow #AutisticSWers if you have stories like this, please share.
December 6, 2024 at 12:31 AM
I don't think it shows in the feed BC I posted it before I made it, but #AutisticSWers I wanna hear your Autism Moment stories as sex workers.
Here's one of my most amusing and notable, IMO.
Here's one of my most amusing and notable, IMO.
Betty Butch's tips definitely are worth reviewing for #AutisticSWers as well 🫶🏻
Strong recommendation for the work of Betty Butch, who has written quite a bit about autism x sex/kink... Enough to have a category devoted to it on the site.
bettybutch.com/index.php/ca...
bettybutch.com/index.php/ca...
Autistic Sex Hacks for Communication, Sensory Discomfort, and Low Spoons Screwin’ - Betty Butch
I’m autistic, and I fuck.
Some people think these facets of my life are inherently incompatible. They’re wrong. But sometimes my autism and my sex life are at odds, and over the years I’ve had to fig...
bettybutch.com
November 27, 2024 at 8:14 PM
Betty Butch's tips definitely are worth reviewing for #AutisticSWers as well 🫶🏻