Want your Avoidant partner to open up? Want them to be more vulnerable with you??
If you long for either of those experiences, you really really need to watch this Reel...
#avoidant #relationships #dating #avoidantattachment #relationshipgoals
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If you long for either of those experiences, you really really need to watch this Reel...
#avoidant #relationships #dating #avoidantattachment #relationshipgoals
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November 8, 2026 at 6:14 PM
Want your Avoidant partner to open up? Want them to be more vulnerable with you??
If you long for either of those experiences, you really really need to watch this Reel...
#avoidant #relationships #dating #avoidantattachment #relationshipgoals
www.instagram.com/reel/DffWRQI...
If you long for either of those experiences, you really really need to watch this Reel...
#avoidant #relationships #dating #avoidantattachment #relationshipgoals
www.instagram.com/reel/DffWRQI...
Avoidant attachment can involve discomfort with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and relying on others, while still allowing someone to want meaningful relationships. How do we make space to receive care without withdrawing?
Article: buff.ly/bJuCuwy
#AvoidantAttachment #LivedExperience
Article: buff.ly/bJuCuwy
#AvoidantAttachment #LivedExperience
October 20, 2026 at 10:15 AM
Avoidant attachment can involve discomfort with vulnerability, emotional intimacy and relying on others, while still allowing someone to want meaningful relationships. How do we make space to receive care without withdrawing?
Article: buff.ly/bJuCuwy
#AvoidantAttachment #LivedExperience
Article: buff.ly/bJuCuwy
#AvoidantAttachment #LivedExperience
My @bart.gov train kept starting, stopping, opening, closing its doors. No explanation. When a driver stays silent about their train's erratic behavior, I assume they have unresolved childhood trauma. #avoidantattachment
October 17, 2026 at 8:09 PM
My @bart.gov train kept starting, stopping, opening, closing its doors. No explanation. When a driver stays silent about their train's erratic behavior, I assume they have unresolved childhood trauma. #avoidantattachment
Facts.
Not to be a bitch but if you're still Avoidant in your mid 30s or after and haven't even started trying to heal it then you're a toxic menace and you deserve to be lonely because all you do is hurt people by discarding them out of fear of betrayal when they sincerely cared about you. Grow up.
Not to be a bitch but if you're still Avoidant in your mid 30s or after and haven't even started trying to heal it then you're a toxic menace and you deserve to be lonely because all you do is hurt people by discarding them out of fear of betrayal when they sincerely cared about you. Grow up.
Avoidant attachment is embarrassing #avoidantattachment #avoidant #attachmenttheory
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September 20, 2026 at 8:42 PM
Facts.
Not to be a bitch but if you're still Avoidant in your mid 30s or after and haven't even started trying to heal it then you're a toxic menace and you deserve to be lonely because all you do is hurt people by discarding them out of fear of betrayal when they sincerely cared about you. Grow up.
Not to be a bitch but if you're still Avoidant in your mid 30s or after and haven't even started trying to heal it then you're a toxic menace and you deserve to be lonely because all you do is hurt people by discarding them out of fear of betrayal when they sincerely cared about you. Grow up.
Can an #avoidant love you?
Here I explain:
how Avoidants get triggered,
why they behave the way they do,
and
what helps them realise you are a safe harbour for them - and they can be for you.
#relationships #avoidantattachment #attachment #dating
www.instagram.com/reel/DdYpx47...
Here I explain:
how Avoidants get triggered,
why they behave the way they do,
and
what helps them realise you are a safe harbour for them - and they can be for you.
#relationships #avoidantattachment #attachment #dating
www.instagram.com/reel/DdYpx47...
September 17, 2026 at 10:46 AM
Can an #avoidant love you?
Here I explain:
how Avoidants get triggered,
why they behave the way they do,
and
what helps them realise you are a safe harbour for them - and they can be for you.
#relationships #avoidantattachment #attachment #dating
www.instagram.com/reel/DdYpx47...
Here I explain:
how Avoidants get triggered,
why they behave the way they do,
and
what helps them realise you are a safe harbour for them - and they can be for you.
#relationships #avoidantattachment #attachment #dating
www.instagram.com/reel/DdYpx47...
