“We don’t have to be perfect before we call for a stop to abuse and cruelty.”
The Life-Saving Divorce, Chapter 3
#LifeSavingDivorce #DivorceRecovery #ChristianDivorce
The Life-Saving Divorce, Chapter 3
#LifeSavingDivorce #DivorceRecovery #ChristianDivorce
September 29, 2026 at 11:52 PM
“We don’t have to be perfect before we call for a stop to abuse and cruelty.”
The Life-Saving Divorce, Chapter 3
#LifeSavingDivorce #DivorceRecovery #ChristianDivorce
The Life-Saving Divorce, Chapter 3
#LifeSavingDivorce #DivorceRecovery #ChristianDivorce
If no one told you today... 🕊️
You're allowed to protect your peace.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse
You're allowed to protect your peace.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse
May 1, 2026 at 11:01 PM
If no one told you today... 🕊️
You're allowed to protect your peace.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse
You're allowed to protect your peace.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #emotionalabuse
The way you feel during the worst years of divorce may tell you very little about how you will feel years from now.
A 2025 study of 1,462 Australian women: satisfaction dropped, recovered in 3–4 years, then passed women who stayed married or partnered.
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#LifeSavingDivorce
A 2025 study of 1,462 Australian women: satisfaction dropped, recovered in 3–4 years, then passed women who stayed married or partnered.
buff.ly/nBZ7VFM
#LifeSavingDivorce
October 1, 2026 at 1:15 AM
The way you feel during the worst years of divorce may tell you very little about how you will feel years from now.
A 2025 study of 1,462 Australian women: satisfaction dropped, recovered in 3–4 years, then passed women who stayed married or partnered.
buff.ly/nBZ7VFM
#LifeSavingDivorce
A 2025 study of 1,462 Australian women: satisfaction dropped, recovered in 3–4 years, then passed women who stayed married or partnered.
buff.ly/nBZ7VFM
#LifeSavingDivorce
"God hates divorce." But what does Malachi actually say in context? The answer might surprise you. buff.ly/TPjrcd7
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
April 3, 2026 at 11:00 PM
"God hates divorce." But what does Malachi actually say in context? The answer might surprise you. buff.ly/TPjrcd7
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
The myth that divorce equals misery? Busted! 🚫🔍
75% of divorced individuals find happiness again. It’s time to rethink the narrative and celebrate resilience. 💪
Link to the data: buff.ly/JhN46iZ
#LifesavingDivorce #HopeAfterDivorce
75% of divorced individuals find happiness again. It’s time to rethink the narrative and celebrate resilience. 💪
Link to the data: buff.ly/JhN46iZ
#LifesavingDivorce #HopeAfterDivorce
March 9, 2026 at 11:48 PM
The myth that divorce equals misery? Busted! 🚫🔍
75% of divorced individuals find happiness again. It’s time to rethink the narrative and celebrate resilience. 💪
Link to the data: buff.ly/JhN46iZ
#LifesavingDivorce #HopeAfterDivorce
75% of divorced individuals find happiness again. It’s time to rethink the narrative and celebrate resilience. 💪
Link to the data: buff.ly/JhN46iZ
#LifesavingDivorce #HopeAfterDivorce
Mark your calendar. FREE updated version of Life-Saving Divorce book on Kindle Oct 13-15 only.
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Get the book here: link.amazon/B08enD5nr
Find out how to read it without a Kindle device: buff.ly/XosogGV
#LifeSavingDivorce
September 24, 2026 at 11:05 PM
Mark your calendar. FREE updated version of Life-Saving Divorce book on Kindle Oct 13-15 only.
Get the book here: link.amazon/B08enD5nr
Find out how to read it without a Kindle device: buff.ly/XosogGV
#LifeSavingDivorce
Get the book here: link.amazon/B08enD5nr
Find out how to read it without a Kindle device: buff.ly/XosogGV
#LifeSavingDivorce
When the Dead Sea Scrolls were published, translators realized: this verse was never about God hating divorce. It's about a husband who hates his wife. 📜
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#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
For more context on the verse read: buff.ly/TPjrcd7
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
April 6, 2026 at 9:48 PM
When the Dead Sea Scrolls were published, translators realized: this verse was never about God hating divorce. It's about a husband who hates his wife. 📜
For more context on the verse read: buff.ly/TPjrcd7
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
For more context on the verse read: buff.ly/TPjrcd7
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #church
1 in 4 highly religious marriages report abuse. This isn't secular infiltration. It's in our churches. The question isn't whether abuse exists among believers — it's whether we'll protect the vulnerable. 🙏
Read about the research here: buff.ly/Rihnvds
#lifesavingdivorce
Read about the research here: buff.ly/Rihnvds
#lifesavingdivorce
March 27, 2026 at 11:02 PM
1 in 4 highly religious marriages report abuse. This isn't secular infiltration. It's in our churches. The question isn't whether abuse exists among believers — it's whether we'll protect the vulnerable. 🙏
Read about the research here: buff.ly/Rihnvds
#lifesavingdivorce
Read about the research here: buff.ly/Rihnvds
#lifesavingdivorce
We were taught to love, love, love. And forgive, forgive, forgive.
