#polyam
ok but like hear me out: solo polyam is fun & not having expectations forced on you after escaping a long term relationship is a relief
November 12, 2026 at 10:09 PM
polyam in a "only being pet n only being touched by one or two ppl makes kitty feel sad" kind of way
November 13, 2026 at 3:44 AM
the more affairs jensen huang has the more i start to believe we could learn something from him for polyam scheduling. if he solved that it would be his only real benefit to society
November 12, 2026 at 11:53 PM
Polyam is a way I love and build relationships that has become essential to how I live. Because I have put the work in and it works, I can't imagine not being polyam in the future. I am polyam in that way, as well as polyam being a thing one can try.
November 13, 2026 at 10:56 AM
It's been a very, very day-slash-week. I work in IT! 'Nuff said!

(You know those guys who crow about being polyam because it's "more evolved/enlightened" or whatever?

Same breed of smug self-absorbed dipshit, y/y?)
November 14, 2026 at 4:53 AM
Non/dubcon YEAH Hic and I would both be down for that tbh LMAO It'd be a fun and toxic kinda ride.

Polyam no, simply on the basis of I don't really enjoy many polyam ships AND ☝ I sincerely doubt Mozenrath would want to share Rapunzel with anyone lmao (Esp Eugene.)
November 13, 2026 at 7:15 PM
My lovelies: is it a red flag if someone says that STDs are just something “unavoidable” when it comes to being polyam/having sex, and that it’s bound to happen eventually?

Asking for a friend.
November 15, 2026 at 2:45 PM
Big red flag, clearly they don't know how polyam works and safe sex.

I dare say that maybe they shouldn't have sex at all
November 15, 2026 at 2:57 PM
Obviously I'm a queer dude that's going to advocate for yaoi 100% of the time but let's not shove the canon women aside

Already had enough of that with Mel Medarda and Jayvik

It can just be solved with polyam
November 13, 2026 at 10:34 PM
in a just polyam world their wouldnt be a notion of relationship scandals or cheating. in a further just world their also wouldnt be the notion of spies or corpo secrets.
November 13, 2026 at 7:18 AM
This is why we need polyam rights smh
November 9, 2026 at 6:18 AM
Learning your polyam number is very important
November 13, 2026 at 1:00 AM
LSKGLKJ I cackled at this name, very happy for her!!! 😹😹
November 9, 2026 at 1:42 AM
Y'all, I recommend Skye's work with my entire voice. Like. This is exactly what it says on the package and WHOMST AMONG US does not want a polyam found family h/c post-collapse story????
Clark finds new love with Van and grows close to Van's (amazing) girlfriend Hadas, but to keep it all, both men must overcome past losses... and the bandits that threaten their close-knit small town, eek!
p.s. The horses and the dog are always fine.

Get it: skyewritesromance.co...
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November 13, 2026 at 4:38 PM
Vico talked about the explicitly filmed polyam stuff and how it was taken out but I can't remember where
November 10, 2026 at 6:11 PM
Everytime I make a post about the lack of hot lesbian polyam muscle mommies in Vegas, no one takes the bait 😒
November 14, 2026 at 6:26 PM
I know polyam isn’t for everyone but I do feel sad that some people don’t realize how they might be limiting the amount of love they give and accept
November 10, 2026 at 12:33 AM
I love being polyam so much bc I have my hubby and being gay w other queers is hehehe kicks feet !!!!!

Like lemme give you some lovings plz! I have so much more to give!!!!!!
November 13, 2026 at 9:40 PM
I WORKED A THING OUT

Okay so I got some friendly and thoughtful pushback on this, and had a think about how practices BECOME identity, and I think I've hit on a way to express what I believe:

I'm polyam the same way I'm a poet.
Sometimes polyam discourse makes no sense to me at all.

Like, if you decide you want to pursue polyamory good for you but I don't like the framing of it as like, sitting your mono partner down and coming out to them as polyam

I feel like polyam is a thing you do more than a thing you are
November 13, 2026 at 10:50 AM
(Very important to re-state this is a nuanced take on my own feelings and situation in relation to polyam like I'm sure there's plenty of happy polyam relationships out there, we just don't hear about them because they're minding their own business and enjoying their life)
November 15, 2026 at 1:21 PM
Also I feel that this should go without saying but obviously I have no issue with polyam lmao I'm just insanely picky which is why I "don't enjoy many"
November 13, 2026 at 7:44 PM
I love seeing more polyam romantasy entering the world!

My favorite romance tropes? Secret pining, slow-burn, and friends-to-lovers
Where are my fans of long romance books at? How bout queer romance? Poly? I got all 3 baby. ✨️

I'm curious. Quote this with your fave romance tropes!

2 more of mine: monster romance & enemies/rivals to lovers.

All these are in Between You, Me, & the Moonlit Sea! ⬇️
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November 12, 2026 at 12:41 AM
this is entirely about my bullshit & no one elses. also i know solo polyam doesn’t always work like that , but it’s how i’m doing it alongside relationship anarchy
November 12, 2026 at 10:10 PM
Oh and Vico mentioned discreetly slipping some polyam terminology back into Jim's dialogue (with the writers' okay) because they wanted to make sure that their community was seen - specifically with Jim referring to Olu as their anchor.
November 10, 2026 at 7:29 PM
November 13, 2026 at 1:30 PM