If you park directly in front of a building you a) have to wait to open your door to make sure you don't kill a cyclist or get killed by an inattentive driver and b) have no incentive to walk about and find new businesses and things.
October 2, 2026 at 5:09 PM
If you park directly in front of a building you a) have to wait to open your door to make sure you don't kill a cyclist or get killed by an inattentive driver and b) have no incentive to walk about and find new businesses and things.
The crayons being lil guys and the daydreaming all track with my experience of untreated inattentive ADHD got the Dx at 27 and meds made all the difference
October 2, 2026 at 4:13 PM
The crayons being lil guys and the daydreaming all track with my experience of untreated inattentive ADHD got the Dx at 27 and meds made all the difference
As a grandmother I keep thinking, I hope their parents are so proud of them. I hope they see who and what they raised in these “men”/monsters. I hope these “men”/monsters bring ruin to their family name. Money buys nothing but trouble for inattentive parents and coddlers at this level of society.
October 2, 2026 at 3:22 PM
As a grandmother I keep thinking, I hope their parents are so proud of them. I hope they see who and what they raised in these “men”/monsters. I hope these “men”/monsters bring ruin to their family name. Money buys nothing but trouble for inattentive parents and coddlers at this level of society.
47. i am an inattentive mug
October 2, 2026 at 2:22 PM
47. i am an inattentive mug
I agree but it's flipped around, they aren't thinking about it from the "bad things can still happen to me" angle, they're thinking about it as the driver. They know themselves to be inattentive, speeding, and reckless, and they're clamoring for an excuse because they know they might do this.
October 2, 2026 at 2:02 PM
I agree but it's flipped around, they aren't thinking about it from the "bad things can still happen to me" angle, they're thinking about it as the driver. They know themselves to be inattentive, speeding, and reckless, and they're clamoring for an excuse because they know they might do this.
"Wh- Oh my! Oh, good heavens..!"
The previously-inattentive housewife, having finally noticed that slight tickling sensation, lifts her chubby foot and gingerly pulls you free from the wrinkles embedded around your thankfully intact ant-sized form.
"I'm ever so sorry! Please forgive me, little one!"
The previously-inattentive housewife, having finally noticed that slight tickling sensation, lifts her chubby foot and gingerly pulls you free from the wrinkles embedded around your thankfully intact ant-sized form.
"I'm ever so sorry! Please forgive me, little one!"
October 2, 2026 at 1:57 PM
"Wh- Oh my! Oh, good heavens..!"
The previously-inattentive housewife, having finally noticed that slight tickling sensation, lifts her chubby foot and gingerly pulls you free from the wrinkles embedded around your thankfully intact ant-sized form.
"I'm ever so sorry! Please forgive me, little one!"
The previously-inattentive housewife, having finally noticed that slight tickling sensation, lifts her chubby foot and gingerly pulls you free from the wrinkles embedded around your thankfully intact ant-sized form.
"I'm ever so sorry! Please forgive me, little one!"
We did expensive assessments for dyslexia for my daughter and inattentive ADHD for my son. I could talk about school response to a dyslexia diagnosis for a long time.
My son was not recommended meds for his ADHD, but he's older, and can work on his behaviors. That's super hard for a first grader.
My son was not recommended meds for his ADHD, but he's older, and can work on his behaviors. That's super hard for a first grader.
October 2, 2026 at 1:24 PM
We did expensive assessments for dyslexia for my daughter and inattentive ADHD for my son. I could talk about school response to a dyslexia diagnosis for a long time.
My son was not recommended meds for his ADHD, but he's older, and can work on his behaviors. That's super hard for a first grader.
My son was not recommended meds for his ADHD, but he's older, and can work on his behaviors. That's super hard for a first grader.
Exactly this situation, plus the additional stress from having to stand my motorbike on its front wheel when an inattentive schoolkid stepped into the road in front of me without looking. "Your BP is a bit high today" - Yeah, really..! 🤣
October 1, 2026 at 5:40 PM
Exactly this situation, plus the additional stress from having to stand my motorbike on its front wheel when an inattentive schoolkid stepped into the road in front of me without looking. "Your BP is a bit high today" - Yeah, really..! 🤣
Now, those women may be particularly inattentive, but I think ADHDers deserve integrity as well 😛
October 1, 2026 at 4:47 PM
Now, those women may be particularly inattentive, but I think ADHDers deserve integrity as well 😛
For sure. The next doctor I saw said that the diagnostic criteria my first psychologist used were outdated and that they could confidently diagnose me with Inattentive type ADHD.