Anxious attachment often leads people to people-please in relationships to avoid abandonment. They may over-apologize, ignore their own needs, and try to keep peace at any cost to maintain closeness.
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
August 21, 2026 at 5:03 PM
Anxious attachment often leads people to people-please in relationships to avoid abandonment. They may over-apologize, ignore their own needs, and try to keep peace at any cost to maintain closeness.
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
“I just need space.” 💔
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Avoidant Partners Don't Want Space - They Want Safety
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
October 17, 2025 at 3:58 PM
“I just need space.” 💔
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
Sometimes that means emotional safety… sometimes it means emotional distance.
In our new video, we unpack how to tell the difference between healthy space and avoidant stonewalling.
🎥 Watch here → youtu.be/Q9qWn3b3ARY?...
#AvoidantAttachment #Relationships
New video: "Avoidant Attachment's 3 Hidden Parts Exposed"
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
Avoidant Attachment's 3 Hidden Parts Exposed | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
August 2, 2025 at 1:15 AM
New video: "Avoidant Attachment's 3 Hidden Parts Exposed"
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
The Shutdown, Independence & Monitoring Managers that make emotional intensity feel dangerous? They're trying to protect you from childhood overwhelm.
Understanding them changes everything. 💚
youtu.be/8tT5LPYOqEY
#AvoidantAttachment
They say, “This is just how I am.” But you’re the one doing all the emotional labor. If you’re anxiously attached + stuck with someone who won’t grow, our new video is for you.
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
“This Is Just How I Am”: When Avoidant Partners Refuse to Change | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
May 26, 2025 at 8:26 PM
They say, “This is just how I am.” But you’re the one doing all the emotional labor. If you’re anxiously attached + stuck with someone who won’t grow, our new video is for you.
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
Watch here → youtu.be/iTMb3jKJZI0
#avoidantattachment #relationships #selfworth #therapy
New video! 💬
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Why Communication Fails (Especially With Anxious & Avoidant Partners) | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
May 24, 2025 at 12:33 AM
New video! 💬
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Communication fails when emotional safety is missing—especially in anxious-avoidant dynamics.
We share 5 relationship tools that work only if safety comes first.
📺 Watch:👇
youtu.be/2paeAjBnDOQ
#relationships #anxiousattachment #avoidantattachment
Ever feel like no matter how kind or clear you are, your avoidant friend still pulls away? 💔 Our new video explores why “handling” avoidant attachment doesn’t always work—and what to do instead.
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/72_qtpqPonE
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #Friendships
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/72_qtpqPonE
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #Friendships
This Is What Anxious Attachment FEELS Like—Can You Relate? | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
May 2, 2025 at 5:12 PM
Ever feel like no matter how kind or clear you are, your avoidant friend still pulls away? 💔 Our new video explores why “handling” avoidant attachment doesn’t always work—and what to do instead.
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/72_qtpqPonE
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #Friendships
🎥 Watch here: youtu.be/72_qtpqPonE
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #Friendships
Why do avoidant partners pull away just when you get close? 💔
New video: Inside the Avoidant Mind—healing the anxious-avoidant cycle from within.
➔ Watch now: youtu.be/sp2_2ooQZ40
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #HealthyRelationships
New video: Inside the Avoidant Mind—healing the anxious-avoidant cycle from within.
➔ Watch now: youtu.be/sp2_2ooQZ40
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #HealthyRelationships
Why They Pull Away Just When You Get Close (Avoidant Explained) | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
April 28, 2025 at 7:53 PM
Why do avoidant partners pull away just when you get close? 💔
New video: Inside the Avoidant Mind—healing the anxious-avoidant cycle from within.
➔ Watch now: youtu.be/sp2_2ooQZ40
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #HealthyRelationships
New video: Inside the Avoidant Mind—healing the anxious-avoidant cycle from within.
➔ Watch now: youtu.be/sp2_2ooQZ40
#AttachmentStyles #AvoidantAttachment #HealthyRelationships
New video 💚
What if the anxiety in your relationship isn’t insecurity—but your body telling you it’s not compatible?
We explore 4 realizations Emma has with her avoidant partner—& why self-love > false hope.
