Also, viewing a person enjoying their hobbies in public as performative is screaming chronically-online loser behavior. Go outside and touch grass.

If don't know me, you don't know that one of my best friends died because her abuser decided that if he can't have her nobody can. People close to me had to fight for years to get away from violent men. Been SA'd. Stalked. I am also a survivor. Nobody is excused from associating with abusers.

That's why I made the swap too. I love being able to personalize it and and the transition isn't full of blank pages. It's much more enjoyable to keep hobonichi to scheduling and memos. Sometimes I still add a few photos, stickers, and memories in but it isn't the main journal. haha

Ohhh, I love hobonichi planners. I've been using midori for the past couple years for my journaling and love that. more freedom to make whatever spread i want without buying a new journal.

I looked up their actual romantasy pick and it's a solid DNF to 2 star right now lmao Truly should've sent them this one.