But the Bible also says to get away and stay from abusers. Those verses exist. We just weren't shown them.
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#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuseawareness #biblicalmarriage
But the Bible also says to get away and stay from abusers. Those verses exist. We just weren't shown them.
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#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuseawareness #biblicalmarriage
May 7, 2026 at 11:00 PM
We were taught to love, love, love. And forgive, forgive, forgive.
But the Bible also says to get away and stay from abusers. Those verses exist. We just weren't shown them.
buff.ly/W6yshyD
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuseawareness #biblicalmarriage
But the Bible also says to get away and stay from abusers. Those verses exist. We just weren't shown them.
buff.ly/W6yshyD
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuseawareness #biblicalmarriage
Christians are often told divorce will ruin their lives.
But what if the real devastation isn’t the divorce — it’s the marriage? 💔
Some divorces are tragic.
Some are selfish.
But some divorces save lives. 🕊️
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#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #church
But what if the real devastation isn’t the divorce — it’s the marriage? 💔
Some divorces are tragic.
Some are selfish.
But some divorces save lives. 🕊️
buff.ly/a8M4HVo
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #church
March 17, 2026 at 11:52 PM
Christians are often told divorce will ruin their lives.
But what if the real devastation isn’t the divorce — it’s the marriage? 💔
Some divorces are tragic.
Some are selfish.
But some divorces save lives. 🕊️
buff.ly/a8M4HVo
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #church
But what if the real devastation isn’t the divorce — it’s the marriage? 💔
Some divorces are tragic.
Some are selfish.
But some divorces save lives. 🕊️
buff.ly/a8M4HVo
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticabuse #church
What if staying under the same roof is actually making your marriage worse?
A therapeutic separation isn't abandonment. It's a structured pause with clear boundaries, accountability, and review dates.
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#TherapeuticSeparation #LifeSavingDivorce
A therapeutic separation isn't abandonment. It's a structured pause with clear boundaries, accountability, and review dates.
buff.ly/Wbaa94K
#TherapeuticSeparation #LifeSavingDivorce
September 17, 2026 at 11:05 PM
What if staying under the same roof is actually making your marriage worse?
A therapeutic separation isn't abandonment. It's a structured pause with clear boundaries, accountability, and review dates.
buff.ly/Wbaa94K
#TherapeuticSeparation #LifeSavingDivorce
A therapeutic separation isn't abandonment. It's a structured pause with clear boundaries, accountability, and review dates.
buff.ly/Wbaa94K
#TherapeuticSeparation #LifeSavingDivorce
We were taught to fear divorce instead of fear abuse.
Research points to the real driver of long-term trauma: abuse and household dysfunction—not the split itself.
In high-distress homes, kids suffer 10x more damage when parents stay together (Amato, 2003).
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#LifeSavingDivorce
Research points to the real driver of long-term trauma: abuse and household dysfunction—not the split itself.
In high-distress homes, kids suffer 10x more damage when parents stay together (Amato, 2003).
buff.ly/TLRytnt
#LifeSavingDivorce
August 18, 2026 at 11:52 PM
We were taught to fear divorce instead of fear abuse.
Research points to the real driver of long-term trauma: abuse and household dysfunction—not the split itself.
In high-distress homes, kids suffer 10x more damage when parents stay together (Amato, 2003).
buff.ly/TLRytnt
#LifeSavingDivorce
Research points to the real driver of long-term trauma: abuse and household dysfunction—not the split itself.
