Shared custody with an abuser isn’t co-parenting—it’s court-sanctioned access to harm.
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
February 7, 2026 at 12:30 AM
Shared custody with an abuser isn’t co-parenting—it’s court-sanctioned access to harm.
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers don’t co-parent, they counter-parent. They harm, or place their own children at risk, as a tactic to control, frighten, antagonize, or take revenge against the other parent.
##PostSeparationAbuse
##PostSeparationAbuse
January 13, 2025 at 6:02 AM
Abusers don’t co-parent, they counter-parent. They harm, or place their own children at risk, as a tactic to control, frighten, antagonize, or take revenge against the other parent.
##PostSeparationAbuse
##PostSeparationAbuse
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February 14, 2026 at 9:37 AM
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Ask the men in your life what their child payment arrangements are.
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December 4, 2024 at 8:11 AM
Ask the men in your life what their child payment arrangements are.
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Legal abuse is real. Abusers often weaponise the family court system to maintain control and punish survivors post-separation.
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
August 22, 2025 at 11:30 PM
Legal abuse is real. Abusers often weaponise the family court system to maintain control and punish survivors post-separation.
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
Shared custody with an abuser isn’t co-parenting—it’s court-sanctioned access to harm.
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
September 5, 2025 at 12:02 PM
Shared custody with an abuser isn’t co-parenting—it’s court-sanctioned access to harm.
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
#ProtectChildren #PostSeparationAbuse
to protect survivors fail them.
Really powerful conversation leading into this week’s IVAT International Summit. @ivatjournals.bsky.social
Watch the full conversation:
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#CoerciveControl #PostSeparationAbuse #DomesticViolence #SurvivorAdvocacy #IVAT2026 #IVATHelps
Really powerful conversation leading into this week’s IVAT International Summit. @ivatjournals.bsky.social
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When Escaping Abuse Is Only the Beginning: A Conversation with Dana Tingey
YouTube video by Paul Howard
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September 23, 2026 at 4:38 PM
to protect survivors fail them.
Really powerful conversation leading into this week’s IVAT International Summit. @ivatjournals.bsky.social
Watch the full conversation:
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Really powerful conversation leading into this week’s IVAT International Summit. @ivatjournals.bsky.social
Watch the full conversation:
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Leaving doesn’t always mean the abuse ends. It often just changes form.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
November 22, 2025 at 12:30 AM
Leaving doesn’t always mean the abuse ends. It often just changes form.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
May 23, 2025 at 5:02 AM
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
Judges, law enforcement, lawyers, etc... need to be educated on the "Dynamics" of #domesticviolence #narcissisticabuse #DARVO #postseparationabuse.
April 8, 2025 at 11:02 AM
Judges, law enforcement, lawyers, etc... need to be educated on the "Dynamics" of #domesticviolence #narcissisticabuse #DARVO #postseparationabuse.
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
February 27, 2025 at 6:02 AM
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
Legal abuse is real. Abusers often weaponise the family court system to maintain control and punish survivors post-separation.
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
January 26, 2026 at 12:29 AM
Legal abuse is real. Abusers often weaponise the family court system to maintain control and punish survivors post-separation.
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
#PostSeparationAbuse #CoerciveControl
Abusers often weaponize the children to exert control even after the relationship ends. This is one of the most dangerous and painful tactics survivors face.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
August 3, 2026 at 12:02 PM
Abusers often weaponize the children to exert control even after the relationship ends. This is one of the most dangerous and painful tactics survivors face.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
After separation, abusers often try to sabotage the relationship between their partner and their children by badmouthing their partner or spreading lies. They might manipulate the children to take their side, causing emotional conflict and loyalty issues. 😪 #PostSeparationAbuse
December 29, 2025 at 10:30 PM
After separation, abusers often try to sabotage the relationship between their partner and their children by badmouthing their partner or spreading lies. They might manipulate the children to take their side, causing emotional conflict and loyalty issues. 😪 #PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers often weaponize the children to exert control even after the relationship ends. This is one of the most dangerous and painful tactics survivors face.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
December 13, 2025 at 12:30 AM
Abusers often weaponize the children to exert control even after the relationship ends. This is one of the most dangerous and painful tactics survivors face.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support. #PostSeparationAbuse
September 2, 2025 at 3:02 PM
Abusers start smear campaigns, spreading false info to isolate you by turning others against you. It’s their revenge & a way to regain power after you leave, causing emotional distress & damaging your reputation, making it harder to seek support. #PostSeparationAbuse
Abusers don’t co-parent, they counter-parent. They harm, or place their own children at risk, as a tactic to control, frighten, antagonize, or take revenge against the other parent.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
August 15, 2026 at 9:29 PM
Abusers don’t co-parent, they counter-parent. They harm, or place their own children at risk, as a tactic to control, frighten, antagonize, or take revenge against the other parent.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
My abusive ex-husband just filed for a court hearing because I said no to our 9-year-old playing 18+ video games and watching 18+ movies. A whole legal battle… because I protected our child.
