2,000 yrs of ruining people's sex lives should disallow tax exemptions to Christian churches. Jesus didn't say a word about #BirthControl, #abortion, #QueerSex, #SoloSex or #zoophilia. Time to protect women & sexual minorities from #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
September 27, 2026 at 4:51 PM
2,000 yrs of ruining people's sex lives should disallow tax exemptions to Christian churches. Jesus didn't say a word about #BirthControl, #abortion, #QueerSex, #SoloSex or #zoophilia. Time to protect women & sexual minorities from #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
This led to more people lying about their sex lives & true personal beliefs to keep the roofs over their heads. His new #AgeOfIntolerance created millennia of #SexualShame & social hypocrisy in which people condemn others for behaviors very like their own. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
December 26, 2025 at 3:45 PM
This led to more people lying about their sex lives & true personal beliefs to keep the roofs over their heads. His new #AgeOfIntolerance created millennia of #SexualShame & social hypocrisy in which people condemn others for behaviors very like their own. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
DYK medieval priests used #penitentials during confession to instill #SexualShame in all Catholics? They would ask every man if he ever had #OralSex w/ another man & then ask him whether or not he had swallowed the semen.
April 26, 2026 at 2:46 PM
DYK medieval priests used #penitentials during confession to instill #SexualShame in all Catholics? They would ask every man if he ever had #OralSex w/ another man & then ask him whether or not he had swallowed the semen.
A new psychology paper examines how sexual shame—shaped by biological, psychological, and cultural factors—reduces arousal, desire, and overall sexual functioning in women, proposing a theoretical model linking these factors… #SexualShame #WomensIntimacy #SexualHealth #Psychology #WomenEmpowerment
Sexual shame: A hidden barrier to women’s intimacy and fulfillment
A new psychology paper examines how sexual shame—shaped by biological, psychological, and cultural factors—reduces arousal, desire, and overall sexual functioning in women, proposing a theoretical model linking these factors to negative sexual outcomes.
www.psypost.org
February 14, 2025 at 7:04 PM
A new psychology paper examines how sexual shame—shaped by biological, psychological, and cultural factors—reduces arousal, desire, and overall sexual functioning in women, proposing a theoretical model linking these factors… #SexualShame #WomensIntimacy #SexualHealth #Psychology #WomenEmpowerment
2,000 yrs of ruining people's sex lives should disallow tax exemptions to Christian churches. #Jesus didn't say a word about #BirthControl, #abortion, #QueerSex, #SoloSex or #zoophilia. Time to protect women & sexual minorities from #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
May 5, 2026 at 3:55 PM
2,000 yrs of ruining people's sex lives should disallow tax exemptions to Christian churches. #Jesus didn't say a word about #BirthControl, #abortion, #QueerSex, #SoloSex or #zoophilia. Time to protect women & sexual minorities from #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
WHY DO I HATE DEEP DARK DARKROOMS for #gaycruising? Let a few lines from my #poem, "Deep Dark: Stranger Danger" give just ONE reason...
Don’t hide
The wear on our faces
Or the sanity in our eyes
But also don’t hide the blisters and sores
That are born from STIs
www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Um8TSJ/
Don’t hide
The wear on our faces
Or the sanity in our eyes
But also don’t hide the blisters and sores
That are born from STIs
www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Um8TSJ/
Why deep dark #bakcrooms in #gaybars are NOT a good thing. #gay #gaycommunity #STIs #selfloathing #sexualliberation #sexualshame #poet #poetry #poem
TikTok video by LeNair Xavier
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November 30, 2025 at 11:07 PM
WHY DO I HATE DEEP DARK DARKROOMS for #gaycruising? Let a few lines from my #poem, "Deep Dark: Stranger Danger" give just ONE reason...