In high-distress homes, kids suffer 10x more damage when parents stay together (Amato, 2003).
buff.ly/TLRytnt
#LifeSavingDivorce
New study on divorce & young kids misses the key question: WHY? Toxic marriages hurt children too. The reason for divorce changes the outcomes for kids entirely. 🕊️
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#lifesavingdivorce #kidsanddivorce #domesticabuseawareness
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#lifesavingdivorce #kidsanddivorce #domesticabuseawareness
March 26, 2026 at 1:30 AM
New study on divorce & young kids misses the key question: WHY? Toxic marriages hurt children too. The reason for divorce changes the outcomes for kids entirely. 🕊️
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#lifesavingdivorce #kidsanddivorce #domesticabuseawareness
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#lifesavingdivorce #kidsanddivorce #domesticabuseawareness
So I took the data and put it in a graph. This graph shows that children of divorce ARE NOT LIKELY to have teen preganancy, early death, or incarceration.
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #marriagematters #divorcerecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #christiancounseling #divorcecoach
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #marriagematters #divorcerecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #christiancounseling #divorcecoach
June 11, 2025 at 1:42 PM
So I took the data and put it in a graph. This graph shows that children of divorce ARE NOT LIKELY to have teen preganancy, early death, or incarceration.
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #marriagematters #divorcerecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #christiancounseling #divorcecoach
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #marriagematters #divorcerecovery #DomesticViolenceAwareness #christiancounseling #divorcecoach
You may have spent years trying harder, praying harder, hoping things would change. But sometimes the problem isn't that you haven't tried hard enough.
You are not alone. Your life matters. ❤️
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
You are not alone. Your life matters. ❤️
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
September 11, 2026 at 11:00 PM
You may have spent years trying harder, praying harder, hoping things would change. But sometimes the problem isn't that you haven't tried hard enough.
You are not alone. Your life matters. ❤️
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
You are not alone. Your life matters. ❤️
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
Marriage-at-any-cost organizations love to cherry-pick quotes from Dr. Judith Wallerstein's book, "The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce."
😡 And that made her furious!
Because she believed that divorce was best 😇 for kids' wellbeing in some cases.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticviolence
😡 And that made her furious!
Because she believed that divorce was best 😇 for kids' wellbeing in some cases.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticviolence
September 5, 2025 at 8:01 PM
Marriage-at-any-cost organizations love to cherry-pick quotes from Dr. Judith Wallerstein's book, "The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce."
😡 And that made her furious!
Because she believed that divorce was best 😇 for kids' wellbeing in some cases.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticviolence
😡 And that made her furious!
Because she believed that divorce was best 😇 for kids' wellbeing in some cases.
#lifesavingdivorce #domesticviolence
Child Custody Basics: Why the Court Evaluates the Safe Parent Too, Episode 1
Stay tuned, as I’ll be posting a new episode each day.
🎤 Watch the full video to learn more about navigating child custody: buff.ly/t1wJUQg
#CustodyChallenges #LifeSavingDivorce #CustodyEvaluation
Stay tuned, as I’ll be posting a new episode each day.
🎤 Watch the full video to learn more about navigating child custody: buff.ly/t1wJUQg
#CustodyChallenges #LifeSavingDivorce #CustodyEvaluation
February 7, 2026 at 11:18 PM
Child Custody Basics: Why the Court Evaluates the Safe Parent Too, Episode 1
Stay tuned, as I’ll be posting a new episode each day.
🎤 Watch the full video to learn more about navigating child custody: buff.ly/t1wJUQg
#CustodyChallenges #LifeSavingDivorce #CustodyEvaluation
Stay tuned, as I’ll be posting a new episode each day.
🎤 Watch the full video to learn more about navigating child custody: buff.ly/t1wJUQg
#CustodyChallenges #LifeSavingDivorce #CustodyEvaluation
“I knew I needed to find a new church when my pastor said five times in one sermon, ‘If you walk away from your marriage, you’re walking away from Jesus’.”
~Gretchen Baskerville, The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 62
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #SafeChurches #ChristianDivorce
~Gretchen Baskerville, The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 62
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #SafeChurches #ChristianDivorce
August 4, 2026 at 11:52 PM
“I knew I needed to find a new church when my pastor said five times in one sermon, ‘If you walk away from your marriage, you’re walking away from Jesus’.”
~Gretchen Baskerville, The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 62
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #SafeChurches #ChristianDivorce
~Gretchen Baskerville, The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 62
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #SafeChurches #ChristianDivorce
Quote from Judith S. Wallerstein, Ph.D.