🎥 Watch: youtu.be/nX27ukUADzk
#AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AnxiousAttachment
What if the anxiety in your relationship isn’t insecurity—but your body telling you it’s not compatible?
We explore 4 realizations Emma has with her avoidant partner—& why self-love > false hope.
🎥 Watch: youtu.be/nX27ukUADzk
#AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AnxiousAttachment
4 Realizations You NEED with an Avoidant Partner | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
April 23, 2025 at 8:42 PM
New video 💚
What if the anxiety in your relationship isn’t insecurity—but your body telling you it’s not compatible?
We explore 4 realizations Emma has with her avoidant partner—& why self-love > false hope.
🎥 Watch: youtu.be/nX27ukUADzk
#AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AnxiousAttachment
What if the anxiety in your relationship isn’t insecurity—but your body telling you it’s not compatible?
We explore 4 realizations Emma has with her avoidant partner—& why self-love > false hope.
🎥 Watch: youtu.be/nX27ukUADzk
#AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #AnxiousAttachment
💔 Can’t let go of your avoidant ex?
In Part 2 of our Healing Hearts series, we break down the anxious-avoidant trap + 5 healing steps that really work.
🎥 Watch now ➡️ youtu.be/x1qgAkAfbtQ
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #relationshipgrowth #traumabond #IFS
In Part 2 of our Healing Hearts series, we break down the anxious-avoidant trap + 5 healing steps that really work.
🎥 Watch now ➡️ youtu.be/x1qgAkAfbtQ
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #relationshipgrowth #traumabond #IFS
5 Steps to Let Go When You Still Love Your Avoidant Ex | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
April 16, 2025 at 8:16 PM
💔 Can’t let go of your avoidant ex?
In Part 2 of our Healing Hearts series, we break down the anxious-avoidant trap + 5 healing steps that really work.
🎥 Watch now ➡️ youtu.be/x1qgAkAfbtQ
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #relationshipgrowth #traumabond #IFS
In Part 2 of our Healing Hearts series, we break down the anxious-avoidant trap + 5 healing steps that really work.
🎥 Watch now ➡️ youtu.be/x1qgAkAfbtQ
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #relationshipgrowth #traumabond #IFS
💔 Still love your avoidant ex? We just dropped Part 1 of our Healing Hearts series—why it’s so hard to let go & what helps you actually heal.
🎥 Watch here ➡️ youtu.be/mfwyvXnImO8
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #nocontact #traumabond #mentalhealth
🎥 Watch here ➡️ youtu.be/mfwyvXnImO8
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #nocontact #traumabond #mentalhealth
Still Love Your Avoidant Ex? How to Heal | Therapists Tehrina & Joel
YouTube video by Tehrina and Joel Terry, LPC
youtu.be
April 14, 2025 at 6:03 PM
💔 Still love your avoidant ex? We just dropped Part 1 of our Healing Hearts series—why it’s so hard to let go & what helps you actually heal.
🎥 Watch here ➡️ youtu.be/mfwyvXnImO8
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #nocontact #traumabond #mentalhealth
🎥 Watch here ➡️ youtu.be/mfwyvXnImO8
#breakuphealing #avoidantattachment #nocontact #traumabond #mentalhealth
Anxious attachment often leads people to people-please in relationships to avoid abandonment. They may over-apologize, ignore their own needs, and try to keep peace at any cost to maintain closeness.
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
May 23, 2026 at 5:03 PM
Anxious attachment often leads people to people-please in relationships to avoid abandonment. They may over-apologize, ignore their own needs, and try to keep peace at any cost to maintain closeness.
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
#AttachmentTheory
#RelationshipPsychology
#AnxiousAttachment
#AvoidantAttachment
#EmotionalHealy
Avoidants are more sensitive than you can ever imagine and that is why they feel like they have to throw up harsh walls. It’s all in an effort to protect themselves from a perceived danger. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyles #redolove #boundaries #relationships
January 23, 2025 at 12:02 AM
Avoidants are more sensitive than you can ever imagine and that is why they feel like they have to throw up harsh walls. It’s all in an effort to protect themselves from a perceived danger. #avoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyles #redolove #boundaries #relationships