Don’t hide
The wear on our faces
Or the sanity in our eyes
But also don’t hide the blisters and sores
That are born from STIs
www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Um8TSJ/
Don’t hide
The wear on our faces
Or the sanity in our eyes
But also don’t hide the blisters and sores
That are born from STIs
www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8Um8TSJ/
DYK #EmperorConstantine & his Council at Nicea gave us the #AgeOfIntolerance in 325? All non-#Catholics became homeless slaves, & #SoloSex/#fornication/sex outside marriage became sins & crimes & young & old began to lie about sex. Blog9 HowSexGotScrewedUp.com #SexualShame
July 4, 2026 at 4:38 PM
DYK #EmperorConstantine & his Council at Nicea gave us the #AgeOfIntolerance in 325? All non-#Catholics became homeless slaves, & #SoloSex/#fornication/sex outside marriage became sins & crimes & young & old began to lie about sex. Blog9 HowSexGotScrewedUp.com #SexualShame
Purity culture exposure linked to higher sexual shame in trauma survivors #Science #HealthandMedicine #MentalHealth #PurityCulture #SexualShame #TraumaSurvivors
https://www.psypost.org/purity-culture-exposure-linked-to-higher-sexual-shame-in-trauma-survivors/
https://www.psypost.org/purity-culture-exposure-linked-to-higher-sexual-shame-in-trauma-survivors/
Purity culture exposure linked to higher sexual shame in trauma survivors
New research shows that childhood exposure to Evangelical purity culture is associated with greater sexual shame for survivors of sexual abuse. The findings highlight how strict religious sexual ethics relate to a survivor’s psychological recovery.
www.psypost.org
May 21, 2026 at 12:35 PM
Purity culture exposure linked to higher sexual shame in trauma survivors #Science #HealthandMedicine #MentalHealth #PurityCulture #SexualShame #TraumaSurvivors
https://www.psypost.org/purity-culture-exposure-linked-to-higher-sexual-shame-in-trauma-survivors/
https://www.psypost.org/purity-culture-exposure-linked-to-higher-sexual-shame-in-trauma-survivors/
“I live freely and true to myself. It’s just hard to come out of the sexual shame.”
Have you worked through lingering sexual shame from past beliefs? What helped you heal?
Video: https://youtu.be/DP1oqgw1UNU
Support: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
#RfR #HealingJourney #SexualShame
Have you worked through lingering sexual shame from past beliefs? What helped you heal?
Video: https://youtu.be/DP1oqgw1UNU
Support: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
#RfR #HealingJourney #SexualShame
December 11, 2025 at 10:03 PM
“I live freely and true to myself. It’s just hard to come out of the sexual shame.”
Have you worked through lingering sexual shame from past beliefs? What helped you heal?
Video: https://youtu.be/DP1oqgw1UNU
Support: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
#RfR #HealingJourney #SexualShame
Have you worked through lingering sexual shame from past beliefs? What helped you heal?
Video: https://youtu.be/DP1oqgw1UNU
Support: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
#RfR #HealingJourney #SexualShame
Sexual shame isn't just about sex.
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
July 5, 2026 at 8:00 AM
Sexual shame isn't just about sex.
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
DYK #KKKristians who want God in gov’t may not have satisfying sex lives? Their doctrine (any kind of #SexPlay, except marital coitus, is sinful) disrespects the real world. Folks who have great sex, aren’t that sort of #Christian. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com #HistSex #SexualShame
November 15, 2025 at 4:42 PM
DYK #KKKristians who want God in gov’t may not have satisfying sex lives? Their doctrine (any kind of #SexPlay, except marital coitus, is sinful) disrespects the real world. Folks who have great sex, aren’t that sort of #Christian. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com #HistSex #SexualShame
DYK the fear of non-believers & sexual non-conformists began to reach fever pitch in 1095? Pope #UrbanII called for a war against the Muslims to free the Christians in Jerusalem from their occupation. He used #SexualShame to inflame the Christian world against them. #HistSex
May 22, 2026 at 3:43 PM
DYK the fear of non-believers & sexual non-conformists began to reach fever pitch in 1095? Pope #UrbanII called for a war against the Muslims to free the Christians in Jerusalem from their occupation. He used #SexualShame to inflame the Christian world against them. #HistSex
DYK the fear of non-believers & sexual non-conformists began to reach fever pitch in 1095? Pope #UrbanII called for a war against the #Muslims to free the Christians in Jerusalem from their occupation. He used #SexualShame to inflame the Christian world against them. #HistSex
August 1, 2026 at 3:55 PM
DYK the fear of non-believers & sexual non-conformists began to reach fever pitch in 1095? Pope #UrbanII called for a war against the #Muslims to free the Christians in Jerusalem from their occupation. He used #SexualShame to inflame the Christian world against them. #HistSex
DYK one the most famous slogans of “deep penetration” advertising, which exploited sexual insecurity, was “I dreamed I stopped traffic in my Maidenform Bra”? It came out in 1949, ran for 20 years, & made breast size very important.
