on the idea that dissociation/spectatoring during sex isn’t always a bad thing
@autoanon.bsky.social has my favorite review of Camp Miasma thus far and it’s free to read until Monday.
“being outside oneself, and viewing yourself as another might, can give you the sexual knowledge and gratification that you have been longing for.”
autoanon.substack.com/p/spectatori...
“being outside oneself, and viewing yourself as another might, can give you the sexual knowledge and gratification that you have been longing for.”
autoanon.substack.com/p/spectatori...
“Spectatoring”, Dissociation and Camp Miasma
This is an article about Teenage Sex and Death at Camp Miasma (2026) dir.
autoanon.substack.com
August 20, 2026 at 1:35 PM
on the idea that dissociation/spectatoring during sex isn’t always a bad thing
I see the spectator is spectatoring again
July 20, 2025 at 10:57 AM
I see the spectator is spectatoring again
the rush of spectatoring up to someone carefully lining up sniper shots and slappin em off the roof
September 14, 2026 at 3:35 PM
the rush of spectatoring up to someone carefully lining up sniper shots and slappin em off the roof
"après c'est pas nécessairement un mauvais coup. Le genre de mec qui est dans l'action, pas en représentation. Très peu de spectatoring
-mickey par contre il se regarde dans le miroir et se pointe du doigt. "oh-Oh!"
-Et donald...
-(ensemble) angry sex
-obligé"
#brèvedebureau
-mickey par contre il se regarde dans le miroir et se pointe du doigt. "oh-Oh!"
-Et donald...
-(ensemble) angry sex
-obligé"
#brèvedebureau
August 22, 2026 at 10:56 AM
"après c'est pas nécessairement un mauvais coup. Le genre de mec qui est dans l'action, pas en représentation. Très peu de spectatoring
-mickey par contre il se regarde dans le miroir et se pointe du doigt. "oh-Oh!"
-Et donald...
-(ensemble) angry sex
-obligé"
#brèvedebureau
-mickey par contre il se regarde dans le miroir et se pointe du doigt. "oh-Oh!"
-Et donald...
-(ensemble) angry sex
-obligé"
#brèvedebureau
It's FCF and I'm feeling like a cow so I'll be spectatoring today
And enjoying all the peen
And enjoying all the peen
August 4, 2023 at 1:45 PM
It's FCF and I'm feeling like a cow so I'll be spectatoring today
And enjoying all the peen
And enjoying all the peen
@autoanon.bsky.social has my favorite review of Camp Miasma thus far and it’s free to read until Monday.
“being outside oneself, and viewing yourself as another might, can give you the sexual knowledge and gratification that you have been longing for.”
autoanon.substack.com/p/spectatori...
“being outside oneself, and viewing yourself as another might, can give you the sexual knowledge and gratification that you have been longing for.”
autoanon.substack.com/p/spectatori...
“Spectatoring”, Dissociation and Camp Miasma
This is an article about Teenage Sex and Death at Camp Miasma (2026) dir.
autoanon.substack.com
August 20, 2026 at 12:25 PM
@autoanon.bsky.social has my favorite review of Camp Miasma thus far and it’s free to read until Monday.
“being outside oneself, and viewing yourself as another might, can give you the sexual knowledge and gratification that you have been longing for.”
autoanon.substack.com/p/spectatori...
“being outside oneself, and viewing yourself as another might, can give you the sexual knowledge and gratification that you have been longing for.”
autoanon.substack.com/p/spectatori...
Holy shit. Little fucker evaded them. Terrible zoom. But he’s still there. He hasn’t moved. He’s trying to outlast the two crows.
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
July 2, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Holy shit. Little fucker evaded them. Terrible zoom. But he’s still there. He hasn’t moved. He’s trying to outlast the two crows.
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
One stood sentry and has now left, but I can’t tell if they’re both gone. But that’s it for my spectatoring. My sorbet is melting! #yyj
Yes, spectatoring! Definitely very common among individuals with body image self-consciousness. I’ll be sure to include that… HYPOTHETICALLY OF COURSE.
October 14, 2024 at 12:18 AM
Yes, spectatoring! Definitely very common among individuals with body image self-consciousness. I’ll be sure to include that… HYPOTHETICALLY OF COURSE.
