🤯 Narcissists dodge accountability by blaming, gaslighting, or playing the victim. They use denial, projection, and deflection to keep their self-image intact and twist the narrative, making you question your own reality and memory. They never admit fault.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
October 31, 2025 at 11:08 AM
🤯 Narcissists dodge accountability by blaming, gaslighting, or playing the victim. They use denial, projection, and deflection to keep their self-image intact and twist the narrative, making you question your own reality and memory. They never admit fault.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
Sounds innocent - right? 😇
This is a common and insidious tactic used by a narcissist. They position themselves as the only person who truly gets you, suggesting others are shallow, untrustworthy, or even trying to sabotage your happiness.
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #DVAM
This is a common and insidious tactic used by a narcissist. They position themselves as the only person who truly gets you, suggesting others are shallow, untrustworthy, or even trying to sabotage your happiness.
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #DVAM
October 26, 2025 at 12:39 PM
Sounds innocent - right? 😇
This is a common and insidious tactic used by a narcissist. They position themselves as the only person who truly gets you, suggesting others are shallow, untrustworthy, or even trying to sabotage your happiness.
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #DVAM
This is a common and insidious tactic used by a narcissist. They position themselves as the only person who truly gets you, suggesting others are shallow, untrustworthy, or even trying to sabotage your happiness.
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #DVAM
💔 Emotional blackmail isn't love. Saying "if you really love me, you will do this for me" is a manipulative tactic, not a sign of affection. True love respects boundaries and doesn't demand compliance. Choose respect over demands.
#LoveIsRespect #NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#LoveIsRespect #NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
October 25, 2025 at 11:25 AM
💔 Emotional blackmail isn't love. Saying "if you really love me, you will do this for me" is a manipulative tactic, not a sign of affection. True love respects boundaries and doesn't demand compliance. Choose respect over demands.
#LoveIsRespect #NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#LoveIsRespect #NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
✅ Instead of owning their actions, they demand gratitude for their mere presence in your life. They minimize your feelings, frame their abuse as a favor, and make you feel indebted for the "privilege" of their time. They use obligation to silence your complaints.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
October 27, 2025 at 11:13 AM
✅ Instead of owning their actions, they demand gratitude for their mere presence in your life. They minimize your feelings, frame their abuse as a favor, and make you feel indebted for the "privilege" of their time. They use obligation to silence your complaints.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
The cycle of narcissistic abuse follows a pattern: idealization, devaluation, and discard. 💔 Recognize the pattern of constant highs and crushing lows. Be aware of the signs and protect your peace. You deserve stability and respect.
#NarcissisticAbuse #RedFlags #Healing #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #RedFlags #Healing #CoersiveControl
October 28, 2025 at 12:29 PM
The cycle of narcissistic abuse follows a pattern: idealization, devaluation, and discard. 💔 Recognize the pattern of constant highs and crushing lows. Be aware of the signs and protect your peace. You deserve stability and respect.
#NarcissisticAbuse #RedFlags #Healing #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #RedFlags #Healing #CoersiveControl
Is this a leader setting a boundary or a red flag for authoritarian control? When "challenge" is treated like a crime, growth and safety usually disappear. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
September 25, 2026 at 11:40 AM
Is this a leader setting a boundary or a red flag for authoritarian control? When "challenge" is treated like a crime, growth and safety usually disappear. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
🚨 Once a narcissist can't control you, they pivot. Their next move is to control the narrative about you to everyone else.
Watch out for the false stories they spread to influence the people around you and turn them against you.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #Narcissism #Manipulation
Watch out for the false stories they spread to influence the people around you and turn them against you.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #Narcissism #Manipulation
November 8, 2025 at 2:42 PM
🚨 Once a narcissist can't control you, they pivot. Their next move is to control the narrative about you to everyone else.
Watch out for the false stories they spread to influence the people around you and turn them against you.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #Narcissism #Manipulation
Watch out for the false stories they spread to influence the people around you and turn them against you.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #Narcissism #Manipulation
Narcissists are allergic to accountability. 🛡️ They never take the blame, because it's always someone else's fault. Expect gaslighting, deflection, and a total refusal to admit error. Their world is perfect; you are the problem.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #NoAccountability #TrumpNarcissist
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #NoAccountability #TrumpNarcissist
November 7, 2025 at 1:34 PM
Narcissists are allergic to accountability. 🛡️ They never take the blame, because it's always someone else's fault. Expect gaslighting, deflection, and a total refusal to admit error. Their world is perfect; you are the problem.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #NoAccountability #TrumpNarcissist
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #NoAccountability #TrumpNarcissist
🚩 Narcissist's best move after abuse? The pity play. 😭 They need your sympathy to regain control. Stop rescuing your abuser. Focus on your healing. 🛑
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #HealingJourney #NarcAwareness #EmotionalAbuse #StopTheCycle
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #HealingJourney #NarcAwareness #EmotionalAbuse #StopTheCycle
November 17, 2025 at 1:02 PM
🚩 Narcissist's best move after abuse? The pity play. 😭 They need your sympathy to regain control. Stop rescuing your abuser. Focus on your healing. 🛑
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #HealingJourney #NarcAwareness #EmotionalAbuse #StopTheCycle
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #HealingJourney #NarcAwareness #EmotionalAbuse #StopTheCycle
#CoersiveControl
#PakottavaVäkivalta
#HenkinenVäkivalta
#JADEing
Tietäkää paremmin, pysykää turvassa
Itsehän joudun tuon takia vieläkin ”pulaan” mutta siinähän joudun. Väitän, että vaatii tietynlaisen ennakkoluulon valmiiksi, jos kokee lisäselityksen riidanhaluisuutena..
