the sluttiest thing a man can do is have maldaptive coping mechanisms
March 4, 2025 at 1:24 AM
the sluttiest thing a man can do is have maldaptive coping mechanisms
i am back on my maldaptive daydreaming shit because ive spent half the day watching a drama in my head and i am so high on it
January 6, 2025 at 4:59 PM
i am back on my maldaptive daydreaming shit because ive spent half the day watching a drama in my head and i am so high on it
You've gotta have the right mindset.
September 4, 2025 at 1:26 PM
You've gotta have the right mindset.
whatever he would do would be significantly more maldaptive than cultivating in seclusion for a couple of years.
December 31, 2024 at 3:30 PM
whatever he would do would be significantly more maldaptive than cultivating in seclusion for a couple of years.
I was kind of a maldaptive daydreamer for my entire childhood.
I would mainly daydream about imaginary creatures, and I think as a small kid I was just trying to convey what I was constantly thinking about. I became really attached to them & drew them on everything from napkins to printer paper
I would mainly daydream about imaginary creatures, and I think as a small kid I was just trying to convey what I was constantly thinking about. I became really attached to them & drew them on everything from napkins to printer paper
With all this awful news going on i wanna ask this question once again to fellow artists and general creatives. What got YOU into art? what sparked that motivation to start writing? what made you wanna pick up a camera and start taking pics? Like share with us your reasons.
December 17, 2025 at 3:40 AM
I was kind of a maldaptive daydreamer for my entire childhood.
I would mainly daydream about imaginary creatures, and I think as a small kid I was just trying to convey what I was constantly thinking about. I became really attached to them & drew them on everything from napkins to printer paper
I would mainly daydream about imaginary creatures, and I think as a small kid I was just trying to convey what I was constantly thinking about. I became really attached to them & drew them on everything from napkins to printer paper
Type wet dream I be having while maldaptive daydreaming because the dissociation is hitting really hard at 11:34am at my old grade school’s teacher’s class
Where the room smelled funky cause a lot of kids parents didn’t teach them to clean up after themselves and theirs no air conditioning
Where the room smelled funky cause a lot of kids parents didn’t teach them to clean up after themselves and theirs no air conditioning
September 3, 2026 at 4:00 AM
Type wet dream I be having while maldaptive daydreaming because the dissociation is hitting really hard at 11:34am at my old grade school’s teacher’s class
Where the room smelled funky cause a lot of kids parents didn’t teach them to clean up after themselves and theirs no air conditioning
Where the room smelled funky cause a lot of kids parents didn’t teach them to clean up after themselves and theirs no air conditioning
the fact that "maldaptive daydreaming" is a so-called real condition that you can find on WebMD and all kinds of theoretically legit sources tells you everything you need to know about how trivially worthless neurotypical understanding of neurodivergence is.
July 29, 2023 at 6:11 PM
the fact that "maldaptive daydreaming" is a so-called real condition that you can find on WebMD and all kinds of theoretically legit sources tells you everything you need to know about how trivially worthless neurotypical understanding of neurodivergence is.
I think my new year's resolution is to continue to reclaim my own life. Giving a name to my negativity and naming it dysfunction in my head has really helped identify the maldaptive aspects of my life and how to address it. I need to remind myself that steady progress is huge even if I feel behind
December 31, 2025 at 10:50 PM
I think my new year's resolution is to continue to reclaim my own life. Giving a name to my negativity and naming it dysfunction in my head has really helped identify the maldaptive aspects of my life and how to address it. I need to remind myself that steady progress is huge even if I feel behind
I think the best thing you could do here is to ask yourself the question: "what makes it painful for you?".
For a long time I was a maldaptive daydreamer. This allowed me to avoid the possibility of rejection and more, but in the end, with fiction, you're always in control.
For a long time I was a maldaptive daydreamer. This allowed me to avoid the possibility of rejection and more, but in the end, with fiction, you're always in control.
January 20, 2026 at 8:13 AM
I think the best thing you could do here is to ask yourself the question: "what makes it painful for you?".
For a long time I was a maldaptive daydreamer. This allowed me to avoid the possibility of rejection and more, but in the end, with fiction, you're always in control.
For a long time I was a maldaptive daydreamer. This allowed me to avoid the possibility of rejection and more, but in the end, with fiction, you're always in control.
Hi so ive been coping with an extreme life event and its been weird trying to calm down so ive been imagining myself fursuiting at kpop concerts and its working. Maldaptive daydream win 😏
February 16, 2025 at 8:41 PM
Hi so ive been coping with an extreme life event and its been weird trying to calm down so ive been imagining myself fursuiting at kpop concerts and its working. Maldaptive daydream win 😏
Oh that was the right move for sure. I'm ✨️maldaptive daydreaming✨️ at work 😂✌️
February 6, 2025 at 6:06 PM
Oh that was the right move for sure. I'm ✨️maldaptive daydreaming✨️ at work 😂✌️
Every autistic person is different and has different accessibility needs and different ways their disability expresses itself
And autistic people that "can do it" often have to rely on maldaptive and self destructive coping strategies and standards in order to keep "doing it"
And autistic people that "can do it" often have to rely on maldaptive and self destructive coping strategies and standards in order to keep "doing it"
October 27, 2023 at 4:36 PM
Every autistic person is different and has different accessibility needs and different ways their disability expresses itself
And autistic people that "can do it" often have to rely on maldaptive and self destructive coping strategies and standards in order to keep "doing it"
And autistic people that "can do it" often have to rely on maldaptive and self destructive coping strategies and standards in order to keep "doing it"
just found out what maldaptive daydreaming is and can it please not
October 7, 2024 at 2:31 PM
just found out what maldaptive daydreaming is and can it please not
I just need to like maldaptive daydream an entire day scenario and vibe to cure my boredom idfk what to do im dying
April 23, 2025 at 7:05 PM
I just need to like maldaptive daydream an entire day scenario and vibe to cure my boredom idfk what to do im dying
Maldaptive day dreaming so bad I actually talked like I was in a real conversation. Help the person at the bus stop with me gave me weird look😭😭
November 3, 2024 at 9:04 PM
Maldaptive day dreaming so bad I actually talked like I was in a real conversation. Help the person at the bus stop with me gave me weird look😭😭
Crushing sense of self doubt, deep seated shame that your occupation is somehow lacking in masculinity, maldaptive fantasies about what you CAN do while you actually go to the Piggly Wiggly.