Of course. If women engage in anything more vigorous than lace-making or perhaps badminton spectatoring, and the slow sipping of lukewarm mint tea, our wombs fall out and our tits run away and nearby watercourses turn sour.
February 20, 2025 at 6:17 PM
Of course. If women engage in anything more vigorous than lace-making or perhaps badminton spectatoring, and the slow sipping of lukewarm mint tea, our wombs fall out and our tits run away and nearby watercourses turn sour.
We've talked a whole lot about orgasms and pleasure over the years. A good word to describe the experience of focusing on orgasm to the point where it takes us away from the present is ‘spectatoring’ and it's discussed in this advice column by Heather Corinna: www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...
I can't get her to reach orgasm, and I really want her to.
(Anonymous’ question continued) I will try my hardest (as in I will work as long as I can) to help her reach orgasm, but she just can’t seem to. Not once have I managed to make her climax during vaginal or oral sex. The most recent time She came very close, but just as she was about to peak she went back to just a “heightened” level of arousal. I’ve tried everything I could think of to help her. I’ve preformed oral sex on her as well as even used a vibrating device on her clitoris. Nothing seems to work. Could this be because she’s not completely comfortable with me? She thinks because she was
www.scarleteen.com
July 31, 2025 at 5:02 PM
We've talked a whole lot about orgasms and pleasure over the years. A good word to describe the experience of focusing on orgasm to the point where it takes us away from the present is ‘spectatoring’ and it's discussed in this advice column by Heather Corinna: www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-s...
This week’s Q&A is up – I Can’t Get An Erection When I’m With A Woman
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
I Cant Get An Erection When Im With A Woman
YouTube video by Hey Dr Sue
youtu.be
September 23, 2024 at 12:57 AM
This week’s Q&A is up – I Can’t Get An Erection When I’m With A Woman
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
Watch the video here youtu.be/JjDi6GcUJWQ
or check out the post on Medium drsuemilstein.medium.com/36f34358c660...
#menshealth #spectatoring #erections #sex #sexed #HeyDrSue
Pressió estètica i sexualitat: com ens afecta al llit?
Pressió estètica i sexualitat: com ens afecta al llit?
Sovint a consulta em trobo amb una idea que es repeteix molt més del que ens agradaria: persones, sobretot noies, que expliquen que durant el sexe “es veuen des de fora”. Com si, en lloc de viure l’experiència, estiguessin observant-se en tercera persona, pendents de com es mouen, de si ho estan fent bé, de com es veu el seu cos, de la llum, de la postura. Això té un nom: spectatoring, o efecte espectador.
www.ara.cat
August 14, 2026 at 11:02 AM
Pressió estètica i sexualitat: com ens afecta al llit?
What is 'spectatoring' and how does it ruin intimacy? It is the habit of mentally monitoring your performance instead of feeling the moment. Reclaim your presence by surrendering to the senses rather than judging your reflection. #MindfulIntimacy #Wellness #SelfLove
July 25, 2026 at 4:01 AM
What is 'spectatoring' and how does it ruin intimacy? It is the habit of mentally monitoring your performance instead of feeling the moment. Reclaim your presence by surrendering to the senses rather than judging your reflection. #MindfulIntimacy #Wellness #SelfLove
What "spectatoring" is all about. #PerformanceAnxiety #MensMentalHealth #SexualConfidence #Mindfulness #SensateFocus #IntimacyIssues #MensHealthTips #BodyImage #MentalHealthAwareness #RelationshipAnxiety #ConfidenceBuilding
July 19, 2026 at 2:34 PM
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Published on Monday, July 6, 2026
Published on Monday, July 6, 2026
Why Survivors Dissociate During Sex and How Somatic Therapy Helps
Why trauma survivors mentally check out during sex, what spectatoring means, and how somatic therapy helps rebuild a felt sense of safety in the body.
www.lifesexplicit.com
July 7, 2026 at 9:34 PM
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Published on Monday, July 6, 2026
Published on Monday, July 6, 2026
Anxiété de performance sexuelle : briser le cercle vicieux du stress
❓ Qu'est-ce que l'anxiété de performance sexuelle ?
