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National Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day. Nearly 33 years living with HIV. I remember those we’ve lost, honor those still here, and embrace who we are becoming. The crossing continues.
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National Gay Men’s HIV/AIDS Awareness Day | September 27, 2026
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September 27, 2026 at 12:10 PM
Self-care isn’t a reward for getting through life’s crossings. It begins with recognizing what we need—rest, support, connection, or permission to slow down.

Sometimes the next honest step is caring for ourselves.

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Self-Care Is Where the Crossing Begins
Self-Care Is Where the Crossing Begins
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September 23, 2026 at 4:35 AM
Monday morning is a reminder that we do not have to cross the entire week at once.

One day. One honest step at a time.

The crossing continues.

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“Always moving forward and never looking back, except to see how far I have come—sometimes struggling, sometimes succeeding.” - R4 Style

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One year ago today, On the Other Side of the Street stepped into the world. I thought I was telling my story. Then others began finding parts of their own.

Still here. Still grateful. Still becoming.

The crossing continues.
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One Year On the Other Side of the Street
August 26, 2026 marks one year since the release of On the Other Side of the Street.
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I did not choose every disruption that changed my life. But I could choose what I carried forward and what I built from it.

The disruption was not the purpose. What I built from it became part of the purpose.

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When the Disruption Became the Purpose
I Did Not Choose What Changed My Life, but I Could Choose What I Built From It
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August 18, 2026 at 4:06 AM