#MidlifeReflections
Secular 40: career panic, fertility grief, ironic detachment, facelift jokes. What's absent is a story. Organized secularism hasn't built one. by @bledewitz.bsky.social

https://onlys.ky/this-is-secular-40/

#Secularism #Humanism #Philosophy #MidlifeReflections #Meaning
This is secular 40
Religion, for all its faults, gives life a sense of narrative.
onlys.ky
August 22, 2026 at 2:01 AM
"​I realized I’m approaching my 20th anniversary in this field, which sounds a bit strange to say."
UX Collective

uxdesign.cc/what-its-lik...

#DesignCareer #MidlifeReflections #UXDesign #CareerGrowth #DesignJourney
What it’s like to be a designer at 40
Notes of a (maybe dirty, yet not so old) designer
uxdesign.cc
April 10, 2025 at 6:00 PM
“Allowing yourself to feel sadness is an act of rebellion in a world that rewards fake happiness.”

Blue Monday 2026 is a good day to revisit this post:
carasutra.com/2025/01/allo...

#BlueMonday #MentalHealth #AllowSadness #ToxicPositivity #FeelingYourFeelings #Authenticity #MidlifeReflections
Allowing Sadness Without Guilt: Why I Let Myself Feel Sad
Exploring sadness: Why I let myself feel sad, and the mental & physical benefits of allowing sadness in your life without any guilt.
carasutra.com
January 19, 2026 at 12:59 PM
This week’s Is This It? is about how quickly the days blur into years—and what that means for the way we measure our lives.

👉 Read here: isthisitnewsletter.beehiiv.com/p/notes-from...

#IsThisIt #WritingLife #MidlifeReflections #ModernParenting #CareerPivots
Notes From the Obituary Draft Folder
Spooky season brings a question: am I living a life that writes its own obituary? From Warren Buffett to Armani, I explore the drafts we leave behind.
isthisitnewsletter.beehiiv.com
October 3, 2025 at 6:38 PM
Yhea Foo Nah Foo Ep.136 🎧 redcircle.com/shows/yhea_f... A birthday weekend at State Cup becomes a deeper talk about coaching, fathers & sons, grief, legacy, and the moments that make life slow down. ⚽ #YheaFooNahFoo, #PodcastLife, #FathersAndSons, #Legacy, #MidlifeReflections,
August 10, 2026 at 4:58 PM
New on Substack:
Not One of Them Had Kids
We said we wanted children. We lived like we didn’t. Now we’re in our 50s—and it’s clear.

A reflection on the life I built without children, and the men who did the same.

🔗 amydesouza.substack.com/p/not-one-of...

#ChildfreeNotLess #MidlifeReflections
Not One of Them Had Kids
We said we wanted children. We lived like we didn’t. Now we’re in our 50s — and it’s clear.
amydesouza.substack.com
July 30, 2025 at 7:34 PM
"TV host Gabby Logan, 51, shares insights on embracing midlife challenges and aging gracefully. " #MidlifeReflections https://fefd.link/i3z7G
April 17, 2025 at 2:44 AM