i think if you have an anxious attachment style and your avoidant-style friends are ghosting you, you should get to (remembers vocalizing unhealthy thoughts reinforces them) put on the best damn talent show this town's ever seen
November 10, 2026 at 12:48 AM
i think if you have an anxious attachment style and your avoidant-style friends are ghosting you, you should get to (remembers vocalizing unhealthy thoughts reinforces them) put on the best damn talent show this town's ever seen
my therapist saying she initially thought i had an anxious attachment style but now believes i’m actually a disorganized/fearful avoidant kinda rocked my shit
November 6, 2026 at 6:52 PM
my therapist saying she initially thought i had an anxious attachment style but now believes i’m actually a disorganized/fearful avoidant kinda rocked my shit
THEYYYY'VE GOT
ANXIOUS AVOIDANT HABITS LIKE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE!
ANXIOUS AVOIDANT HABITS LIKE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE!
November 6, 2026 at 6:59 PM
THEYYYY'VE GOT
ANXIOUS AVOIDANT HABITS LIKE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE!
ANXIOUS AVOIDANT HABITS LIKE YOU'VE NEVER SEEN BEFORE!
"do i NOT want intimacy because"
- i don't actually need it?
- im flux and im in a period of not actually wanting it?
- i don't actually miss it?
- i will only ever want it temporarily?
- im feeling avoidant?
- my spoons are too low to pursue it?
- im too anxious to seek out other people?
- i don't actually need it?
- im flux and im in a period of not actually wanting it?
- i don't actually miss it?
- i will only ever want it temporarily?
- im feeling avoidant?
- my spoons are too low to pursue it?
- im too anxious to seek out other people?
November 9, 2026 at 6:15 PM
"do i NOT want intimacy because"
- i don't actually need it?
- im flux and im in a period of not actually wanting it?
- i don't actually miss it?
- i will only ever want it temporarily?
- im feeling avoidant?
- my spoons are too low to pursue it?
- im too anxious to seek out other people?
- i don't actually need it?
- im flux and im in a period of not actually wanting it?
- i don't actually miss it?
- i will only ever want it temporarily?
- im feeling avoidant?
- my spoons are too low to pursue it?
- im too anxious to seek out other people?
I've always seen blitz as fight / anxious attachment and Stolas as fawn/avoidant?
November 4, 2026 at 5:13 PM
I've always seen blitz as fight / anxious attachment and Stolas as fawn/avoidant?
yeah a lot of attachments! House Atreides is anxious and Harkonnen is avoidant 😌
November 5, 2026 at 6:01 AM
yeah a lot of attachments! House Atreides is anxious and Harkonnen is avoidant 😌
Reading about it and seeing that people with ADHD and attachment challenges (insecure/anxious/avoidant) are very likely to experience limerence was like being slapped and then backhanded lmao. God.
Limerence is so awful but it feels like I don't have a choice it's compulsive and just takes me over. It's what I imagine being addicted to cigarettes feels like
November 9, 2026 at 2:57 AM
Reading about it and seeing that people with ADHD and attachment challenges (insecure/anxious/avoidant) are very likely to experience limerence was like being slapped and then backhanded lmao. God.
Anxious attachment to avoidant pipeline is real I believe it because I’m experiencing it
November 10, 2026 at 12:45 PM
Anxious attachment to avoidant pipeline is real I believe it because I’m experiencing it
avoidant thot cat or gay anxious dog
November 6, 2026 at 8:30 PM
avoidant thot cat or gay anxious dog
*writing furiously in mine * they are Avoidant and Fear my Anxious Attachment Style
November 5, 2026 at 4:44 AM
*writing furiously in mine * they are Avoidant and Fear my Anxious Attachment Style
Real. As someone with “avoidant” tendencies, they make me feel like I’m some kind of monster. They act like their own anxious/insecure attachment is the normal, healthy default. It isn’t! Both are unhealthy in different ways! No self awareness whatsoever lol
November 10, 2026 at 8:58 AM
Real. As someone with “avoidant” tendencies, they make me feel like I’m some kind of monster. They act like their own anxious/insecure attachment is the normal, healthy default. It isn’t! Both are unhealthy in different ways! No self awareness whatsoever lol
What if I'm anxious?
