#TraumaInformed23
Worked with this amazing human for two years, and today we finally meet, for the @BILD_tweets and @RESPOND_UK #TraumaInformed23 conference. 💜
November 21, 2024 at 11:02 PM
The phenomenal @BaronessHollins opens as the first keynote. Reminding us to #bekind to one another. You can have differing views, but be kind. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 11:02 PM
Children and adults being detained in hospital breaks @BaronessHollins heart. Speaking about the need for relationships and the relatonal safety that creates trust and enables #TraumaInformed approaches to heal. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:59 PM
. @BaronessHollins talking about what makes us feel 'safe' and how this can shrink, when you don't have control over your own life. Safeguarding, and feeling safe are different. Psychological safety is key to reducing trauma. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:59 PM
'Fight and flight are normal responses to feeling unsafe - hospital admission makes everything worse' @BaronessHollins #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:59 PM
How do you manage feeling unsafe? Do you let loose on Twitter? Do you have a duvet day? How do you respond? @BaronessHollins #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:59 PM
'Respect people's own stories and recognise everyone's need to feel safe and belong' 💜 @BaronessHollins #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:59 PM
. @BaronessHollins sharing the @uk_beyondwords work and how this can support people to develop clinical skills and empathy, and help people share their stories differently. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:51 PM
Next up is the amazing @BeverleySamways of Unique Connections. Beverley has an interest in CYP with learning disabilities who self-injure. Her work looks at how we support and understand this. 'It is usually responded to with medication or behaviour plans' #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:51 PM
'Why do people hurt themselves?..It can be a relief from overwhelming emotions that arise from difficult experiences and are hard to talk about.' Often not discussed enough re CYP with learning disabilities, so Beverley decided to do more research. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:51 PM
.@BeverleySamways talking about Owen's story now, how he expressed his distress and how he connected to share what really mattered to him. Can't do the power of this story justice in a tweet. But wow. Human connection. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:51 PM
. @BeverleySamways reminding us there is 'no easy fix, but there is connection.. There's always meaning in any human's behaviour, and everyone is built to connect.' #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:51 PM
'Non-spoken communication is a shared experience' @BeverleySamways reminding us, we all started in the world in this space and some continued. Shared human experience builds connected bridges to support one another, in a trauma informed way. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:46 PM
.@LizDurrant19 talking about why it is not possible to be trauma informed without understanding the power dynamics involved. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:46 PM
.@LizDurrant19 sharing the need to be bold, radical and work firmly on the community led support, rather than hospitals often 100s of miles from home. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:46 PM
.@BeverleySamways and @BaronessHollins discussing why it is so important we actively listen to people. Why we must believe them when they share their truth. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:46 PM
And finally got to meet the phenomenal @TwittleyJules, co-founder of @RightfulLives with @MarkNeary1. Grateful to know and walk with these amazing people #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:41 PM
.@BaronessHollins talking about how @RESPOND_UK set up many community support services, working with people and their families and all through the lens of trauma and psychotherapy. It continues today and really is an authentic space to be connected with #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:40 PM
. @TwittleyJules now sharing her journey, with her son. What is a trauma journey and how does it feel? 'But you're just Mum, and you get to know the score' powerful poem shared by Julie. Utterly powerful. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:40 PM
.@TwittleyJules asks that we stop 'the adversarial approach from cradle to grave' and work as equals. Let's start and finish with the person. Let's be honest. Let's think about our language. Cut out the jargon and start speaking human. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:40 PM
The Truth Project is one space that needs to be destigmatised and adopted into the trauma space and validated @duffycormac88 says. We need to trust the survivor voice he says. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:35 PM
Kit Shellam, a member of the VSCP (Victim and Survivor Consultative Panel) now asking the audience to 'hold the space' for him as he has a stutter due to trauma and that can be supported well with a smile, and encouragement from everyone today. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:35 PM
Kit Shellam talking abt CYP with disabilities being at risk of abuse. 'If you're brain and body is differently wired like mine, and then you add in the trauma that was visited upon me for ten years - no one bothered to join the dots and help me.' #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:35 PM
Kit Shellam powerfully and authentically sharing how professionals never saw the 'whole' of him, just parts or bits. Not once did anyone ask if he was safe. He stresses that it is key that people don't use 'differences' as a way to treat people abusively. #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:35 PM
Kit talks about 'we can be targeted because we are seen as vulnerable; we believe people have integrity and are good. We are drawn in because ppl appear to know us better than others. Once we escape abusive situation we need the right holistic support.' #TraumaInformed23
November 21, 2024 at 10:35 PM