❓ Comment le stress bloque-t-il physiquement le plaisir ?
❓ Qu'est-ce que le syndrome du spectateur ?
#intimacy #sexualhealth #spectatoring
❓ Qu'est-ce que l'anxiété de performance sexuelle ?
❓ Comment le stress bloque-t-il physiquement le plaisir ?
❓ Qu'est-ce que le syndrome du spectateur ?
#intimacy #sexualhealth #spectatoring
Anxiété de performance sexuelle : briser le cercle vicieux du stress
L'anxiété de performance sexuelle bloque le plaisir. Comprenez les mécanismes du stress, l'impact du cortisol et les solutions pour retrouver une vie sereine.
france-jeunes.net
April 20, 2026 at 10:46 PM
Anxiété de performance sexuelle : briser le cercle vicieux du stress
❓ Qu'est-ce que l'anxiété de performance sexuelle ?
❓ Comment le stress bloque-t-il physiquement le plaisir ?
❓ Qu'est-ce que le syndrome du spectateur ?
#intimacy #sexualhealth #spectatoring
❓ Qu'est-ce que l'anxiété de performance sexuelle ?
❓ Comment le stress bloque-t-il physiquement le plaisir ?
❓ Qu'est-ce que le syndrome du spectateur ?
#intimacy #sexualhealth #spectatoring
Virgin Island star Alex, 28, suffered from 'spectatoring' and erectile dysfunction for his entire adult life before appearing on Virgin Island
Virgin Island star reveals first signs of ‘spectatoring’ sexual issue after show 'undid 10 years of issues'
www.ladbible.com
May 11, 2026 at 9:39 PM
Virgin Island star Alex, 28, suffered from 'spectatoring' and erectile dysfunction for his entire adult life before appearing on Virgin Island
Virgin Island star Alex, 28, suffered from 'spectatoring' and erectile dysfunction for his entire adult life before appearing on Virgin Island
Virgin Island star reveals first signs of ‘spectatoring’ sexual issue after show 'undid 10 years of issues'
www.ladbible.com
May 11, 2026 at 7:31 PM
Virgin Island star Alex, 28, suffered from 'spectatoring' and erectile dysfunction for his entire adult life before appearing on Virgin Island
Virgin Island star Alex, 28, suffered from 'spectatoring' and erectile dysfunction for his entire adult life before appearing on Virgin Island
Virgin Island star reveals first signs of ‘spectatoring’ sexual issue after show 'undid 10 years of issues'
www.ladbible.com
May 11, 2026 at 9:07 PM
Virgin Island star Alex, 28, suffered from 'spectatoring' and erectile dysfunction for his entire adult life before appearing on Virgin Island
Deze (onbewuste) gewoonte saboteert je orgasme zonder dat je het doorhebt
Deze (onbewuste) gewoonte saboteert je orgasme zonder dat je het doorhebt
Gewoon 'in het moment' zijn is lastiger gedaan dan gezegd - en dat heeft veel gevolgen voor het seksleven. De nieuwe term spectatoring brengt dat aan het licht.
www.nsmbl.nl
April 25, 2025 at 10:19 AM
Deze (onbewuste) gewoonte saboteert je orgasme zonder dat je het doorhebt
Ummm - be part of the experience rather than spectatoring on someone else's for crumbs of satisfaction or affirmation preview.mailerlite.io/preview/1359...
Take
preview.mailerlite.io
November 1, 2025 at 1:22 PM
Ummm - be part of the experience rather than spectatoring on someone else's for crumbs of satisfaction or affirmation preview.mailerlite.io/preview/1359...
Le spectatoring, ce réflexe insidieux, éloigne du plaisir. Être spectateur de soi-même nuit à l'intimité. Quelles en sont les conséquences ?
➡️ https://l.lasanteauquotidien.com/Q9V
➡️ https://l.lasanteauquotidien.com/Q9V
February 27, 2026 at 6:32 PM
Le spectatoring, ce réflexe insidieux, éloigne du plaisir. Être spectateur de soi-même nuit à l'intimité. Quelles en sont les conséquences ?
➡️ https://l.lasanteauquotidien.com/Q9V
➡️ https://l.lasanteauquotidien.com/Q9V