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Amy (she/her)
@bitter-optimist.bsky.social
Library nerd, love cooking shows, widow, middle-aged, mom of a teen (Kiddo on here), emoji over-user, random, kinda boring. 🫠
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zofran should be an otc medication and i will die on this hell
June 18, 2026 at 9:08 PM
I never post over here, but I’m screaming into the void out of sheer desperation. My 15yo cat is extremely sick & I don’t know if he’s going to pull through. I desperately miss my husband and my mom. I can’t stand the idea of losing the cat. (1/3)
May 20, 2026 at 1:18 PM
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abusive treatment by medical professionals is already a huge problem for marginalized people, especially trans people and trans kids. this is going to make it so so much worse because abusive doctors are going to know for a fact that the supreme court of the united states has their backs
March 31, 2026 at 2:45 PM
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it's actually crazy that ketanji brown jackson has to go to work alongside these freaks
Jackson, from the bench, says the majority's decision is "wrong as a matter of precedent, first principles, and history."
March 31, 2026 at 2:17 PM
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"To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now." - Fred Rogers

In loving memory of the beloved and forever impactful Emmy/Grammy-winning television icon, minister, advocate, and pillar of true human decency on his 98th birthday.
March 21, 2026 at 7:26 AM
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COMMENTARY: For communities looking to move on from honors for Cesar Chavez, Dolores Huerta is right there. She's always been right there.
March 19, 2026 at 2:56 AM
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it's 2016: north carolina introduces a bill to ban trans people from using bathrooms safely. there's a national outcry; companies withdraw business up to and including the NCAA cancelling a publicized game. the bill fails.

it's 2026: kansas passes a law nullifying trans people's licenses. crickets.
February 26, 2026 at 4:06 AM
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THINK ABOUT IT - dashare.zone ADMIN
February 17, 2026 at 11:39 PM
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That time of year again!
December 26, 2025 at 8:09 PM
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May Jacob Tierney have the privilege of having every beverage placed to his lips be the perfect temperature. Thank you Jacob Tierney. I love you Jacob Tierney.
December 19, 2025 at 6:12 AM
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Teen Vogue eliminated all their Black and trans staff today.

It's resegregation in real time.
today’s information came out piecemeal, and people should be able to share their own situations on their own time, but I could share this much ^ as it is pretty cut and dry on the facts.

Teen Vogue also no longer has any trans staffers as of today.
November 4, 2025 at 12:39 AM
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Donors have raised $30,000 for Weld Food Bank in one hour. Amazing. Thank you. Even $5 helps: weldfoodbank.org/wordofthanks/
October 30, 2025 at 1:20 AM
Does anyone know of a small shop that has hummingbird stained glass? I’ve looked on Etsy, but most of it feels mass produced and I don’t want that. Thanks!
October 20, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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YOU MUST MAINTAIN YOUR STRENGTH AND POWER! TAKE YOUR MEDICATIONS.
October 16, 2025 at 1:43 AM
FYI: if you are in one of the outer rings of grief, you do not get to expect those in the inner rings to manage your grief or comfort you. Get grief counseling or something and leave me alone.
Ring theory - www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/prom...
Ring Theory Helps Us Bring Comfort In
A simple way to understand where you are in a crisis.
www.psychologytoday.com
October 11, 2025 at 11:31 PM
Started and stopped this a few times. Mostly lurk around these parts, but sharing anyway b/c I need to get it out. My Mom died suddenly yesterday. I am heartbroken and hurting so much both for me and my teen. It’s just not fair that they’ve lost 2 of their most important people before 18.
September 29, 2025 at 1:00 AM
Kidney stone 2.0 being kicked to the curb today. Send a good my thought my way!
September 16, 2025 at 2:51 PM
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Which work? Calling for gay people to be stoned to death? Blaming airplane crashes on black pilots? Anti-vax bullshit? Election denialism? Pushing Great Replacement Theory?

Kirk’s murder is awful and ominous for this country. But no, we don’t need to honor him or “continue his work.”
September 11, 2025 at 1:32 AM
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don't think it's a good thing to have a society this highly armed and this unstable
September 10, 2025 at 8:37 PM
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September 6, 2025 at 12:59 AM
My downstairs neighbor is trying to shove a fully inflated air mattress into the back of his hatchback.
And now we all understand how he almost burned down the apartment building a while back.
September 3, 2025 at 12:13 AM
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See? This shit is why I'm not going to let up on Newsom or other transphobic Democrats: they might otherwise go the Labour route and plunge the country into full on transphobia as policy.
Keir Starmer here sinking to new lows in my estimation
September 2, 2025 at 6:39 PM
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Someone please kill me right now.
September 1, 2025 at 5:20 PM