#PakottavaVäkivalta
#HenkinenVäkivalta
#JADEing
Tietäkää paremmin, pysykää turvassa
Itsehän joudun tuon takia vieläkin ”pulaan” mutta siinähän joudun. Väitän, että vaatii tietynlaisen ennakkoluulon valmiiksi, jos kokee lisäselityksen riidanhaluisuutena..
September 28, 2026 at 8:45 AM
#CoersiveControl
#PakottavaVäkivalta
#HenkinenVäkivalta
#JADEing
Tietäkää paremmin, pysykää turvassa
Itsehän joudun tuon takia vieläkin ”pulaan” mutta siinähän joudun. Väitän, että vaatii tietynlaisen ennakkoluulon valmiiksi, jos kokee lisäselityksen riidanhaluisuutena..
#PakottavaVäkivalta
#HenkinenVäkivalta
#JADEing
Tietäkää paremmin, pysykää turvassa
Itsehän joudun tuon takia vieläkin ”pulaan” mutta siinähän joudun. Väitän, että vaatii tietynlaisen ennakkoluulon valmiiksi, jos kokee lisäselityksen riidanhaluisuutena..
🎭 Unpack the different types of narcissism and understand the different faces you might encounter. 🎭
📚 Read or listen to the full article to learn more!
#narcissism #psychology #mentalhealth #relationships #coersivecontrol #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #domesticviolence #dvam
📚 Read or listen to the full article to learn more!
#narcissism #psychology #mentalhealth #relationships #coersivecontrol #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #domesticviolence #dvam
The Many Faces of Narcissism: Which One Are You Dealing With?
Narcissism isn’t one-size-fits-all—learning to recognize the different masks is the first step toward reclaiming your clarity and power
open.substack.com
October 22, 2025 at 11:22 AM
🎭 Unpack the different types of narcissism and understand the different faces you might encounter. 🎭
📚 Read or listen to the full article to learn more!
#narcissism #psychology #mentalhealth #relationships #coersivecontrol #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #domesticviolence #dvam
📚 Read or listen to the full article to learn more!
#narcissism #psychology #mentalhealth #relationships #coersivecontrol #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #domesticviolence #dvam
If they’re accusing you of it, they’re probably doing it. Projection isn’t just an insult; it’s a confession. A narcissist will paint their own traits onto your character to avoid their own reflection. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
May 28, 2026 at 11:45 AM
If they’re accusing you of it, they’re probably doing it. Projection isn’t just an insult; it’s a confession. A narcissist will paint their own traits onto your character to avoid their own reflection. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
💜 Gaslighting isn’t just a "disagreement"; it’s a systematic attempt to make you doubt your own sanity and lived experience. Real clarity starts when you stop letting someone else narrate your life.
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
April 2, 2026 at 11:44 AM
💜 Gaslighting isn’t just a "disagreement"; it’s a systematic attempt to make you doubt your own sanity and lived experience. Real clarity starts when you stop letting someone else narrate your life.
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
The "why" isn't nearly as important as the how you feel right now. True closure is choosing your tranquility over their excuses. You don't need a final word to have a final peace. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
September 17, 2026 at 11:41 AM
The "why" isn't nearly as important as the how you feel right now. True closure is choosing your tranquility over their excuses. You don't need a final word to have a final peace. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Is it a temporary bridge or a permanent shift in power? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
June 5, 2026 at 11:41 AM
Is it a temporary bridge or a permanent shift in power? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Narcissistic abuse erodes your trust in your own mind until you’re a stranger to yourself. Reclaiming your sanity starts with trusting your gut again. Your truth is real.#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
June 11, 2026 at 11:48 AM
Narcissistic abuse erodes your trust in your own mind until you’re a stranger to yourself. Reclaiming your sanity starts with trusting your gut again. Your truth is real.#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
You aren't fragile for breaking under a weight no one was meant to carry. Reclaim your peace.#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
July 23, 2026 at 11:46 AM
You aren't fragile for breaking under a weight no one was meant to carry. Reclaim your peace.#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
🚩 Is your partner a narcissist? 🚩 This article helps you spot the red flags & recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior in your relationship. A vital read for self-protection.