Author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #StayForTheKids #DivorceResearch #ToxicMarriage #ChristianMarriage
Author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #StayForTheKids #DivorceResearch #ToxicMarriage #ChristianMarriage
August 19, 2026 at 12:14 AM
Quote from Judith S. Wallerstein, Ph.D.
Author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #StayForTheKids #DivorceResearch #ToxicMarriage #ChristianMarriage
Author of The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #StayForTheKids #DivorceResearch #ToxicMarriage #ChristianMarriage
Even the World’s Greatest Counselor Can’t Fix an Abuser Who Refuses to Change
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseRecovery #ChristianCounseling #ToxicRelationships #SafeChurches #DomesticViolenceAwareness
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseRecovery #ChristianCounseling #ToxicRelationships #SafeChurches #DomesticViolenceAwareness
August 12, 2026 at 11:00 PM
Even the World’s Greatest Counselor Can’t Fix an Abuser Who Refuses to Change
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseRecovery #ChristianCounseling #ToxicRelationships #SafeChurches #DomesticViolenceAwareness
#LifeSavingDivorce #SpiritualAbuse #AbuseRecovery #ChristianCounseling #ToxicRelationships #SafeChurches #DomesticViolenceAwareness
This is a reminder to single parents: You don't need to introduce a new romantic partner to your children's lives. It's not necessary, especially if you personally are loving, stable, and emotionally healthy. Kids can turn out great just by having one good adult in their life. ❤️
#lifesavingdivorce
#lifesavingdivorce
May 18, 2026 at 9:48 PM
This is a reminder to single parents: You don't need to introduce a new romantic partner to your children's lives. It's not necessary, especially if you personally are loving, stable, and emotionally healthy. Kids can turn out great just by having one good adult in their life. ❤️
#lifesavingdivorce
#lifesavingdivorce
"The problem wasn’t that you trusted—it was that your spouse took advantage of that trust."
The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 379
#LifeSavingDivorce #BetrayalTrauma #ChristianDivorce #ToxicMarriage #SpousalAbuse
The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 379
#LifeSavingDivorce #BetrayalTrauma #ChristianDivorce #ToxicMarriage #SpousalAbuse
July 10, 2026 at 11:00 PM
"The problem wasn’t that you trusted—it was that your spouse took advantage of that trust."
The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 379
#LifeSavingDivorce #BetrayalTrauma #ChristianDivorce #ToxicMarriage #SpousalAbuse
The Life-Saving Divorce, p. 379
#LifeSavingDivorce #BetrayalTrauma #ChristianDivorce #ToxicMarriage #SpousalAbuse
You don't have to stay in a marriage that's destroying you to prove your faith is strong. 🕊️
God sees what's happening behind closed doors.
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #domesticabuseawareness
God sees what's happening behind closed doors.
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #domesticabuseawareness
June 30, 2026 at 11:52 PM
You don't have to stay in a marriage that's destroying you to prove your faith is strong. 🕊️
God sees what's happening behind closed doors.
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #domesticabuseawareness
God sees what's happening behind closed doors.
#lifesavingdivorce #biblicalmarriage #domesticabuseawareness
Some marriages are quiet not because they're healthy — but because one spouse is silenced, spiritually pressured, or exhausted from keeping the family looking fine.
That's not peace. That's survival.
#lifesavingdivorce #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse
That's not peace. That's survival.
#lifesavingdivorce #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse
April 13, 2026 at 9:48 PM
Some marriages are quiet not because they're healthy — but because one spouse is silenced, spiritually pressured, or exhausted from keeping the family looking fine.
That's not peace. That's survival.
#lifesavingdivorce #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse
That's not peace. That's survival.
#lifesavingdivorce #emotionalabuse #domesticabuse
"Is it okay with God if I get a divorce?"
If you've asked yourself that question in the middle of the night, you're not alone — and you deserve an honest answer, not a guilt trip.
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
If you've asked yourself that question in the middle of the night, you're not alone — and you deserve an honest answer, not a guilt trip.
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
September 16, 2026 at 11:00 PM
"Is it okay with God if I get a divorce?"
If you've asked yourself that question in the middle of the night, you're not alone — and you deserve an honest answer, not a guilt trip.
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce
If you've asked yourself that question in the middle of the night, you're not alone — and you deserve an honest answer, not a guilt trip.
#LifeSavingDivorce #ChristianDivorce