#PostSeparationAbuse #FamilyCourt
#PostSeparationAbuse #FamilyCourt
December 4, 2025 at 12:28 PM
My abusive ex-husband just filed for a court hearing because I said no to our 9-year-old playing 18+ video games and watching 18+ movies. A whole legal battle… because I protected our child.
#PostSeparationAbuse #FamilyCourt
#PostSeparationAbuse #FamilyCourt
I’ve been trying to leave for a decade. In separate houses at least now but kids and the financial stuff makes it so hard to fully get away and be free.
Because it often doesn’t stop when you’re out - just morphs into a new form. #postseparationabuse
Because it often doesn’t stop when you’re out - just morphs into a new form. #postseparationabuse
June 1, 2025 at 5:19 AM
I’ve been trying to leave for a decade. In separate houses at least now but kids and the financial stuff makes it so hard to fully get away and be free.
Because it often doesn’t stop when you’re out - just morphs into a new form. #postseparationabuse
Because it often doesn’t stop when you’re out - just morphs into a new form. #postseparationabuse
Abusers don’t co-parent, they counter-parent. They harm, or place their own children at risk, as a tactic to control, frighten, antagonize, or take revenge against the other parent.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
May 25, 2025 at 6:03 PM
Abusers don’t co-parent, they counter-parent. They harm, or place their own children at risk, as a tactic to control, frighten, antagonize, or take revenge against the other parent.
#PostSeparationAbuse
#PostSeparationAbuse
This is Global #LanguageMatters
A dictionary definition of Violence
Changing the Grammar of violence
Word by Word
Sentence by Sentence
Translation by Translation
Border by Border
Rule by Rule
#VAWG #VAWC #CSA #HumanRights #ChildRights #PostSeparationAbuse #Lawfare @profayebkarlsson.bsky.social
A dictionary definition of Violence
Changing the Grammar of violence
Word by Word
Sentence by Sentence
Translation by Translation
Border by Border
Rule by Rule
#VAWG #VAWC #CSA #HumanRights #ChildRights #PostSeparationAbuse #Lawfare @profayebkarlsson.bsky.social
April 25, 2025 at 10:04 AM
This is Global #LanguageMatters
A dictionary definition of Violence
Changing the Grammar of violence
Word by Word
Sentence by Sentence
Translation by Translation
Border by Border
Rule by Rule
#VAWG #VAWC #CSA #HumanRights #ChildRights #PostSeparationAbuse #Lawfare @profayebkarlsson.bsky.social
A dictionary definition of Violence
Changing the Grammar of violence
Word by Word
Sentence by Sentence
Translation by Translation
Border by Border
Rule by Rule
#VAWG #VAWC #CSA #HumanRights #ChildRights #PostSeparationAbuse #Lawfare @profayebkarlsson.bsky.social
Abusers often exploit children as a means to exert control, turning them into tools for manipulation and emotional pain. Survivors share their stories of how their partners weaponized their own children to maintain dominance. #PostSeparationAbuse
How Abusers Manipulate Children to Maintain Control
Discover how abusers use manipulation tactics to control and manipulate children in domestic abuse situations. Learn how to break the cycle.
shadowsofcontrol.com
January 8, 2025 at 3:16 PM
Abusers often exploit children as a means to exert control, turning them into tools for manipulation and emotional pain. Survivors share their stories of how their partners weaponized their own children to maintain dominance. #PostSeparationAbuse