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If you want to sabotage and destroy connection in a loving relationship keep score. #manscommunity #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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Stop Keeping Score in Your Marriage
Many couples think they are making their marriage fair by creating victim based fights over how much has or hasn’t been done. Stop keeping score.
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October 16, 2024 at 1:30 PM
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The last episode centered around different types of intimacy. Talking about physical intimacy, and how you need to use the other intimacies to get more physical intimacy.

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What in the World is Physical Intimacy?
In the final part of this series of different intimacies we talk about What is physical Intimacy and why it is so important to us men.
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November 21, 2024 at 3:01 PM
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We sacrifice ourselves to the detriment of others. It doesn’t help us be better and it takes from those around us. How much better would the world be if we were being just a little more selfish?

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Why Men Need to Stop Over-Sacrificing and Be More Selfish
Many times us men give up more than we need to. We sacrifice who we are for not just those that love us, but for those who don’t.
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November 20, 2024 at 1:48 PM
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Sadly too many men give up their power because they believe they have to. Then wonder why no one will follow them. #mansmind #manscommunity #personalpower #relaxedmale

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Why Men Give Away Their Power (And How to Get It Back)
Discover why men give away their personal power and learn 7 practical ways to reclaim your autonomy, stop playing victim, and take control of your life.
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July 16, 2025 at 12:46 PM
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If you want to be desirable to your wife or you want to show up more desirable to other people then you want to try this. #relationshipadvice #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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How to Be More desireable to Your Wife and Others.
Want to be the man everyone notices? Discover how to boost your value, mindset, and confidence with actionable steps from the 4 Pillars of a Relaxed Male.
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July 2, 2025 at 10:19 PM
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Stop letting fights ruin your relationships and start using them to grow. #manscommunity #conflictintimacy #coupleadvice #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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How to Stop Letting Fights With Your Wife Ruin Your Relationship
Tired of the same arguments? Learn how to stop letting fights with your wife destroy your connection and start building real communication and trust.
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June 28, 2025 at 2:17 AM
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When relearning how to communicate with your wife one of the best tools is just the simple weekly check-in. That is if you are brave enough to hear what your wife has to say. #manscommunity #communication #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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Why Regular Check-Ins Are the Secret to a Strong Marriage
How can you have stronger communication with your wife? You check in with her and you talk it out. THe practice of talking is what will help your marriage.
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June 11, 2025 at 6:40 PM
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How do you stay motivated when your wife doesn’t align with your vision? #manscommunity #manssoul #motivating #relaxedmale

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What to Do When Your Wife Doesn’t Support Your Vision
There are times when your vision of your purpose doesn’t align with your wife’s vision. How do you keep your momentum going?
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June 6, 2025 at 7:24 AM
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People who put up walls often also complain that they can’t get close to people. Walls keep people from connecting and providing the relationships and fulfillment they crave. #manscommunity #relaxexmale #relationships #defenses

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Set Boundaries Not Walls
Why are people who set up walls to keep people out so unhappy? Why are they not content nor are they fulfilled in any way?
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April 30, 2025 at 5:14 PM
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We are simple creatures true but we do have expectations. #manscommunity #mensNeeds
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Women Who Are Unforgettable To Men Never Do These 10 Things, According To Psychology
By steering clear of these common pitfalls, you can leave a lasting, positive impression on every man you meet.
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April 10, 2025 at 4:50 PM
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Putting people put those we love at a disadvantage because they are held up to unrealistic expectations. Then we get hurt and upset when they falter. Here are 7 examples of folks we place on pedestals. #RelationshipAdvice #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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7 People We Put On A Pedestal and Then Wonder Why They Fall
The pedestal is a dangerous place to put those that we love. Many times we do put our most tloved people on these lofty heights and we blame them for our hurt
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April 9, 2025 at 2:50 PM
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People will do stuff that will cause us to scratch our heads and wonder what are they thinking. This is what they are thinking. #manscommunity #thoughtwork #people #relaxedmale

