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Artist Transforms Her Hair Into Incredible Sculptures Inspired by African Culture   View this post on Instagram   A post shared by KY (@laetitiaky) While most of us can just about manage a basic braid or messy bun, New York-based actress and artist Laetitia KY can style her hair into all kinds of designs and shapes. Originally from the Ivory Coast in West Africa, she uses […] READ: Artist Transforms Her Hair Into Incredible Sculptures Inspired by African Culture

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The Tunisian-French director follows her Oscar-longlisted ‘Under the Fig Trees’ with a quietly furious drama about three Ivorian women, a rescued child, and a country that keeps its newcomers in perma

Many of us are becoming more aware of the type of red flags we should look for and try to avoid when dating. But there is one I wish we talked about a lot more.“Dating a man who consumes porn”Porn addiction can be just as harmful as any other addiction, and I wish people were warned about it with the same intensity. Instead, whenever someone raises the alarm, they’re called too prudish, not sex positive enough, or accused of shaming people for their sexual habits.But this is an addiction that destroys relationships, self esteem, trust, intimacy, and especially the mental health of the partner who isn’t addicted.Mainstream porn makes money from disturbing content. Violence. Degradation. Humiliation. Extreme taboo. Fetishization. Everything except a healthy approach to sexuality.The scary thing about addiction is that today’s excitement becomes tomorrow’s boredom. That’s why people keep looking for something more extreme. The brain gets used to yesterday’s novelty and crave something that pushes the limit further.And the consequences go way beyond individual relationships.We’re slowly confusing sexual exploration with kink culture. We’re romanticizing violence and degradation in bed. We call anyone “vanilla” simply because they just want sex to be… normal.People get defensive whenever these conversations happen because they feel judged for their “preferences.” But aren’t some conversations worth having? Shouldn’t we ask ourselves why suffering has become part of our preferences? What shaped them? What influenced them?Why can’t sexual exploration be gentle? Kind? Connected? Loving? Respectful? Consensual? Mutually fulfilling? Why does creativity always seem to end up in dangerous territory to feel exciting?We can’t pretend porn hasn’t shaped that.Dating a porn addict will slowly destroy every bit of self esteem you have.constantly compare yourself to countless women online. never feeling enough. feeling like you need to perform things that disgust you just to satisfy someone whose brain has developed a warped sense of intimacy.Your pain will become his pleasure.Your suffering will become his excitement.Your boundaries will become an inconvenience.

PROMIS LE CIEL Un film de Erige Sehiri Avec Aïssa Maïga, Debora Lobe Naney, Laetitia Ky, Estelle Kenza Dogbo, Foued Zaazaa, Mohamed Grayaa, Touré Blamassi Marie, pasteure ivoirienne et ancienne journaliste, vit à Tunis. Elle héberge Naney, une jeune mère...