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「當時應該」這個說法則具有暗示性,充滿了罪惡感和羞恥。反芻思考者在回顧事件或一系列事件時,往往會想著自己當時該怎麼做,反而忽視了自己當時的正向行為。

不過,如果你說的是「我當時應該點乳酪醬搭配貝果」,則毋須糾正,因為這種「當時應該」是無傷大雅的。你自我對話的語境和語調,透露了你的自我關係(selfrelationship)的許多部分。
October 9, 2025 at 11:47 AM
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May 9, 2025 at 5:45 PM