Good thread, and I will add that men DO NOT LIKE IT when women say "hey, you fucked up," and to the extent that women tend to soften the blow with indirectness, it's because men feel like their honor is insulted if they have to take feedback from women.
I'm not linking to that NYT piece today, but of all the horrible parts of it, this was the worst. This was an explanation of "female vices" in the workplace and LET ME JUST TELL YOU...
November 6, 2025 at 8:56 PM
Good thread, and I will add that men DO NOT LIKE IT when women say "hey, you fucked up," and to the extent that women tend to soften the blow with indirectness, it's because men feel like their honor is insulted if they have to take feedback from women.
For all the tales of Japanese politeness and indirectness, people in Japan can be as blunt, rude, and inconsiderate of another human being’s feelings as anyone else on the planet. In retail, "the customer is god" leads to despicable abuses of staff.
The Myth of Japanese Indirectness and "Subtlety" - Unseen Japan
Stereotypes of Japan as a land of vague meaning and blunted expression are just straight up Orientalism that obscure a complex reality.
unseen-japan.com
August 14, 2026 at 2:03 AM
For all the tales of Japanese politeness and indirectness, people in Japan can be as blunt, rude, and inconsiderate of another human being’s feelings as anyone else on the planet. In retail, "the customer is god" leads to despicable abuses of staff.
The myth of Japanese "indirectness" needs to die. Japan's Ministry of Health receives 1.3 million workplace abuse cases yearly - proving that people in Japan can be as blunt, rude, and inconsiderate as anyone else.
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The Myth of Japanese Indirectness and "Subtlety" - Unseen Japan
Stereotypes of Japan as a land of vague meaning and blunted expression are just straight up Orientalism that obscure a complex reality.
buff.ly
April 18, 2026 at 4:31 PM
The myth of Japanese "indirectness" needs to die. Japan's Ministry of Health receives 1.3 million workplace abuse cases yearly - proving that people in Japan can be as blunt, rude, and inconsiderate as anyone else.
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Why the indirectness?
September 22, 2026 at 1:28 AM
Why the indirectness?
The racialized equivalent for me (ignoring the whole queerness and disability of it all) would be to threaten to send me back to plantation. I mention this because there's some degree of indirectness involved with that threat versus threatening to send a Jewish person to "the camps."
September 18, 2026 at 9:21 AM
The racialized equivalent for me (ignoring the whole queerness and disability of it all) would be to threaten to send me back to plantation. I mention this because there's some degree of indirectness involved with that threat versus threatening to send a Jewish person to "the camps."
It's also the labyrinthine indirectness, which idiots readily mistake for subtlety
December 17, 2024 at 1:47 AM
It's also the labyrinthine indirectness, which idiots readily mistake for subtlety
As I read her, the 'banality' of the banality of evil had two components. One was this openness to normal people via the indirectness of specialized intermediation & bureaucratization. The other was Eichmann's lack of judgment, which for her is a big, important, complicated thing.
July 2, 2025 at 4:36 PM
As I read her, the 'banality' of the banality of evil had two components. One was this openness to normal people via the indirectness of specialized intermediation & bureaucratization. The other was Eichmann's lack of judgment, which for her is a big, important, complicated thing.
Reading this week: Lessons for Theory from Scientific Domains Where Evidence is Sparse or Indirect. "In many scientific fields, sparseness and indirectness of empirical evidence pose fundamental challenges to theory development." link.springer.com/article/10.1...
June 2, 2025 at 8:00 AM
Reading this week: Lessons for Theory from Scientific Domains Where Evidence is Sparse or Indirect. "In many scientific fields, sparseness and indirectness of empirical evidence pose fundamental challenges to theory development." link.springer.com/article/10.1...
He knows Soap is intense in almost everything he does, everything that counts. He’s intense in his pursuit of Ghost, in his friendship… and in maybe something more, even in his indirectness. Since day one, Soap’s been pushing himself into his lieutenants vision. (4/34)
October 23, 2024 at 5:14 PM
He knows Soap is intense in almost everything he does, everything that counts. He’s intense in his pursuit of Ghost, in his friendship… and in maybe something more, even in his indirectness. Since day one, Soap’s been pushing himself into his lieutenants vision. (4/34)
Idc, idc!!! Y'all scream stop with indirectness and hints yet............. start a trend of subskeeting.........which is practicing indir-...you know what...
And ion care, I'll be the wet blanket 🤷🏾♂️
And ion care, I'll be the wet blanket 🤷🏾♂️
December 10, 2024 at 12:00 AM
Idc, idc!!! Y'all scream stop with indirectness and hints yet............. start a trend of subskeeting.........which is practicing indir-...you know what...
And ion care, I'll be the wet blanket 🤷🏾♂️
And ion care, I'll be the wet blanket 🤷🏾♂️
You ever start a book and there’s so much talking around the point, indirectness, vagueocity and purple prose that even several chapters into it you’re just like, ‘no but like what is the *plot* here because I cannot figure it out?’ No? Just me being stupid? Cool cool cool. 🙈
June 28, 2025 at 7:32 AM
You ever start a book and there’s so much talking around the point, indirectness, vagueocity and purple prose that even several chapters into it you’re just like, ‘no but like what is the *plot* here because I cannot figure it out?’ No? Just me being stupid? Cool cool cool. 🙈
Stereotypes of Japan as a land of vague meaning and blunted expression are just straight-up Orientalism and obscure a complex reality. Here's why blanket statements about Japanese being a "subtle language" need to be taken with a grain of salt.
