#cottaging
November 6, 2026 at 2:07 AM
thought this was in response to the cottaging tweet
November 8, 2026 at 7:10 PM
Yeah. Its also OBSESSED with gay people simply existing.
November 7, 2026 at 12:51 PM
you could’ve had a perfectly lovely cottaging encounter there!!!
November 8, 2026 at 2:10 PM
Need one of these for the Bod.

'On your recent visit to the Bodleian Library, which of the following facilities did you use?

- the room for browsing old copies of Playboy magazine
- the WCs with graffiti only in Greek or Latin
- the 'cottaging' WCs
- the dungeon
November 6, 2026 at 9:23 PM
Lol cottaging
November 9, 2026 at 9:34 AM
Well up on cottaging are you??
November 1, 2026 at 5:47 PM
Maybe if you were cottaging.
November 2, 2026 at 7:36 PM
The thing with British English is you can't tell from how a word sounds if a group or activity is wholesome and for all ages, or adults-only

dogging: adults-only
twitcher: all ages
cottaging: adults-only
foamers: all ages
November 1, 2026 at 8:15 PM
I knew one person at 6th form age, but only a little after the fact, and only because he got done for cottaging. Then I met some lovely people at uni.

But I got stigma as gay as an early teen for <checks notes> putting my arm around my friend because he was sad. It was brutal in the 80s.
November 3, 2026 at 12:59 PM
Cottaging was much more productive and a hell of a lot cheaper 🤣
October 29, 2026 at 6:25 PM
You have go pay to go cottaging now? Outrageous !! Is nothing sacred anymore 😥
October 28, 2026 at 4:16 PM
@toffeeman1971.bsky.social, Brian has this cottaging concept wrong again.
October 24, 2026 at 12:34 PM
depends on the location and the participants

dogging is for non-specific-sexualities fucking in public/semi-public spaces

cottaging is for gay men in public toilets

then you got your regular shagging which is just a catchall for sex
October 23, 2026 at 9:16 PM
Is this a convoluted euphemism for cottaging?
October 21, 2026 at 7:50 AM
Cottaging does happen. And when they're at the urinals, they look.
October 21, 2026 at 7:33 PM
Cottaging stories are 🤤
October 17, 2026 at 4:13 PM
Six+ months I’ve been going to these spanking events and only occasionally have sex as part of.

Today I discovered that the last half hour is basically an orgy in the toilets.

I’ve been cottaging since 1988 and it never occurred to me to check there.

Fucking idiot.
October 17, 2026 at 4:14 PM
After weeks of requests, I’ve popped along to visit my parents.

Big mistake. There’s a new bi guy on my mam’s team at work and she’s been learning about cottaging and glory holes.

And when this auld hag is distressed, she just won’t. shut. up.
October 17, 2026 at 3:32 PM
She gets into her little bag and we go off on our adventures. She has stayed in hotels and AirBnBs. Last year we went cottaging and she discovered stairs for the first time.
October 16, 2026 at 9:26 PM