The Decision You Keep Making Choosing someone doesn't happen once. You don't make that call at the beginning of a relationship and then coast on it for the next decade. Every morning you wake up next to that person, every time something goes sideways, every moment you could check out but you don't, you're making the choice again. Most people understand this in theory.

Need is not a foundation for a relationship. The only reason to be with someone is because you genuinely choose to be. Here's why want beats need every time.