October 1, 2026 at 3:04 PM
For sure. The next doctor I saw said that the diagnostic criteria my first psychologist used were outdated and that they could confidently diagnose me with Inattentive type ADHD.
Inattentive presentations were far less likely to trigger a referral, because the system was built to notice disruption first. New piece on ADHD in women and AFAB adults.
October 1, 2026 at 1:23 PM
Inattentive presentations were far less likely to trigger a referral, because the system was built to notice disruption first. New piece on ADHD in women and AFAB adults.
I rabbit hole that shit & learn as much as I can about it before the dopamine runs out 😅
But usually it's like... a band, or a tv show, or a craft hobby or something.... ARCHITECTURE feels a little out-of-my-league for my particular brand of AuDHD (I'm REAL HEAVY on the inattentive ADHD part) lol
But usually it's like... a band, or a tv show, or a craft hobby or something.... ARCHITECTURE feels a little out-of-my-league for my particular brand of AuDHD (I'm REAL HEAVY on the inattentive ADHD part) lol
October 1, 2026 at 12:04 PM
I rabbit hole that shit & learn as much as I can about it before the dopamine runs out 😅
But usually it's like... a band, or a tv show, or a craft hobby or something.... ARCHITECTURE feels a little out-of-my-league for my particular brand of AuDHD (I'm REAL HEAVY on the inattentive ADHD part) lol
But usually it's like... a band, or a tv show, or a craft hobby or something.... ARCHITECTURE feels a little out-of-my-league for my particular brand of AuDHD (I'm REAL HEAVY on the inattentive ADHD part) lol
You might display signs of inattention, hyperactivity, or both.
Symptoms typically manifest before age 12.
ADHD is often less recognised in females, possibly because they tend to exhibit inattentive traits, which are less noticeable than hyperactivity.
Symptoms typically manifest before age 12.
ADHD is often less recognised in females, possibly because they tend to exhibit inattentive traits, which are less noticeable than hyperactivity.
October 1, 2026 at 11:15 AM
You might display signs of inattention, hyperactivity, or both.
Symptoms typically manifest before age 12.
ADHD is often less recognised in females, possibly because they tend to exhibit inattentive traits, which are less noticeable than hyperactivity.
Symptoms typically manifest before age 12.
ADHD is often less recognised in females, possibly because they tend to exhibit inattentive traits, which are less noticeable than hyperactivity.
![Then came today’s recipe, my butternut squash and sage ravioli with candied dijon walnuts, made just last night. A quick one, as I wanted to leave time for quite an after dinner speech.
Plates licked clean, I began coyly. “I’m surprised you liked that so much. It had quite a bit of sage in it.” He sputtered. I rose.
“Because of me, your life has been full of all good things. Your heart full of love, your home full of children’s laughter, your table full of friends, and for the past two weeks, your belly full of sage! And mushrooms! And everything that makes life worth living!”
He slept at a hotel last night. His boss wouldn’t answer his calls.
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And that cognitive act is precisely what I *don’t* want outsourced to an AI, even one run by someone less shady than Zuck.
There’s a whole category of grift that simply involves sending invoices to companies for work you never did and counting on inattentive clerks to send back checks.
There’s a whole category of grift that simply involves sending invoices to companies for work you never did and counting on inattentive clerks to send back checks.
September 30, 2026 at 10:21 PM
And that cognitive act is precisely what I *don’t* want outsourced to an AI, even one run by someone less shady than Zuck.
There’s a whole category of grift that simply involves sending invoices to companies for work you never did and counting on inattentive clerks to send back checks.
