#strongwilled
My new book all about this is called STRONGWILLED and I am publishing it chapter by chapter on Substack if you want to take a look! open.substack.com/pub/strongwi...
STRONGWILLED | Krispin Mayfield | Substack
Reclaiming autonomy and exploring the long-terms impacts of religious authoritarian parenting. Click to read STRONGWILLED, a Substack publication with thousands of subscribers.
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November 13, 2024 at 3:47 PM
If you want to hear me talk about the process of shopping a book (demoralizing) and finally signing a contract (exciting) we talk about it all on our newest STRONGWILLED patreon only episode! www.patreon.com/strongwilled...
Book News, Failed Series Ideas and More! | STRONGWILLED
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September 28, 2026 at 8:18 PM
softhearted, yet strongwilled. ♡

♡ #dynamisbloom ♡ #ffxivgpose ♡ #gposers ♡ #gpose ♡
December 13, 2024 at 5:26 AM
bluesky doesn’t have drafts cause it separates the weak from the strongwilled post now or never
November 20, 2024 at 7:03 AM
Since most abusers are not strangers but rather trusted community figures, it takes a very strong will to have the courage to speak up and say, “This beloved community member hurt me.” In other words, strongwilled children are child protection.
Strongwilled Children Are Child Protection
We need spiritual child protection, not just physical child protection.
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September 24, 2025 at 7:45 PM
Hi! My current project is called STRONGWILLED and it’s for ppl who grew up with religious authoritarian parenting methods (think Dr Dobson). Building autonomy and finding solidarity is SO important right now. open.substack.com/pub/strongwi...
STRONGWILLED | Krispin Mayfield | Substack
Reclaiming autonomy and exploring the long-terms impacts of religious authoritarian parenting. Click to read STRONGWILLED, a Substack publication with thousands of subscribers.
open.substack.com
February 8, 2025 at 8:56 PM
I’m backstage at a fetish contest reading the Strongwilled Child, which is a sentence I don’t think has ever been said before
April 4, 2026 at 12:12 AM
Yeah, completely agree. Everything drifts to either “the will of a strongwilled minister” or “the department’s house wisdoms”.
September 19, 2026 at 2:57 PM
I don't really have the energy or emotional bandwidth to turn STRONGWILLED into a traditionally published book but then sometimes I remember Tim LaHaye published like 170+ books spewing his violent, patriarchal, authoritarian views and I'm like . . . huh. Maybe I can dig deep and try.
May 2, 2025 at 9:31 PM
having a pigeon and a parrot is so funny bc the pigeon is a strongwilled weed growing on a sidewalk while the parrot is a crying houseplant (i love my birds)
September 16, 2026 at 8:26 PM
Since most abusers are not strangers but rather trusted community figures, it takes a very strong will to have the courage to speak up and say, “This beloved community member hurt me.” In other words, strongwilled children are child protection.
Strongwilled Children Are Child Protection
We need spiritual child protection, not just physical child protection.
rlstollar.com
August 24, 2025 at 2:03 AM
The punishment and control of children is the backbone of Christian fascism. So why don’t we talk about this more? open.substack.com/pub/strongwi...
November 14, 2024 at 3:47 PM
Long live Star Wars. Kudos to Kathy for being strongwilled for this project. Huge applause to Tony and everyone worked so hard in Andor.
May 14, 2025 at 2:00 PM
To celebrate the one-year anniversary of James Dobson's death, I recorded a podcast all about his mentor and boss, Paul Popenoe. Shit gets real deep and real weird -- and it's like Project 2025, but in 1930s American Klan style. Support my work and listen in here: www.patreon.com/strongwilled...
A Deep Dive on James Dobson's Mentor, Eugenicist Paul Popenoe | STRONGWILLED
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September 7, 2026 at 3:55 PM
We have the MOST validating STRONGWILLED podcast episode ever for exvangelicals coming out on Monday with Talia Lavin. It's like a little treat in the midst of all the horrors.
March 15, 2025 at 2:52 PM
Commandant Eric Lambert:
Handsome. Steadfast. Chewable. Traumatized. Pathetic. Strongwilled. Selfless. Placid. Broken. Cute.
November 22, 2024 at 6:59 AM
Absolutely. I’ve been working on a project showing how the punishment and control of children is essential to Christian authoritarianism : open.substack.com/pub/strongwi...
STRONGWILLED | Krispin Mayfield | Substack
Reclaiming autonomy and exploring the long-terms impacts of religious authoritarian parenting. Click to read STRONGWILLED, a Substack publication with thousands of subscribers.
open.substack.com
November 14, 2024 at 3:45 PM
I think this is one of the most under-expored topics when it comes to unpacking how Christian nationalists got into power in the US. And that's why I created my STRONGWILLED project -- helping people see how powerful parenting methods are (and how to heal): www.strongwilledproject.com
STRONGWILLED
Recovering Autonomy after Religious Authoritarian Parenting
www.strongwilledproject.com
April 19, 2026 at 2:52 PM
And for all things related to understanding and recovering from religious authoritarian parenting methods, subscribe to STRONGWILLED: open.substack.com/pub/strongwi...
STRONGWILLED | Krispin Mayfield | Substack
Reclaiming autonomy and exploring the long-terms impacts of religious authoritarian parenting. Click to read STRONGWILLED, a Substack publication with thousands of subscribers.
open.substack.com
December 20, 2024 at 3:42 PM
In my research for my book, unmasking god, I came across the Strongwilled project by @dlmayfield.bsky.social, found here: tinyurl.com/3jknxwrd. I am finding a lot of healing and validation reading thru it.

Hopefully you do too.

#BookSky #ReadingSky #Exvangelical #AuthorSky #2Spirit
What Is STRONGWILLED?
STRONGWILLED is a multimedia project that focuses on the personal and political impacts of Religious Authoritarian Parenting. Since the 1970s, the religious authoritarian movement has been gaining mo...
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April 11, 2026 at 9:40 PM
Thank you for the shout-out, but "Strongwilled"—an excellent series, indeed!—is created by @dlmayfield.bsky.social and @krispinmayfield.bsky.social, not me! I have contributed to and been interviewed in the series, though!
Interview with R.L. Stollar
a conversation about creating safer communities for children
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January 26, 2026 at 2:26 AM
As @dlmayfield.bsky.social and @krispinmayfield.bsky.social have documented in their excellent "Strongwilled" multimedia series (strongwilled.substack.com), evangelical leaders knew the research on child abuse and child protection decades ago but still blamed queer and other marginalized people.
January 4, 2026 at 1:52 AM
Celebrating the small but meaningful milestone of having 4,000 subscribers to our project on religious authoritarian parenting methods called STRONGWILLED. We are working towards transitioning away from Substack but I am grateful for the slow, intentional growth we have achieved.
July 27, 2025 at 2:22 PM
We are shopping a book proposal and putting out a reader survey soon, today is a great day to check out STRONGWILLED (no longer on substack) and subscribe! www.strongwilledproject.com
STRONGWILLED
Recovering Autonomy after Religious Authoritarian Parenting
www.strongwilledproject.com
April 15, 2026 at 11:42 PM
We’re celebrating one year of the STRONGWILLED project today. Krispin and I are so incredibly grateful for the audience we have cultivated — cycle breakers who are processing the pain of authoritarian childhoods are truly the people that give me hope for the future. open.substack.com/pub/strongwi...
One Year of STRONGWILLED!
A celebration, and a look forward
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April 7, 2025 at 1:52 PM