Red Shoes Gala: Lived Experience with Barb Clark
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October 10, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Red Shoes Gala: Lived Experience with Barb Clark
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ik_Yua_hZNs
#FASD #FASDAwareness #FASDAdvocacy #FASDSupport #FASDCommunity #FASDLife #FASDFamilies #FASDCaregivers #FASDStrong #FASDMatters #FASDEducation #FASDPrevention #FASDHope #FASDJourney #SeatAtTheTable
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#FASD #FASDAwareness #FASDAdvocacy #FASDSupport #FASDCommunity #FASDLife #FASDFamilies #FASDCaregivers #FASDStrong #FASDMatters #FASDEducation #FASDPrevention #FASDHope #FASDJourney #SeatAtTheTable
If you have a child with #FASD get any & all supports you can find
You can’t do this by yourself
You need social workers, OTs, SERTS, pediatricians, respite workers, therapists & support groups to give your child (& yourself) the support needed to be a success
It is OK to ask for help #FASDStrong
You can’t do this by yourself
You need social workers, OTs, SERTS, pediatricians, respite workers, therapists & support groups to give your child (& yourself) the support needed to be a success
It is OK to ask for help #FASDStrong
September 29, 2025 at 1:10 PM
If you have a child with #FASD get any & all supports you can find
You can’t do this by yourself
You need social workers, OTs, SERTS, pediatricians, respite workers, therapists & support groups to give your child (& yourself) the support needed to be a success
It is OK to ask for help #FASDStrong
You can’t do this by yourself
You need social workers, OTs, SERTS, pediatricians, respite workers, therapists & support groups to give your child (& yourself) the support needed to be a success
It is OK to ask for help #FASDStrong
Changing the behaviours in #FASDstrong people can certainly be done. However, it’s like turning around an aircraft carrier.
It takes a lot of time
It takes a lot of space
It takes a lot of patience
You won’t immediately see progress. Stick with it. It is happening #FASD
It takes a lot of time
It takes a lot of space
It takes a lot of patience
You won’t immediately see progress. Stick with it. It is happening #FASD
September 28, 2025 at 2:47 PM
Changing the behaviours in #FASDstrong people can certainly be done. However, it’s like turning around an aircraft carrier.
It takes a lot of time
It takes a lot of space
It takes a lot of patience
You won’t immediately see progress. Stick with it. It is happening #FASD
It takes a lot of time
It takes a lot of space
It takes a lot of patience
You won’t immediately see progress. Stick with it. It is happening #FASD
If they're not disregulated, people who are #FASDstrong can show a great deal of compassion & TLC.
This can especially be true when they're working with animals or the elderly #FASD
This can especially be true when they're working with animals or the elderly #FASD
September 27, 2025 at 5:22 PM
If they're not disregulated, people who are #FASDstrong can show a great deal of compassion & TLC.
This can especially be true when they're working with animals or the elderly #FASD
This can especially be true when they're working with animals or the elderly #FASD
People who are #FASDstrong are hard working by nature. To make up for their difficiencies, the #FASD brain works twice as hard as a neurotypical brain
If you take this into account with smooth transitions & "brain breaks" when they seem mentally tired, FASD can be quite productive
If you take this into account with smooth transitions & "brain breaks" when they seem mentally tired, FASD can be quite productive
September 26, 2025 at 1:57 PM
People who are #FASDstrong are hard working by nature. To make up for their difficiencies, the #FASD brain works twice as hard as a neurotypical brain
If you take this into account with smooth transitions & "brain breaks" when they seem mentally tired, FASD can be quite productive
If you take this into account with smooth transitions & "brain breaks" when they seem mentally tired, FASD can be quite productive
Because #FASDstrong people are visual thinkers & communicators by nature, they show a great deal of creativity. Many find success in the media or arts
This creativity can also a great outlet to help clear their head & reset their brain #FASD
This creativity can also a great outlet to help clear their head & reset their brain #FASD
September 25, 2025 at 3:42 PM
Because #FASDstrong people are visual thinkers & communicators by nature, they show a great deal of creativity. Many find success in the media or arts
This creativity can also a great outlet to help clear their head & reset their brain #FASD
This creativity can also a great outlet to help clear their head & reset their brain #FASD
It’s and natural to focus on the symptoms of #FASD but those that are #FASDStrong have all kinds of strength
When you learn the strengths of your FASD brain you can use those to help with learning & boost self esteem
When you learn the strengths of your FASD brain you can use those to help with learning & boost self esteem
September 24, 2025 at 10:13 PM
It’s and natural to focus on the symptoms of #FASD but those that are #FASDStrong have all kinds of strength
When you learn the strengths of your FASD brain you can use those to help with learning & boost self esteem
When you learn the strengths of your FASD brain you can use those to help with learning & boost self esteem
Framing is everything
When you know how a #FASD brain functions & how it affects symptoms, you can frame behaviour with respect & understanding.