There’s a whole category of grift that simply involves sending invoices to companies for work you never did and counting on inattentive clerks to send back checks.
my only Black boss was at panera, and he didn't like me either, but i was also peak undiagnosed inattentive adhd annoying and it was probably justified
September 30, 2026 at 9:57 PM
my only Black boss was at panera, and he didn't like me either, but i was also peak undiagnosed inattentive adhd annoying and it was probably justified
Thank you Comms Officer Doug Eiffel from a combined inattentive-hyperactive bitch!!!
back in the assessment ring in 5 minutes, everyone light a candle at the altar of patron saint of adhd Comms Officer Doug Eiffel
September 30, 2026 at 7:36 PM
Thank you Comms Officer Doug Eiffel from a combined inattentive-hyperactive bitch!!!
The inarticulate leading the inattentive...USA! USA!
September 30, 2026 at 6:01 PM
The inarticulate leading the inattentive...USA! USA!
Seeing @ladyemily.nebula.tv going through it lately has had me thinking the same thing. I just also am so forgetful and inattentive sometimes that I really need to take that it.
I was rewatching early Spongebob for video edits last year, and the show is better today than when it came out I swear.
I was rewatching early Spongebob for video edits last year, and the show is better today than when it came out I swear.
September 30, 2026 at 3:38 PM
Seeing @ladyemily.nebula.tv going through it lately has had me thinking the same thing. I just also am so forgetful and inattentive sometimes that I really need to take that it.
I was rewatching early Spongebob for video edits last year, and the show is better today than when it came out I swear.
I was rewatching early Spongebob for video edits last year, and the show is better today than when it came out I swear.
YES YESSSSSS!! Dallas drivers need to be humbled, they’re too comfortable being inattentive
September 30, 2026 at 2:35 PM
YES YESSSSSS!! Dallas drivers need to be humbled, they’re too comfortable being inattentive
I'm luckier, I last 20 minutes, then inattentive ADHD draws a blanket over whatever's being said. But if I'm painting, I last for hours...
My big character flaw is that I cannot pay attention to anything when I'm sitting down without interacting.
I fall asleep in every talk, I don't retain a word a teacher says, I get so restless waiting for my turn in DnD that I forget what happened, I have no idea what doctors told me to do
I fall asleep in every talk, I don't retain a word a teacher says, I get so restless waiting for my turn in DnD that I forget what happened, I have no idea what doctors told me to do
September 30, 2026 at 10:57 AM
I'm luckier, I last 20 minutes, then inattentive ADHD draws a blanket over whatever's being said. But if I'm painting, I last for hours...
It's still better odds than travelling on the roads though. Suicidal pilots are rare, gormless, inattentive drivers are not.
September 30, 2026 at 8:08 AM
It's still better odds than travelling on the roads though. Suicidal pilots are rare, gormless, inattentive drivers are not.
Apparently "gormless" etymologically means "heedless; inattentive" so the lesson is don't call ADHD bitches gormless (as we are ontologically incapable of doing wrong) but it's absolutely fine to call anyone else
"gormless" gotta be one of my favorite insults. you lack gorm bro!!!! go get some fucking gorm!!!!!!
September 30, 2026 at 6:34 AM
Apparently "gormless" etymologically means "heedless; inattentive" so the lesson is don't call ADHD bitches gormless (as we are ontologically incapable of doing wrong) but it's absolutely fine to call anyone else
CW and TW: Very Likely NDE In A Truck
Some inattentive asshole behind the wheel of a pickup truck did a sudden and illegal turn and nearly struck the truck. Dad was driving and we avoided a fatal accident by a few inches. My life flashed before my eyes and I thought for sure I would awaken in Hell.
Some inattentive asshole behind the wheel of a pickup truck did a sudden and illegal turn and nearly struck the truck. Dad was driving and we avoided a fatal accident by a few inches. My life flashed before my eyes and I thought for sure I would awaken in Hell.
September 29, 2026 at 10:21 PM
CW and TW: Very Likely NDE In A Truck
Some inattentive asshole behind the wheel of a pickup truck did a sudden and illegal turn and nearly struck the truck. Dad was driving and we avoided a fatal accident by a few inches. My life flashed before my eyes and I thought for sure I would awaken in Hell.
Some inattentive asshole behind the wheel of a pickup truck did a sudden and illegal turn and nearly struck the truck. Dad was driving and we avoided a fatal accident by a few inches. My life flashed before my eyes and I thought for sure I would awaken in Hell.