The Myth of Japanese Indirectness and "Subtlety" - Unseen Japan
Stereotypes of Japan as a land of vague meaning and blunted expression are just straight up Orientalism that obscure a complex reality.
buff.ly
October 16, 2025 at 1:19 PM
Stereotypes of Japan as a land of vague meaning and blunted expression are just straight-up Orientalism and obscure a complex reality. Here's why blanket statements about Japanese being a "subtle language" need to be taken with a grain of salt.
Back in 2021ish, you led me to Jennifer Richeson and the notion of democratizing discomfort. Being a non-Black person in predominantly white communities, I’m still learning the hard way that the wypipo response is “oh fuck no” but with pearl clutching..indirectness
August 8, 2025 at 6:43 PM
Back in 2021ish, you led me to Jennifer Richeson and the notion of democratizing discomfort. Being a non-Black person in predominantly white communities, I’m still learning the hard way that the wypipo response is “oh fuck no” but with pearl clutching..indirectness
excellent response from @domsalisbury.bsky.social to unwarranted recommendations in new review from @bmj.com of treatments for Long Covid. www.bmj.com/content/387/...
Heterogeneity in long COVID and inadequate assessment of post-exertional malaise contribute to issues of indirectness in trials with high risk of bias
www.bmj.com
December 9, 2024 at 2:41 AM
excellent response from @domsalisbury.bsky.social to unwarranted recommendations in new review from @bmj.com of treatments for Long Covid. www.bmj.com/content/387/...
obviously, i dont know anything with certainty. but every time i read people talk about the japanese culture of indirectness and how apparently it's like The Thing to communicate through context clues im just like Damn. That kinda sounds like absolute neurodivergent hell actually.
December 8, 2025 at 9:16 PM
obviously, i dont know anything with certainty. but every time i read people talk about the japanese culture of indirectness and how apparently it's like The Thing to communicate through context clues im just like Damn. That kinda sounds like absolute neurodivergent hell actually.
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March 2, 2026 at 1:52 PM
I love a hot introduction.
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The role of 6-minute walk test and pulmonary function testing in patients with post COVID-19 condition: a systematic review and meta-analysis
dx.doi.org/10.1093/famp...
"The overall certainty of the evidence was very low due to the high risk of bias, indirectness, and imprecision”
#LongCovid
dx.doi.org/10.1093/famp...
"The overall certainty of the evidence was very low due to the high risk of bias, indirectness, and imprecision”
#LongCovid
dx.doi.org
September 28, 2026 at 2:54 PM
The role of 6-minute walk test and pulmonary function testing in patients with post COVID-19 condition: a systematic review and meta-analysis
dx.doi.org/10.1093/famp...
"The overall certainty of the evidence was very low due to the high risk of bias, indirectness, and imprecision”
#LongCovid
dx.doi.org/10.1093/famp...
"The overall certainty of the evidence was very low due to the high risk of bias, indirectness, and imprecision”
#LongCovid
Finally, indirectness & sparseness of evidence are more common across scientific fields than we think. Acknowledging this & adopting the 5 practices as scientific community (no individual can do it all!) can make theoretical development more honest & productive. 10/
Lessons for Theory from Scientific Domains Where Evidence is Sparse or Indirect - Computational Brain & Behavior
In many scientific fields, sparseness and indirectness of empirical evidence pose fundamental challenges to theory development. Theories of the evolution of human cognition provide a guiding example, ...
link.springer.com
May 8, 2025 at 7:59 AM
Finally, indirectness & sparseness of evidence are more common across scientific fields than we think. Acknowledging this & adopting the 5 practices as scientific community (no individual can do it all!) can make theoretical development more honest & productive. 10/
8:19am EDT: Moon in Libra sextile Mercury in Leo. We understand one another perfectly. Directness, indirectness, bold strokes and subtlety. Every little arrow of meaning is hitting its target. 12°Li08' D 12°Le08' D
August 16, 2026 at 12:19 PM
8:19am EDT: Moon in Libra sextile Mercury in Leo. We understand one another perfectly. Directness, indirectness, bold strokes and subtlety. Every little arrow of meaning is hitting its target. 12°Li08' D 12°Le08' D
and there's a sort of axis of indirectness- eg if doing wfc or generated poetry from a curated corpus, the agency is looking at fine features and using that to guide higher level curation (this still often involves a lot of low level special cases and detail oriented decision making).
June 27, 2026 at 8:39 PM
and there's a sort of axis of indirectness- eg if doing wfc or generated poetry from a curated corpus, the agency is looking at fine features and using that to guide higher level curation (this still often involves a lot of low level special cases and detail oriented decision making).
its like whatever but i gottaa ask why you specifically see someone happy and need to be like "teehee i wanna be mean but its oomf 😶😶😶" like youre still posting about it i can still read it. the indirectness is arguably ruder.
April 8, 2025 at 2:15 AM
its like whatever but i gottaa ask why you specifically see someone happy and need to be like "teehee i wanna be mean but its oomf 😶😶😶" like youre still posting about it i can still read it. the indirectness is arguably ruder.
If someone has an issue with me, please tell me directly. I'm fed up of sometimes feeling like I'm walking on eggshells, when I'm not sure if it's for a legit reason or if it's all in my head.
None of this indirectness please, I don't have the energy for that.
None of this indirectness please, I don't have the energy for that.
August 17, 2026 at 5:36 PM
If someone has an issue with me, please tell me directly. I'm fed up of sometimes feeling like I'm walking on eggshells, when I'm not sure if it's for a legit reason or if it's all in my head.
None of this indirectness please, I don't have the energy for that.
None of this indirectness please, I don't have the energy for that.