No, “Avoidant” Is Not a Dating Personality
Despite what TikTok says, sometimes you do just need space.
www.cosmopolitan.com
November 10, 2026 at 4:39 PM
What if I'm anxious?
like if youre not gonna turn into orange tang with me i need to keep you at a healthy distance. on a good day it oscillates between disorganized/anxious-avoidant and secure and its such whiplash like wtf i thought we were good what is wrong with you
November 6, 2026 at 12:00 AM
like if youre not gonna turn into orange tang with me i need to keep you at a healthy distance. on a good day it oscillates between disorganized/anxious-avoidant and secure and its such whiplash like wtf i thought we were good what is wrong with you
Well him treating me like this and me feeling this way makes a lot of sense if I do really have an anxious-avoidant lifestyle. The reason why I'm calm about it and think he's "just enough" is because he triggers both my anxious and avoidant attachment.
November 8, 2026 at 6:14 PM
Well him treating me like this and me feeling this way makes a lot of sense if I do really have an anxious-avoidant lifestyle. The reason why I'm calm about it and think he's "just enough" is because he triggers both my anxious and avoidant attachment.
been dating this man for a few weeks and now he's leaving for abroad for a few weeks and i really like him but i'm extremely terrified of what three weeks of physical distance might do to my anxious-avoidant ass
November 5, 2026 at 3:17 AM
been dating this man for a few weeks and now he's leaving for abroad for a few weeks and i really like him but i'm extremely terrified of what three weeks of physical distance might do to my anxious-avoidant ass
💞 Kate Alderman – The Attachment Trap
Your attachment style explains your pain. Learn to move from anxious or avoidant to secure love. 💕
👉 healfromheartbreak.lifesexplicit.com
#HealFromHeartbreak
Your attachment style explains your pain. Learn to move from anxious or avoidant to secure love. 💕
👉 healfromheartbreak.lifesexplicit.com
#HealFromHeartbreak
November 9, 2026 at 1:57 AM
💞 Kate Alderman – The Attachment Trap
Your attachment style explains your pain. Learn to move from anxious or avoidant to secure love. 💕
👉 healfromheartbreak.lifesexplicit.com
#HealFromHeartbreak
Your attachment style explains your pain. Learn to move from anxious or avoidant to secure love. 💕
👉 healfromheartbreak.lifesexplicit.com
#HealFromHeartbreak
today I learned that attachment styles in relationships are a thing and that I have an anxious one and one of my partners has an avoidant one
This has caused a massive weight to lift off my shoulders tbh
This has caused a massive weight to lift off my shoulders tbh
November 5, 2026 at 2:20 AM
today I learned that attachment styles in relationships are a thing and that I have an anxious one and one of my partners has an avoidant one
This has caused a massive weight to lift off my shoulders tbh
This has caused a massive weight to lift off my shoulders tbh
…I mistaken in assuming it’s gonna be “Jane and Anna time” or given the context of the conversation would it be more like diluting her Anna time with more Jane. Guess we won’t know yet since we seem to have two different flavors of avoidant, being anxious and toxicly positive
November 7, 2026 at 5:43 PM
…I mistaken in assuming it’s gonna be “Jane and Anna time” or given the context of the conversation would it be more like diluting her Anna time with more Jane. Guess we won’t know yet since we seem to have two different flavors of avoidant, being anxious and toxicly positive
Blitzø helped me process feeling like a crazy person after a breakup. The highs and lows of emotions and how you can act out in ways that can be both absurd and hurtful to others. Going from very avoidant to anxious attachment, anything other anger feeling a gutpunch when you finally let it in.