When a #FASDstrong person receives understanding instead of shame, it’s better for their self esteem (and gets you better behaviour).
When you know how a #FASD brain functions & how it affects symptoms, you can frame behaviour with respect & understanding.
When a #FASDstrong person receives understanding instead of shame, it’s better for their self esteem (and gets you better behaviour).
September 23, 2025 at 3:07 PM
Framing is everything
When you know how a #FASD brain functions & how it affects symptoms, you can frame behaviour with respect & understanding.
When a #FASDstrong person receives understanding instead of shame, it’s better for their self esteem (and gets you better behaviour).
When you know how a #FASD brain functions & how it affects symptoms, you can frame behaviour with respect & understanding.
When a #FASDstrong person receives understanding instead of shame, it’s better for their self esteem (and gets you better behaviour).
Because #FASD is lifelong, #FASDStrong people may never be truly independent.
They can function well by being interdependent (depending on the help of others). Examples:
"I need you to grocery shop with me so I stay on budget"
"Please remind me to pay my bills"
"I can drive if someone navigates"
They can function well by being interdependent (depending on the help of others). Examples:
"I need you to grocery shop with me so I stay on budget"
"Please remind me to pay my bills"
"I can drive if someone navigates"
September 22, 2025 at 4:16 PM
Because #FASD is lifelong, #FASDStrong people may never be truly independent.
They can function well by being interdependent (depending on the help of others). Examples:
"I need you to grocery shop with me so I stay on budget"
"Please remind me to pay my bills"
"I can drive if someone navigates"
They can function well by being interdependent (depending on the help of others). Examples:
"I need you to grocery shop with me so I stay on budget"
"Please remind me to pay my bills"
"I can drive if someone navigates"
#FASD MYTH: You outgrow FASD as you get older
FACT: FASD is a lifelong disability. #FASDStrong people may learn to live with it but it never goes away.
FACT: FASD is a lifelong disability. #FASDStrong people may learn to live with it but it never goes away.
September 22, 2025 at 4:14 PM
#FASD MYTH: You outgrow FASD as you get older
FACT: FASD is a lifelong disability. #FASDStrong people may learn to live with it but it never goes away.
FACT: FASD is a lifelong disability. #FASDStrong people may learn to live with it but it never goes away.
Symptoms for #FASD vary daily. #FASDstrong people wake up not knowing how well or poorly their brain will function that day.
When you get those bad days (they do happen), & you're frustrated, just remember how they're feeling inside & how frustrated must battling this disability
When you get those bad days (they do happen), & you're frustrated, just remember how they're feeling inside & how frustrated must battling this disability
September 22, 2025 at 3:56 PM
Symptoms for #FASD vary daily. #FASDstrong people wake up not knowing how well or poorly their brain will function that day.
When you get those bad days (they do happen), & you're frustrated, just remember how they're feeling inside & how frustrated must battling this disability
When you get those bad days (they do happen), & you're frustrated, just remember how they're feeling inside & how frustrated must battling this disability
When someone with #FASD gets deregulated, it will be intense & may have physical/verbal abuse. Do everything you can to remain calm & deescalate. Don't take things personally. Remember they truly don't know what their doing or saying
Always accept their love & apology afterwards #FASDStrong
Always accept their love & apology afterwards #FASDStrong
September 19, 2025 at 4:52 PM
When someone with #FASD gets deregulated, it will be intense & may have physical/verbal abuse. Do everything you can to remain calm & deescalate. Don't take things personally. Remember they truly don't know what their doing or saying
Always accept their love & apology afterwards #FASDStrong
Always accept their love & apology afterwards #FASDStrong
The #FASD brain has trouble estimating time. If you ask a #FASDstrong person to "be back in 10 minutes", they may be back in 45 (or vice versa). Watches & timers are keys to helping this
They also struggle planning time (to be at work by 9, they need to leave at 8 to be on the bus at 8:15)
They also struggle planning time (to be at work by 9, they need to leave at 8 to be on the bus at 8:15)
September 18, 2025 at 2:00 PM
The #FASD brain has trouble estimating time. If you ask a #FASDstrong person to "be back in 10 minutes", they may be back in 45 (or vice versa). Watches & timers are keys to helping this
They also struggle planning time (to be at work by 9, they need to leave at 8 to be on the bus at 8:15)
They also struggle planning time (to be at work by 9, they need to leave at 8 to be on the bus at 8:15)
People with #FASD need to keep things concrete, physical & tangible
-use timers & stopwatches to keep track of time
-Use cash money. #FASDstrong people often carry their budgeted amount of money until next payday in cash so they can tangibly see how much money they have left
