#TdoR
Finishing up the orders of service for our two TDoR services, which is great, cathartic, remember the dead, cry out for justice, etc...

But this does mean that I've got to go and dig out the list of names and format it so it can be read out, and that's always an incredibly depressing job.
November 3, 2026 at 9:17 AM
On Trans Day of Remembrance (TDoR), we remember not only the hundreds of Trans+ people confirmed to have been murdered as a result of transphobia, but also those whose deaths authorities have attempted to conceal, ignore or erase

Rest in Power Jhené 🕯
St. Louis police covered up trans woman Jhené Audrict’s killing by intentionally dismissing her death as a suicide, forcing her grieving mother to fight for the truth. Now, new autopsy findings have challenged the suicide ruling, and the death of the 21-year-old is being investigated as a homicide.
November 4, 2026 at 8:14 PM
I will file that one away (we do do TDoR in college but it’s student led - might pass it on as a suggestion, though)
November 3, 2026 at 10:18 AM
sorry but TDOR does not inspire me to love & forgive those that kill us
November 3, 2026 at 10:48 AM
🕯️ TDOR EVENT 🕯️

Rally for Trans Day of Remembrance
Friday, November 20, 2026
4:00 - 6:00 PM, BC Legislative Bld.
501 Belleville St., Victoria, BC

#trans #transgender #transdayofremembrance #tdor #yyj #yyjevents
November 5, 2026 at 8:39 PM
ok cracking open the mutual aid doc bc i wanna hit the ground running with it after i get back from the bay and especially after tdor because oh my god we need to be organizing to take care of each other so desperately right now especially where i live. shits about to get so bad here.
November 4, 2026 at 2:35 PM
Preliminary versions of TDoR 2026 resources (e.g. namelist, slides, & memorial cards) are now available from:

tdor.translivesmatter.info/pages/downlo...

Note that there are several additional cases (including one in the US and at least two in the UK) still to be added.
Remembering Our Dead - Downloads
This site memorialises trans people who have passed away, as a supporting resource for the Trans Day of Remembrance (TDoR).
tdor.translivesmatter.info
November 5, 2026 at 10:12 PM
Please do steal the idea if you ever find yourself doing something for TDoR.

It's quite possibly my favourite collect, and I'm so mad that we almost never use or hear it because it's for the 26th of December when everyone is exhausted.
November 3, 2026 at 9:26 AM
This month we are raising funds for THORN, the Trans Hookers Resistance Network. Last year, we refrained from organising any commemoration for Trans Day of Remembrance (TDoR), in accordance with the statement we issued.
November 5, 2026 at 7:37 PM
I want to thank you dearly because I searched a way to express, in a speech for tdor I know I'm gonna do near a lot of cis people, how we are not an other in the othered group
November 2, 2026 at 8:46 AM
TDoR is Friday 20 November this year
Finishing up the orders of service for our two TDoR services, which is great, cathartic, remember the dead, cry out for justice, etc...

But this does mean that I've got to go and dig out the list of names and format it so it can be read out, and that's always an incredibly depressing job.
November 3, 2026 at 9:56 AM
i am currently unsure of if i will open submissions for my annual tdor ritual up to mutuals as a whole because dear god i got so many submissions last year but if ur a trans woman and we've talked in DMs before and you're interested pls feel free to hit me up for details.
November 3, 2026 at 8:44 PM
And International Trans Awareness Month!
🔗: spectrumcenter.umich.edu/transgender-..., which leads up to Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDoR) on 20th of November.
🔗: calendar.ucsf.edu/event/transg...
Transgender Awareness Month | Spectrum Center
spectrumcenter.umich.edu
November 3, 2026 at 1:55 AM
For I truly believe, that every trans suicide, is a murder in every other form and function of the word. A world so full of hate for us, drives so many of us to see no other option, but to leave it.

And we do not remember their names each year at TDOR, and it breaks my heart every time.
Transgender Pride Flag Waving
ALT: Transgender Pride Flag Waving
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November 2, 2026 at 8:15 PM
New York City stands against transphobia and violence.

On Thursday, November 19, join us for a powerful Transgender Day of Remembrance gathering, “Remembrance to Action, Loss to Legacy.”

RSVP for TDOR: TDOR2026.eventbrite.com
November 4, 2026 at 10:32 PM
A small relief for me as I am also putting together our TDOr Oos is there are less names than last year. I hope you find the same
November 3, 2026 at 12:44 PM
I almost always include the Collect for St Stephen's Day in TDoR services I put together. I just think the phrase "all our sufferings for the truth" resonates massively with the desire from trans people to just live our lives truthfully, even amidst the hatred the world gives because of that.
November 3, 2026 at 9:23 AM
In short, we believe that TDoR events in the UK, but particularly Cambridge, tend to neglect those parts of the trans population that are factually most at risk of lethal violence, meaning particularly sex working and racialised trans women and femmes, the exact constituencies that began TDoR.
November 5, 2026 at 7:38 PM
May peace be with you all at this traumatic and painful time of the year.

Please don't be afraid to reach out to others if you are struggling or need a shoulder to cry on.

#SayTheirNames #TransLivesMatter #TDoR #TDoR2026
November 5, 2026 at 10:17 PM
I am doing a service for TDoR for the first time ever in my congregation this year. I'm currently writing it up, and I think I'll borrow your idea for one of my prayers. Thank you, Jay. May God bless you and keep you. ✝️⚓❤️‍🩹
November 3, 2026 at 9:39 AM
Join us on November 20 for a candlelight vigil honoring Transgender Day of Remembrance.

Together, we will honor and remember the transgender people whose lives have been taken by anti-trans violence and recommit ourselves to trans liberation.

lidsa.org/tdor
November 1, 2026 at 6:25 PM
PS. Here's our TDoR statement from last year! toot.cat/@TransLibCam...
Trans Liberation Cambridge (@TransLibCam@toot.cat)
Content warning: TLC's Statement on Trans Day of Remembrance
toot.cat
November 5, 2026 at 7:47 PM
I have been asked to speak at the TDOR flag raising in Toronto on November 20th.
October 30, 2026 at 8:05 PM
Please do not treat this as definitive information - it just represents what I and other researchers I share info with have been able to find, and what others have shared with us.

It also isn't the official TDoR list by the TGEU Trans Murder Monitoring project (that will be out soon).
November 5, 2026 at 10:12 PM
I won't punch you in the mouth but I will remind you that I am a #Transman of color & every #TDOR (Transgender Day of Remembrance), a day where we mourn our dead, I see that most of the victims are Black & Brown people.
They also look like me.
I hope that is enough to make you pause & reflect.
You shouldn't be able to treat "trans" as synonymous with "white" without being punched in the mouth
November 2, 2026 at 3:20 PM