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Why People Do the Things That Make No Sense
Us humans can often do baffeling things. Why do we over eat even though we know it leads to health problems or we watch stuff on the net that leads to divorce.
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April 2, 2025 at 6:39 PM
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There are times a man may cheat. How are you able to keep your wife from leaving? You can’t, because you can’t control your wife. You can control your thoughts and your actions. #Manscommunity #mansactions #cheating #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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When You Cheat - Question of the month. - ep 268
I cheated on my wife of nine years. we have two children. One is under 5 and the other is under one. I made a mistake and the woman says she might be pregna ...
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March 27, 2025 at 1:07 PM
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Men want physical intimacy while women often want emotional intimacy. The answer is that we need all forms of intimacy and the intention to have that strong connection. #manscommunity #relaxedmale #relationships #podcast

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Is physical intimacy important for fortifying emotional intimacy?
As men we like our physical intimacy and the fact that we want sex as much as we do can often lead to some frustrations.
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March 13, 2025 at 1:25 PM
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We are going to have pain and discomfort in our lives. Resisting that pain brings More pain into your life. #mansmind #manscommunity #relaxedmale #5050principle #faceTheDiscomfort

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Living The 50/50 Principle for a better Life and Marriage
Whether we like it or not our life will have pain and suffering in it. This is called the 50/50 pinciple, where half of your life is pain and pleasure..
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March 5, 2025 at 7:56 PM
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Today’s episode shadows folks what it is like to be coached. We talk to a client and coach him through some challenges he has at work. #podcast #manscommunity #relationships #relaxedmale

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Taking the Lead in Your Relationship - ep 264
What is lit like to be coached by me? This week we talk to a client who has been coached and has seen changes in his life because of it.
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February 27, 2025 at 8:28 PM
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Our marriage is far from perfect and I don’t think you actually want a boring marriage. If you want a marriage that is fulfilling you will have to work for it. #manscommunity #relationshipadvice #fulfillingMarriage #relaxedmale

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You Are Not Entitled to A perfect Marriage But You Can Earn it
Many times when we think of marriage we see all the positives and non of the struggles. This is why so many of our relationships fail.
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February 26, 2025 at 9:01 PM
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How do you progress beyond the divorce? How does one start a new journey in their life? #mansmind #manscommunity #manssoul #mansbody #relaxedmale #podcast

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Question of the Month: Progressing beyond the Divorce - Ep 262
ow do you get out of the mental trap you put yourself in after a divorce? How do you start over? How do you start a new journey? Short answer You take action.
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February 21, 2025 at 12:32 AM
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How can you go through a stressful circumstance and still support each other. #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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How to support each other through stressful times
Marriage is viewed as happily ever after,. However reality of life does come in and often will drop lots of stress upon your marriage.
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February 20, 2025 at 7:23 PM
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Valentines is here what are you going to do slow your wife how much you appreciate her? #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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5 Fun Last Minute Valentines Day Ideas
It sometimes helps when we can get a good example of some valentines day activities that will help you have more romantic eventing.
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February 12, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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Why are you waiting to have a better relationship? Start trying to make it better. #mansmind #manscommunity #relaxedmale #podcast

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Stop Waiting Around and Just Do It - EP 261
Why is it so hard to make the changes in our life that we want? Why is our mind stopping us from having success? This is a fixable solution, heres how.
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February 6, 2025 at 1:45 PM
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Nice guys want to be accepted but they being so much pain into their own life. If they relaxed and allowed others to feel their own emotions they would have more of what they actually want. #niceguysyndrome #mansmind #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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Nice Guys Create Roommate Syndrome
Nice Guys bring lots of different problems to a relationship. One of the more damaging is the passionless Roommate Syndrome that many couples face.
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February 5, 2025 at 3:08 PM
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Probably one of the most powerful statements I have heard in a very long time. #relaxedmale #manscommunity #relationshipadvice #relationshipquotes
February 4, 2025 at 2:53 PM
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You and your wife are a couple but you are both individuals too. How do you maintain your individuality? Why do you want to still be an individual? #podcast #manscommunity #relationshipadvice #relaxedmale

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How do you maintain individual identities in a relationship?
Codependency relationships struggle with finding joy and fulfillment. Yet if you are able to differentiate your relationship...
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January 30, 2025 at 4:07 PM
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Jealousy is one of those emotions that that feels useful but causes more pain than connection. So why do we feel the need to act that way? #mansmind #manscommunity #relaxedmale

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How do you handle jealousy in a relationship?
The emotions we face are often big in their own ways some serve us in wonderful ways while other don’t. Jealousy doesn’t help at all.
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January 29, 2025 at 4:25 PM