For a man with Post Orgasmic Illness Syndrome, sex comes with a cruel twist. The very thing that is supposed to bring release and connection instead opens a door into days of feeling sick, foggy, exhausted, anxious, or emotionally flat. You can almost feel the clock start ticking the moment you climax, knowing that the symptoms are coming. It is hard to explain this to anyone who has not lived it. Over time, the pattern wears on you. You may start to see your own desire as a threat.At some point