Chapter Three Chapter 3 — When the Ancestors Crowd the Doorway There was a moment, right after the breath settled, when the room felt too full. Not emotionally — literally. As if something unseen had stepped closer. As if the air had thickened with presence. The ancestors had arrived, but without structure. Not in a ceremonial way, not in a guided way, not in the way I’ve learned to invite them. They came like a crowd pressing against a doorway, eager, unsequenced, uncontained. And my body felt it before my mind did.

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