-use timers & stopwatches to keep track of time
-Use cash money. #FASDstrong people often carry their budgeted amount of money until next payday in cash so they can tangibly see how much money they have left
September 17, 2025 at 3:54 PM
People with #FASD need to keep things concrete, physical & tangible
-use timers & stopwatches to keep track of time
-Use cash money. #FASDstrong people often carry their budgeted amount of money until next payday in cash so they can tangibly see how much money they have left
-use timers & stopwatches to keep track of time
-Use cash money. #FASDstrong people often carry their budgeted amount of money until next payday in cash so they can tangibly see how much money they have left
Another brain function that people with #FASD struggle with is understanding abstract ideas or concepts. These include things like time (more on that soon), money & language (slang,sayings & sarcasm) #FASDstrong
September 17, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Another brain function that people with #FASD struggle with is understanding abstract ideas or concepts. These include things like time (more on that soon), money & language (slang,sayings & sarcasm) #FASDstrong
A 16 yr old with #FASD is in a tense situation:
-their brain delays telling the best way to handle things
-They can't remember consequences
-dysmaturity has them feeling like a 8 yr old
-they can't control their emotions or resist impulses
And now they are in trouble with the law #FASDstrong
-their brain delays telling the best way to handle things
-They can't remember consequences
-dysmaturity has them feeling like a 8 yr old
-they can't control their emotions or resist impulses
And now they are in trouble with the law #FASDstrong
September 16, 2025 at 12:26 PM
A 16 yr old with #FASD is in a tense situation:
-their brain delays telling the best way to handle things
-They can't remember consequences
-dysmaturity has them feeling like a 8 yr old
-they can't control their emotions or resist impulses
And now they are in trouble with the law #FASDstrong
-their brain delays telling the best way to handle things
-They can't remember consequences
-dysmaturity has them feeling like a 8 yr old
-they can't control their emotions or resist impulses
And now they are in trouble with the law #FASDstrong
One #FASD behaviour that appears to be impulse control is under/over eating
This however, is again caused by delays in the brain's executive functioning.
Simply put, it is taking longer for the FASD brain to realize that person is full or hungry. #FASDStrong
This however, is again caused by delays in the brain's executive functioning.
Simply put, it is taking longer for the FASD brain to realize that person is full or hungry. #FASDStrong
September 15, 2025 at 1:54 PM
One #FASD behaviour that appears to be impulse control is under/over eating
This however, is again caused by delays in the brain's executive functioning.
Simply put, it is taking longer for the FASD brain to realize that person is full or hungry. #FASDStrong
This however, is again caused by delays in the brain's executive functioning.
Simply put, it is taking longer for the FASD brain to realize that person is full or hungry. #FASDStrong
People with #FASD can also be impulsive. Delays in executive function can lead to the appearance that an #FASDstrong person has no filter or willpower.
Impulse control can manifest itself in the form of addiction, physical or verbal abuse (especially if the impulse is denied)
Impulse control can manifest itself in the form of addiction, physical or verbal abuse (especially if the impulse is denied)
September 15, 2025 at 1:54 PM
People with #FASD can also be impulsive. Delays in executive function can lead to the appearance that an #FASDstrong person has no filter or willpower.
Impulse control can manifest itself in the form of addiction, physical or verbal abuse (especially if the impulse is denied)
Impulse control can manifest itself in the form of addiction, physical or verbal abuse (especially if the impulse is denied)
#FASD MYTH: people with FASD do not know right from wrong
Fact: #FASDstrong people have a strong conscience & moral compass. Delays in executive function (getting info to the brain's front), dysmaturity, & emotional regulation issues contribute to momentary misbehaviour however
Fact: #FASDstrong people have a strong conscience & moral compass. Delays in executive function (getting info to the brain's front), dysmaturity, & emotional regulation issues contribute to momentary misbehaviour however
September 14, 2025 at 10:45 PM
#FASD MYTH: people with FASD do not know right from wrong
Fact: #FASDstrong people have a strong conscience & moral compass. Delays in executive function (getting info to the brain's front), dysmaturity, & emotional regulation issues contribute to momentary misbehaviour however
Fact: #FASDstrong people have a strong conscience & moral compass. Delays in executive function (getting info to the brain's front), dysmaturity, & emotional regulation issues contribute to momentary misbehaviour however
Because of delays in executive function as well as dysmaturity, people who are #FASDstrong have trouble controlling their emotions.