Develop those and you’ll be ready to spend $100K on a security blankey.
Develop those and you’ll be ready to spend $100K on a security blankey.
August 24, 2026 at 12:33 PM
Crushing sense of self doubt, deep seated shame that your occupation is somehow lacking in masculinity, maldaptive fantasies about what you CAN do while you actually go to the Piggly Wiggly.
Develop those and you’ll be ready to spend $100K on a security blankey.
Develop those and you’ll be ready to spend $100K on a security blankey.
I wish i had good advice on that specific anxiety. My existential dread panic ceased when I died for real. But sometimes my maldaptive daydreams get stuck on the room is saw while i was technically dead so its more of a lateral move i guess
April 24, 2025 at 9:03 AM
I wish i had good advice on that specific anxiety. My existential dread panic ceased when I died for real. But sometimes my maldaptive daydreams get stuck on the room is saw while i was technically dead so its more of a lateral move i guess
Though of course there is quite a lot of useful analysis of the difference between traumatic memories and other types and how it can create tendency towards maldaptive behaviors. But I think we all know that well enough and it's part of why we're noting the mistake of overextending it LOL
May 9, 2025 at 3:08 PM
Though of course there is quite a lot of useful analysis of the difference between traumatic memories and other types and how it can create tendency towards maldaptive behaviors. But I think we all know that well enough and it's part of why we're noting the mistake of overextending it LOL
Clark, while being stabbed a kryptonite batarang: I know this is a maldaptive coping mechanism for you but I'm still going to tell you off because you know this is wrong and you need to stop relying on hurting me as a way to avoid your actual fears.
December 24, 2025 at 8:47 AM
Clark, while being stabbed a kryptonite batarang: I know this is a maldaptive coping mechanism for you but I'm still going to tell you off because you know this is wrong and you need to stop relying on hurting me as a way to avoid your actual fears.
I know Ul'tahn isnt real. Its my internal safe space. A world created by my mind as a coping mechanism for the trauma and bullshit ive been subjected to. But it was always there, even before the bad. I have incredibly vivid maldaptive daydreams, got worse after the head injury
November 10, 2025 at 8:02 PM
I know Ul'tahn isnt real. Its my internal safe space. A world created by my mind as a coping mechanism for the trauma and bullshit ive been subjected to. But it was always there, even before the bad. I have incredibly vivid maldaptive daydreams, got worse after the head injury
Fav character syndrome of getting put into a cycle of utterly hopeless futility bit SJ already has that in canon so I gotta make it worse. Yes girl be affirmed of all yr most maldaptive perceptions & use ur new godlike power in trying to escape it to further damn yourself <3 yay yippee
May 27, 2025 at 7:51 PM
Fav character syndrome of getting put into a cycle of utterly hopeless futility bit SJ already has that in canon so I gotta make it worse. Yes girl be affirmed of all yr most maldaptive perceptions & use ur new godlike power in trying to escape it to further damn yourself <3 yay yippee
27. "How the fuck do you come up with so many scenarios?" or better yet "What do you see in your maldaptive daydreaming when you think of your fics?" because a lot of the time I have very vivid images of particular scenes in my head and I wish I could yap about the process to someone.
November 2, 2025 at 5:17 PM
27. "How the fuck do you come up with so many scenarios?" or better yet "What do you see in your maldaptive daydreaming when you think of your fics?" because a lot of the time I have very vivid images of particular scenes in my head and I wish I could yap about the process to someone.
lady gaga singing "that's life" has the perfect amount of pride, bravado, and a touch of spite that I desperately needed for my maldaptive daydream and to fight the intrusive thoughts open.spotify.com/track/7jTLS3...
That's Life
Song · Lady Gaga · 2024
open.spotify.com
September 27, 2024 at 6:17 AM
lady gaga singing "that's life" has the perfect amount of pride, bravado, and a touch of spite that I desperately needed for my maldaptive daydream and to fight the intrusive thoughts open.spotify.com/track/7jTLS3...
eu queria MUITO saber a experiência de outras pessoas autistas e tdah com maldaptive daydreaming
precisava conversar sobre isso com alguém que me entenda, só que to tendo muita dificuldade de interação presencial ent não to conseguindo falar com minha única amg que também passa por isso
precisava conversar sobre isso com alguém que me entenda, só que to tendo muita dificuldade de interação presencial ent não to conseguindo falar com minha única amg que também passa por isso
September 25, 2024 at 2:37 AM
eu queria MUITO saber a experiência de outras pessoas autistas e tdah com maldaptive daydreaming
precisava conversar sobre isso com alguém que me entenda, só que to tendo muita dificuldade de interação presencial ent não to conseguindo falar com minha única amg que também passa por isso
precisava conversar sobre isso com alguém que me entenda, só que to tendo muita dificuldade de interação presencial ent não to conseguindo falar com minha única amg que também passa por isso
a linha tênue entre lei da atração e maldaptive daydreaming
September 3, 2024 at 3:07 AM
a linha tênue entre lei da atração e maldaptive daydreaming