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Stolas

@stolassinlactosa.bsky.social

He vuelto de viaje con muchas ganas y motivación para hacer cosas. Podré aprovecharlas o pasaré a estar todo el día en la cama? Quien sabe

August 8, 2026 at 7:46 AM

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Spiggi

@spiggitzfan.bsky.social

I smell U have French fries. I too like French fries.

August 8, 2026 at 3:24 AM

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Rick CarBOOso’s Private Fire Crew

@amandasmith.bsky.social

I think my biggest Old Person complaint is that we don’t need that many data centers because, quite frankly, not everything needs to be In The Cloud. This isn’t 2015 anymore, I can buy a 2tb thumb drive, there’s no reason I need to save my entire documents folder to a server, Microsoft.

August 8, 2026 at 12:41 AM

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Brett "Solidarity 2026" Banditelli

@banditelli.org

Sometimes I see something in nature and then spend the next several years waiting for the shot.

Sometimes I never get it.

Sometimes you see it and a week later you land it:

I give you tonight's murder of crows in front of the sunset. 🪶

August 8, 2026 at 4:38 AM

Stolas

@stolassinlactosa.bsky.social

Abandoné valencia ya y dejé atrás a un montón de gente guay. Ojalá poder verles pronto again :(

August 7, 2026 at 9:39 PM

Stolas

@stolassinlactosa.bsky.social

Estoy borrache pregunten cosas y respondo 0 filtros 100% real

June 13, 2026 at 9:19 PM

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actually madeleine is the scientist🏳️‍⚧️🇵🇸🦇

@webway.bsky.social

born too late to succumb to sea madness
too early to succumb to space madness

July 9, 2025 at 2:56 PM

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stuart

@stuartp.bsky.social

a lot of people are asking me questions already answered by

July 9, 2025 at 10:35 AM

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Game Changer

@gamechanger.dropout.tv

Thank you, can I have aNOTHER?!

#GameChanger

July 9, 2025 at 5:00 PM

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SEM

@thesem.bsky.social

Magic has been hanging out on my bed lately, perhaps he likes me again. Also a girl (Kahlotus) in the sun on the sill

Magic, a brown tabby, loafing on my bed.

Kahlotus, a brown tabby with white markings, sitting on my windowsill in the sun.

July 9, 2025 at 7:32 PM

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Kaitlin Kal Lee

@kaitlinkallee.bsky.social

Remember : Epstein’s victims have already told us the names of the men who had done a lot of these crimes, we know there’s a list, we know this is a cover up.

July 9, 2025 at 12:36 AM

Stolas

@stolassinlactosa.bsky.social

AskAubry 🦝 🐆 @ask-aubry.com · Jul 9

It's wild how many people thought it was about the sandwich.

Same people "the divorce came out of no where".

r/Marriage u/Newshoesforthewin 9h

A sandwich made me realize I want a divorce

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I was completely exhausted the other day. I've been going through a difficult time with a personal matter, also deep in the throes of perimenopause. I didn't cook dinner so when my husband got home from work he made himself a sandwich. He made one for me too. He made me a sandwich he knows very well I wouldn't eat. The bread was hard and it was dry as fuck. It was in that moment that I saw the big picture. I realized that, should I ever not be able to care for myself, the level of care I would receive from him would be based solely on his willingness or unwillingness to make an effort and not on my actual needs. I asked him, "Why would you make me a sandwich you know I won't eat and act like you did something kind?" I asked him if he would think it was kind of me to make him a pot of beans (he gags at the thought of them) and serve it to him. The worst part is, he could have literally just added mayo

NothingUpstairs4957 8h

Same scenario the other day in a healthy relationship

Wife comes home completely exhausted

Job, her mom is in the hospital and her hormones are out of wack

I made a sandwich for her and me

She says thank you and ask me if i can get the mayo and mustard out the fridge

I oblige and kiss her on the forehead

We sit down and eat and finish watching squid games

GarbageTimely3826

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Good luck in the rest of your journey

It's not about the ability to ask for something. It's not even really about the sandwich. It's about your partner knowing and caring enough about your wants and needs that you don't have to. I know my husband hates condiments. If I always ignored getting his food plain, at some point it becomes malicious.

GarbageTimely3826 8h

It's not about the sandwich, it's about being seen.

StupidFlanders2017 8h

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GarbageTimely3826 8h

That's ridiculous. Communication is key. Silently hoping for mayo is not communication.

After years together, knowing how your partner likes something shouldn't need to be communicated. If I made a burger for my husband I'd know it needs to be plain or I'd ask hey do you want bacon jam? Because I know him. He doesn't need to communicate those small things anymore.

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69iloveyou 8h

Some people don't deserve their husbands and it shows.

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mani_mani 8h

Seems like a lot of people need to read the HuffPost article that gets passed around all the time.

It's not that she couldn't ask for mayo or he made her a shitty sandwich one time. It's that the shitty sandwich made her realize that it's a symbol of how he shows up for their relationship. He regularly doesn't give her the same care and attentiveness that she gives him. In return for his knowingly haphazard attempts, he expects praise.

Sure my husband has sometimes made dinner a bit on the spicier side knowing that it's a toss up if I could handle the spice. But because he puts care and kindness in all other aspects of our relationship, it's not a big deal for me to fix my portion to an acceptable level of spice. It's not like I'm an after thought, he made a calculation and got it wrong.

That's how this would go down differently in a marriage built on mutual kindness and respect. A comment said "so you would rather be alone and have someone to not take care of you". Wh

July 10, 2025 at 5:25 AM

Stolas

@stolassinlactosa.bsky.social

No sé qué hacer hoy, no tengo (casi) nada qué hacer :(

July 10, 2025 at 5:11 AM

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Roxanne

@roxroxanne.bsky.social

Como olvidar uno de mis mayores highlights en la industria de los jueguitos (yo soy una de las personas a las que se refieren en ese comentario por aceptar una invitación a un podcast LGTB+ con relación con los videojuegos)

July 9, 2025 at 5:20 PM

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Elliot 🫪

@nameoftheyear.bsky.social

crazy that i’ve known abt Uma Musume for years but nobody ever said the magic words: “It’s like if Princess Maker were a roguelike”

I would have been hooked in 2021 dude. Now in 2025 I have to stay away cuz I have dangerously little time to be sucked into one of these, lol

July 10, 2025 at 1:26 AM

Stolas

@stolassinlactosa.bsky.social

Buenos días a quien los merezca

July 10, 2025 at 5:09 AM

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zombie jacki

@jacki.bsky.social

My hydrangeas are thriving in their second season.

July 8, 2025 at 11:39 PM

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Dr. Lucky Tran

@luckytran.com

BREAKING: Scientists are staging a “science fair” in the lobby of a Congressional building to tell elected officials about the critical knowledge the US will lose because their research grants have been canceled.