Ghosts of #WmnHist still haunt. #SexualShame
Ghosts of #WmnHist still haunt. #SexualShame
March 9, 2026 at 2:51 PM
DYK one the most famous slogans of “deep penetration” advertising, which exploited sexual insecurity, was “I dreamed I stopped traffic in my Maidenform Bra”? It came out in 1949, ran for 20 years, & made breast size very important.
Ghosts of #WmnHist still haunt. #SexualShame
Ghosts of #WmnHist still haunt. #SexualShame
DYK in Catholic colonies, #SexualShame was private & developed in the confessional, the use of which spread rapidly in the 17thC? Catholics had to confess all their #MortalSins at least once a year during Lent. The church refused to bury anyone who died w/o confessing them.
September 16, 2026 at 4:02 PM
DYK in Catholic colonies, #SexualShame was private & developed in the confessional, the use of which spread rapidly in the 17thC? Catholics had to confess all their #MortalSins at least once a year during Lent. The church refused to bury anyone who died w/o confessing them.
The priest helped women & men do that. So people confessed many times during the year as a hedge against dying before their obligatory confession during Lent. Ghosts of #QueerHistory still haunt our #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
September 16, 2026 at 4:02 PM
The priest helped women & men do that. So people confessed many times during the year as a hedge against dying before their obligatory confession during Lent. Ghosts of #QueerHistory still haunt our #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
September 11, 2026 at 4:38 PM
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
September 9, 2026 at 5:39 PM
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
August 10, 2026 at 2:47 PM
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
#Aquinas fathered our #SexMyths, #taboos, & #SexualShame. He, #Augustine & #AlbertTheGreat are responsible for the church's teaching on sex: All bullshit that makes millions of us shameful about our sex lives. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com #bestiality #fornication #QueerHistory #SoloSex
August 8, 2026 at 3:33 PM
#Aquinas fathered our #SexMyths, #taboos, & #SexualShame. He, #Augustine & #AlbertTheGreat are responsible for the church's teaching on sex: All bullshit that makes millions of us shameful about our sex lives. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com #bestiality #fornication #QueerHistory #SoloSex
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
August 8, 2026 at 3:33 PM
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
August 8, 2026 at 3:29 PM
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
Sexual shame isn't just about sex.
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
July 26, 2026 at 4:00 PM
Sexual shame isn't just about sex.
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
It's the feeling that who you are — what you want, how you're wired — is too much. Too wrong.
It didn't start in the bedroom. It started much earlier.
#gaymen #sexualshame #lgbtq
2,000 yrs of ruining people's sex lives should disallow tax exemptions to Christian churches. #Jesus didn't say a word about #BirthControl, #abortion, #QueerSex, #SoloSex or #zoophilia. Time to protect women & sexual minorities from #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
July 18, 2026 at 4:18 PM
2,000 yrs of ruining people's sex lives should disallow tax exemptions to Christian churches. #Jesus didn't say a word about #BirthControl, #abortion, #QueerSex, #SoloSex or #zoophilia. Time to protect women & sexual minorities from #SexualShame. HowSexGotScrewedUp.com
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.
July 18, 2026 at 4:18 PM
#SexualShame, church-induced or not, may lead to depression, deep anxiety, & low self-esteem. It may also block healthy intimacy. Shamed people may avoid touch, become numb, or push away loved ones. Ghosts of church doctrine still haunt.