Read or listen here ⬇️
#NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #EmotionalAbuse #CPTSD #HealingJourney #DomesticViolence #DVAM
Read or listen here ⬇️
#NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #EmotionalAbuse #CPTSD #HealingJourney #DomesticViolence #DVAM
Am I In a Relationship with a Narcissist?
From confusion to clarity: seeing the truth in your relationship
open.substack.com
October 29, 2025 at 11:48 AM
🚩 Is your partner a narcissist? 🚩 This article helps you spot the red flags & recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior in your relationship. A vital read for self-protection.
Read or listen here ⬇️
#NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #EmotionalAbuse #CPTSD #HealingJourney #DomesticViolence #DVAM
Read or listen here ⬇️
#NarccisticAbuse #CoersiveControl #EmotionalAbuse #CPTSD #HealingJourney #DomesticViolence #DVAM
The ultimate move to shut down a conversation: Invalidation. When someone decides what "should" hurt you, they aren't just dismissing your tears—they’re dismissing your reality. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
September 18, 2026 at 11:40 AM
The ultimate move to shut down a conversation: Invalidation. When someone decides what "should" hurt you, they aren't just dismissing your tears—they’re dismissing your reality. #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Invisible wounds are still wounds. Narcissistic abuse leaves a blueprint of silence, but your recovery deserves to be loud. Validation is the first step toward reclaiming your narrative.#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
July 16, 2026 at 11:45 AM
Invisible wounds are still wounds. Narcissistic abuse leaves a blueprint of silence, but your recovery deserves to be loud. Validation is the first step toward reclaiming your narrative.#NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
🎬 THE TRAILER IS HERE! 🎬
I am so excited to finally share the official book trailer for "Unbroken." This journey has been incredible, and seeing the story come to life in this way is powerful.
#NarcissticAbuse #healingjourney #coersivecontrol #DV #BookTrailer #WritingCommunity #BookSky #RedFlags
I am so excited to finally share the official book trailer for "Unbroken." This journey has been incredible, and seeing the story come to life in this way is powerful.
#NarcissticAbuse #healingjourney #coersivecontrol #DV #BookTrailer #WritingCommunity #BookSky #RedFlags
March 4, 2026 at 12:07 PM
🎬 THE TRAILER IS HERE! 🎬
I am so excited to finally share the official book trailer for "Unbroken." This journey has been incredible, and seeing the story come to life in this way is powerful.
#NarcissticAbuse #healingjourney #coersivecontrol #DV #BookTrailer #WritingCommunity #BookSky #RedFlags
I am so excited to finally share the official book trailer for "Unbroken." This journey has been incredible, and seeing the story come to life in this way is powerful.
#NarcissticAbuse #healingjourney #coersivecontrol #DV #BookTrailer #WritingCommunity #BookSky #RedFlags
Divorcing a narcissist isn't a legal process; it’s a strategic battle for reality. Your peace is worth more than their "victory." #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
June 6, 2026 at 11:45 AM
Divorcing a narcissist isn't a legal process; it’s a strategic battle for reality. Your peace is worth more than their "victory." #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Is it a genuine brain fog moment or a masterclass in weaponized incompetence?
Strategic ""cluelessness"" or a real need for retraining? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Strategic ""cluelessness"" or a real need for retraining? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
July 3, 2026 at 11:41 AM
Is it a genuine brain fog moment or a masterclass in weaponized incompetence?
Strategic ""cluelessness"" or a real need for retraining? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Strategic ""cluelessness"" or a real need for retraining? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
Don’t mistake a "cold winter" for a "changed heart." If they’re reaching out now, it’s likely about their need for a warm ego—not their growth. Protect your peace. #Hoovering #NarcissisticAbuse #HealingJourney #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
February 10, 2026 at 12:45 PM
Don’t mistake a "cold winter" for a "changed heart." If they’re reaching out now, it’s likely about their need for a warm ego—not their growth. Protect your peace. #Hoovering #NarcissisticAbuse #HealingJourney #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
The line between "thoughtful surprise" and "disrespecting my time" is paper-thin. Does showing up unannounced melt your heart or stress you out? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse
April 10, 2026 at 11:05 AM
The line between "thoughtful surprise" and "disrespecting my time" is paper-thin. Does showing up unannounced melt your heart or stress you out? #NarcissticAbuse #CoersiveControl #RedFlags #EmotionalAbuse