September 14, 2025 at 10:44 PM
Because of delays in executive function as well as dysmaturity, people who are #FASDstrong have trouble controlling their emotions.
So how do I keep my #FASDstrong kid out of trouble?
Use the "snowplough" method of parenting
The same way a snowplough clears your path, you clear you child's mental path so they have a great day
Remove any known emotional triggers & have things ready so their brain works less
Use the "snowplough" method of parenting
The same way a snowplough clears your path, you clear you child's mental path so they have a great day
Remove any known emotional triggers & have things ready so their brain works less
September 13, 2025 at 6:13 PM
So how do I keep my #FASDstrong kid out of trouble?
Use the "snowplough" method of parenting
The same way a snowplough clears your path, you clear you child's mental path so they have a great day
Remove any known emotional triggers & have things ready so their brain works less
Use the "snowplough" method of parenting
The same way a snowplough clears your path, you clear you child's mental path so they have a great day
Remove any known emotional triggers & have things ready so their brain works less
Another brain domain affected by #FASD is difficulty with consequences/cause & effect
Remember the FASD brain has difficulty getting information to the front of the brain fast
Therefore, it's difficult for #FASDstrong people to recall negative or positive reinforcement quickly
Remember the FASD brain has difficulty getting information to the front of the brain fast
Therefore, it's difficult for #FASDstrong people to recall negative or positive reinforcement quickly
September 13, 2025 at 6:11 PM
Another brain domain affected by #FASD is difficulty with consequences/cause & effect
Remember the FASD brain has difficulty getting information to the front of the brain fast
Therefore, it's difficult for #FASDstrong people to recall negative or positive reinforcement quickly
Remember the FASD brain has difficulty getting information to the front of the brain fast
Therefore, it's difficult for #FASDstrong people to recall negative or positive reinforcement quickly
The #FASD brain actually works harder than a neurotypical brain. It takes longer to rev down, transition & then rev up again. This is called tendril theory as explained in the photo
More time needs to given to #FASDstrong people to transition. Wherever possible avoid surprises
More time needs to given to #FASDstrong people to transition. Wherever possible avoid surprises
September 12, 2025 at 3:57 PM
The #FASD brain actually works harder than a neurotypical brain. It takes longer to rev down, transition & then rev up again. This is called tendril theory as explained in the photo
More time needs to given to #FASDstrong people to transition. Wherever possible avoid surprises
More time needs to given to #FASDstrong people to transition. Wherever possible avoid surprises
The next brain function affected by #FASD is transitioning
Because it takes longer for information to reach the front of their brain, people who are #FASDstrong have difficulty transitioning from task to task, environment to environment and/or person to person
Because it takes longer for information to reach the front of their brain, people who are #FASDstrong have difficulty transitioning from task to task, environment to environment and/or person to person
September 12, 2025 at 3:55 PM
The next brain function affected by #FASD is transitioning
Because it takes longer for information to reach the front of their brain, people who are #FASDstrong have difficulty transitioning from task to task, environment to environment and/or person to person
Because it takes longer for information to reach the front of their brain, people who are #FASDstrong have difficulty transitioning from task to task, environment to environment and/or person to person
MYTH: people with #FASD are lazy
FACT: When #FASDstrong people fail to do tasks, it's because their brain forgets they need to be done or how to do them
Like CEOs needs an EA (executive assistant) to organize their day. An FASD kid needs an EA (educational asst) to help organize their school day
FACT: When #FASDstrong people fail to do tasks, it's because their brain forgets they need to be done or how to do them
Like CEOs needs an EA (executive assistant) to organize their day. An FASD kid needs an EA (educational asst) to help organize their school day
September 11, 2025 at 2:51 PM
MYTH: people with #FASD are lazy
FACT: When #FASDstrong people fail to do tasks, it's because their brain forgets they need to be done or how to do them
Like CEOs needs an EA (executive assistant) to organize their day. An FASD kid needs an EA (educational asst) to help organize their school day
FACT: When #FASDstrong people fail to do tasks, it's because their brain forgets they need to be done or how to do them
Like CEOs needs an EA (executive assistant) to organize their day. An FASD kid needs an EA (educational asst) to help organize their school day