November 8, 2026 at 3:56 AM
Blitzø helped me process feeling like a crazy person after a breakup. The highs and lows of emotions and how you can act out in ways that can be both absurd and hurtful to others. Going from very avoidant to anxious attachment, anything other anger feeling a gutpunch when you finally let it in.
the new trend on tiktok where people with avoidant attachment have decided that they're superior to people with anxious attachment like babes neither of us are healthy idk why you think you're better
November 2, 2026 at 1:53 PM
the new trend on tiktok where people with avoidant attachment have decided that they're superior to people with anxious attachment like babes neither of us are healthy idk why you think you're better
How does your childhood impact your #marriage? by Terry Gaspard www.gottman.com/blog/how-you...
How Your Childhood Can Affect Your Marriage
Explore how childhood experiences and anxious or avoidant attachment can affect marriage, with ways to recognize patterns and understand your partner.
www.gottman.com
November 8, 2026 at 1:04 PM
How does your childhood impact your #marriage? by Terry Gaspard www.gottman.com/blog/how-you...
Avoidant Anxious First Date
YouTube video by Jimmy on Relationships
youtube.com
November 3, 2026 at 4:36 AM
The Anxious-Avoidant Relationship: How to Break the Cycle
Have you felt like you and your partner are stuck in a frustrating cycle where one of you craves intimacy while the other needs space? This is a common experience for many couples, and attachment theory helps explain why. Attachment styles…
Have you felt like you and your partner are stuck in a frustrating cycle where one of you craves intimacy while the other needs space? This is a common experience for many couples, and attachment theory helps explain why. Attachment styles…
The Anxious-Avoidant Relationship: How to Break the Cycle
Have you felt like you and your partner are stuck in a frustrating cycle where one of you craves intimacy while the other needs space? This is a common experience for many couples, and attachment theory helps explain why. Attachment styles are shaped by our early life experiences and influence the way we bond as adults. Our attachment styles can create patterns that repeat, sometimes without us even realizing it.
dollartips.top
November 10, 2026 at 8:13 PM
The Anxious-Avoidant Relationship: How to Break the Cycle
Have you felt like you and your partner are stuck in a frustrating cycle where one of you craves intimacy while the other needs space? This is a common experience for many couples, and attachment theory helps explain why. Attachment styles…
Have you felt like you and your partner are stuck in a frustrating cycle where one of you craves intimacy while the other needs space? This is a common experience for many couples, and attachment theory helps explain why. Attachment styles…
all i am is an underemployed anxious avoidant creature-thing who drinks too much and then starts posting about dan and phil and a lot of the time even i make me sick because i feel like such a useless & horrible person but i'm starting to suspect some of you actually like me for me. thats so stupid
November 3, 2026 at 3:28 PM
all i am is an underemployed anxious avoidant creature-thing who drinks too much and then starts posting about dan and phil and a lot of the time even i make me sick because i feel like such a useless & horrible person but i'm starting to suspect some of you actually like me for me. thats so stupid
If you have a secure attachment style: boo!
If you have an anxious insecure attachment style: *your text read hours ago with no response*
If you have an anxious avoidant attachment style: WHAT ARE WE?
If you have a disorganized attachment style: all of the above messages!
If you have an anxious insecure attachment style: *your text read hours ago with no response*
If you have an anxious avoidant attachment style: WHAT ARE WE?
If you have a disorganized attachment style: all of the above messages!
October 31, 2026 at 10:15 PM
If you have a secure attachment style: boo!
If you have an anxious insecure attachment style: *your text read hours ago with no response*
If you have an anxious avoidant attachment style: WHAT ARE WE?
If you have a disorganized attachment style: all of the above messages!
If you have an anxious insecure attachment style: *your text read hours ago with no response*
If you have an anxious avoidant attachment style: WHAT ARE WE?
If you have a disorganized attachment style: all of the above messages!